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VOL. 7
THE
RETURN OF PRAYERS:
A TREATISE,
WHEREIN THIS CASE,
HOW TO DISCERN GOD'S
ANSWER TO OUR PRAYERS,
IS BRIEFLY RESOLVED.
PSAL. LXXXV. 8.
I will hear what GOD
the Lord will speak. For he will speak Peace unto his People, and to his
Saints; but let them not turn again to folly.
THE COHERENCE OF THE WORDS.
THIS psalm
was penned in the name and for the comfort of the whole church of the Jews, both
as a prophecy of, and a prayer for, their return out of the Babylonish
captivity, and the flowing in again of that ancient glory, peace,
administration of justice, liberty of GOD's ordinances,
plenty and increase, which formerly they enjoyed, but had now suffered an ebb
of seventy years continuance. And first, the psalmist beginneth
with prayer, from the first verse to this we have in hand, putting the Lord in
mind of, and urging him with his gracious dealings in former times: this is
not the first time, says he, that the church has been in captivity, and that
you have returned it, (as out of Egypt,) and therefore we hope that you wilt do
so again; "You have been favorable unto thy land; you have brought back
the captivity of Jacob." His prayer being finished, and he having spoke,
he now stands and listens, as you use to do when you expect an echo, what
answer would be returned from heaven, whither his prayer had already come;
" I will hear what the Lord will speak:" Or, as sonic read it, "
I hear what the Lord does speak." Foi sometimes
there is a present echo, a speedy answer returned to a man's heart, even ere
the prayer is half finished, as unto Daniel, ch. 9:
2O, 21. And in brief it is this, "The Lord will speak peace unto his
people." This answer he finds written at the bottom of the petition; but
with this clause of admonition for time to come; "But let them not turn
again to folly."
CHAP. 1
That GOD's People are diligently to observe the Answers
to their Prayers.
THESE words
being especially spoken by the psalmist in relation to the answer of GOD
returned to his prayer, in that relation I mean principally to handle them. And
here I shall observe, when a man has put up prayers to GOD, he is to rest
assured that GOD will answer his prayers, and to listen diligently, and observe
how his prayers are answered: " I will hear what GOD will speak;"
that is, how he will accomplish them; and withal he expresseth
an assurance that GOD "will speak peace." So Habakkuk, having made a
prayer against the tyranny of Nebuchadnezzar, in the first chapter, begins the
second thus: "I will stand upon my watch-tower, and see what he will
answer me:" And an answer comes verse 2.
And as he thus waited, (for some time their prophecies were
in answer to their prayers,) so should we for au answer unto ours: otherwise
you use an ordinance of GOD iii vain; which is to take GOD's
name (with whom in that ordinance you (leal,) in
vain. For it is a sign you think your prayer not an effectual means to attain
that end it is ordained for; and say secretly iu your
hearts, "What profit have we, if we pray to him?" For it we use any
means, and expect not the end, it is a sign we think the means vain to
accomplish that end. Whereas every faithful prayer is ordained of GOD to be a
means to obtain what we pray for, and is not put up iii vain, but shall have an
answer: 1 John 5: 14, 15, " This is the confidence that we have in him,
that if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth
us." It is true, GOD heareth an enemy; but to
hear with favor, is the hearing there meant; and so it follows, that " if
he heareth us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we
have the petitions that: we desired of hint."
As soon as
we have prayed, we are said to have our petitions; that is, they arc then granted;
although, in regard of outward dispensation, the command for accomplishment is
not yet come forth. Even as a petitioner is said to have his suit, when the
word of the king is gone forth, that it shall be done. As when a wicked man sinneth, as soon as the act is committed, so soon does
sentence from GOD go forth against the sinner; (though the execution overtakes
him not, it may be, for a good while after;) so when a good man prays, as soon
as the prayer arrives in heaven, which is in an instant, so soon is the
petition granted. So that no prayer, in respect to an answer to it, is in vain;
but where GOD has given a heart to speak, heath an car to hear, and Iove to return an answer; which not to regard, is to take
all ordinance in vain, which is GOD's name.
And it is
not simply to take GOD's name in vain, as in an
ordinance made known, but also his name, that is, his attributes, are taken in
vain. For it is a sign you think of that GOD you pray to, that either "his
ear is heavy that he, cannot hear; or his hand shortened, that he cannot save;
or his heart straitened, and his bowels restrained, that he will not." And
thus you rob him of one of his most royal titles, whereby he styles himself
" a GOD that heareth prayers;" who is so
regardful of them, that, 1 Kings 8: 59, they are said to be "nigh the Lord
day and night;" they are all before him, and he sets them in his view as
we do letters of friends, which we lay not out of our bosoms, that we might be
sure not to forget them: so the petitions of his people pass not out of his
sight till he sends an answer, which is called speaking here; GOD speaking a,
well in his works as in his word.
But you, by
your neglect herein, make an idol GOD of him; such were the vanities of the
heathen; as if he had " ears and heard not, eyes
and saw not" your need: such a GOD as Elijah mocked; You must speak
aloud," says he, "he may be in a journey, or peradventure he slecpeth, and must be awaked." Even such a GOD do you
make the GOD of heaven and earth to be, whilst you put no more confidence in
him, or make no more reckoning of your prayers to him, than the heathens did of
their sacrifices to their GODs. Petitioners do not
only put up their requests, but use to wait at great men's doors, and inquire
what answer is given unto them; and it is part of an honor to great men that we
do so; and for the same end we are also to wait on GOD as an acknowledgment of
his greatness, and our distance from him, and dependence upon him. "As the
eyes of servants look to the hand of their masters, so do we (says David,) to
thee, till you have mercy on us."
Again, if GOD does give you an answer, if you mind it not,
you let GOD speak to you in vain. If two men walk together, and the one, when
himself has spoke what he would, listens not, but is regardless of what the
other answers, he exceedingly slights the man. As not to answer again is
contempt, so also is not to attend to what one says. Now, our speaking to GOD
by prayers, and his speaking to us by answers, and our comparing our prayers
and his answers together, which are as dialogues between us and him, is one
great part of our walking with GOD. It is said of Samuel's prophecy, that
"not a word of it fell to the ground:" and so it may be said of our
prayers; and so it ought to be of GOD's answers; " not a word of them should fall to the ground;"
as there does if you observe them Lot. By the same
reason that you are to observe the fulfilling of GOD's
promises, you are of your prayers also. Now, 1 Kings 8: 56, it is said, " Not one word failed of all he promised." Solomon
had observed this by a particular survey and register made of all that GOD had
spoken and done for them, and found not a promise unperformed: And there is the
like reason both of answers to prayers, (for prayers are but putting promises
into suit,) and for our observing of them; and therefore Solomon brings those
words in there to this very purpose, to confirm their faith in this, that no
prayers made would fail, being grounded on a promise, thereby to encourage
others and his own heart to diligence herein.
Yea, if you
hearken not to the Lord, you will provoke him not to answer at all; he will
forbear to answer, because he sees it will be in vain. When a man is talking to
one that listens not to him, he will leave off speaking, and sa will GOD. That which the
apostle says of faith, that it is not enough to believe, but "when you
have done the will of GOD, you have need of patience, that you may inherit the
promises," may be. also said of praying: It is not enough to pray, but after
you have prayed you have need to listen for an answer, that you may receive
your prayers; GOD will not fulfill them else. As he said, "The sermon was
not done" when the preacher had done, because it is not done till
practiced; so our prayers are not done when made, but we must further wait for,
and attend the accomplishment.
Farther, if you observe not his answers, how shall you bless
GOD? You are "to watch unto prayer with thanksgiving:" and therefore,
as you are to watch, to observe and recollect your own wants, that you may have
matter of requests to put up, so are you also to observe GOD's
answers for matter of thanksgiving. If any study will furnish you this way, it
is the studying GOD's answers to your prayers. The
reason you pray so much, and give thanks so little, is, that you mind not GOD's answers; you do not study them. When we have put up a
faithful prayer, GOD is made our debtor by promise, and we are to take notice
of his payment, and give him an acknowledgment of the receipt of it, otherwise
he loses of his glory.
As GOD
loses, so yourselves also lose the experience which
you might get hereby. 1. The experience of GOD's
faithfulness, which will cause in you hope and confidence in GOD another time,
when you have found him again and again answering your prayers. It was a speech
of one eminent in holiness, upon occasion of the accomplishment of a great
request made to GOD by him, "I have tried GOD often; now, (says he,)
henceforth 1 will trust him." So David, Psal. cxvi. 1, 2, "The Lord has heard me, and I will call
upon him as long as I live." 2. By observing GOD's
answers to your prayers, you will gain much insight into your own hearts, and
ways, and prayers, and may thereby learn how to judge of them. So, Psal. lxvi.
18, 19, David's assurance that he did not regard iniquity in his heart, was
strengthened by GOD's having heard his prayers; for
thus he reasons, " If I regard iniquity in my heart, GOD will not hear me:
but GOD has heard me." For if GOD does not grant your petitions, it will
put you to study a reason of that his dealing; and so you will come to search
into your prayers and the carriage of your hearts, to see whether you did not
pray amiss; according to that, "Ye have not, because ye ask amiss,"
Jam. 4: 3.1 As if you send to a friend, who is punctual in returning answers,
and you receive no answer from him, you will begin to think there is something
in it; so here, when a petition is denied, you will be jealous of yourselves,
and inquisitive what should be the matter, and so by that search come to see
that in your prayers which you will learn to mend the next time. Or if they be
answered, yet because therein usually GOD deals in a proportion with you to
your prayers, (as you might perceive, if you observe his dealings with you,) you
would by this means come to have much insight into GOD's
acceptance of your ways. For you would see his dealings with you, and yours
with him, to be in proportion each with the other. So, Psal. 18: 6, "In my distress, I called upon the
Lord;" and in the 7th and following verses, he goes on to describe his
deliverance, which was the fruit of those prayers; and then, ver. 2O, 21, he adds his observation upon both,
"According to the cleanness of my hands has he dealt with me: for with the
pure you wilt show thyself pure."
Lastly, by
not listening to GOD, you will lose much of your comfort. There is no greater
joy than to sec prayers answered, or to see souls converted by us, John 16: 24,
"Ask and you shall reeeive, that your joy may be
full." The receiving answers makes joy to
overflow. Yea, even when we pray for others, if our prayers be answered for
them, our joys are exceeding great; much more when in our own behalf. And
therein, even in the smallest things which a Christian does enjoy, does his
comforts exceed another's, that he has them by virtue of prayers and promises:
he knows how he came by them. " If stolen water
be sweet, and bread eaten in secret," (as Solomon says,) is pleasant"
to wicked men, begged meat is much more sweet to good men. Yea, in the very
praying for outward mercies, there is more sweetness than they have in enjoying
them. As it is joy to a good heart to see any one converted, but more to him
that is the means of it; (" I have no greater joy, says St. John, than
that my children walk in truth;") so to see GOD do good to the church, and
hear others' prayers, is a comfort; but much more to see him do it in answer to
a man's own prayers. Therefore when GOD restores comfort to a drooping soil, he
is said, Psal. lvii. "
to restore comfort also to his mourners;" that is, to those that prayed
and mourned for him, as well as unto that soul itself, it being a comfort to
them to see their prayers answered. Comfort it is many ways: 1. To hear from GOD as to hear from a friend, though it be but
two or three words, and that about a small matter, satisfies abundantly. So also, 2. To know that GOD is mindful of us, accepts our
works, fulfils his promises. 3. How does it rejoice one to find another of his
mind in a controversy? But that GOD and we should be of one mind, and concur in
the desire of the same things, this rejoiceth the
heart exceedingly. And,thus
it is when a man perceives his prayer answered. Therefore you lose your comfort
in blessings, when you do not observe answers to- your prayers.
CHAP. 2
Three Cases
propounded: the first concerning Prayers for the Accomplishment of such
Promises as may fall out in Ages to come.
Now as for
helps to know when GOD does any thing in answer to your prayers, this is the
next thing to be handled; wherein, first, I will consider some cases which may
fall out in several sorts of prayers. 1; Concerning
prayers put up for the church, for such things as fall out in ages to come. 2.
Concerning prayers made for others of your friends, kindred, or acquaintance.
3. Concerning those prayers wherein others join with you.
For the
first: There may be some prayers which you must be content never yourselves to
see answered in this world, the accomplishment of them not falling out in your
time. Such as are those you make, for the calling of the Jews, the utter
downfall of GOD's enemies, the pars titular
flourishing of the society you live in. All you whose hearts are right,
treasure up many such prayers, and sow much of such precious seed; which you
must be content to have the church, it may be, in after ages to reap. All which
prayers are not yet lost, but will have answers: For as GOD is an eternal GOD,
and CHRIST's righteousness an everlasting
righteousness, and therefore of eternal efficacy, Dan. 9: 24, " being offered
up by the Eternal Spirit," Heb. 9: 14; so are prayers also, which are the
work of the eternal Spirit of CHRIST, and in him are eternally accepted; and
therefore may take place in after ages. So the prayer that St. Stephen made for
his persecutors, took place in Saul when Stephen was
dead. So the prayers of the church, for three hundred years in the primitive
times, that kings might "come to the knowledge of the truth," and CHRIST's disciples lead peaceable and quiet lives in all GODliness and honesty," (which St. Paul in Nero's time
exhorted unto, 1Tim. 2: 2,) were not answered till Constantine's time. So Isa. lviii.
after the prophet had exhorted to, and given
directions for fasting and prayer in a right manner, he adjoineth
this promise: You shall "raise up the foundation of many generations; you
shall be called the repairer of the breach;" namely, for this, because his
fasting and prayers might have influence into many ages yet to come. And that
may be one reason why GOD will do such great things towards the end of the
world, even because there has been so great a stock of prayers, for so many
ages, which is now to be returned. And herein it fails out to us in our prayers
as in their prophecies to the prophets of old, " The
Spirit in them did signify the sufferings of CHRIST, and the glory that should
follow. Unto whom it was revealed, that not unto themselves, but unto us they
did minister the things that are now revealed." Thus is it in the Spirit
of prayer, which is instead of the Spirit of prophecy: for we
pray through the guidance of the Spirit, who teacheth
us what to ask for many things that shall come to pass in after ages.
Only at
present, it may be, in prayer you have revealed unto thee, by a secret
impression made on thy spirit, that these things shall come to pass, and so Nast thy faith confirmed in them, and withal an evidence, that even for prayers, among others, GOD will
perform them. And upon such prayers GOD usually for the present also testifies
the acceptation of a man's person; as he did to Moses he never revealed his
love to Moses more, than when he prayed most for GOD's
people.
And when
they are accomplished, and you in heaven, thy joy will surely be the more full
for these thy prayers for if there be " joy in heaven at the conversion of:t sinner, (as at the birth of a
new prince and heir of heaven,) then in proportion he shall rejoice most, whose
prayers had most hand therein. And so, as thy other works, so thy prayers
follow thee, and the fruit of them, as Jeremiah speaks. You shall rejoice, as
well as they that enjoyed the fruit of thy prayers in their times, you having
sown the seed of their happiness; " both he that
sows, and he that reaps, shall then rejoice together"
CHAP. 3
How Prayers for our Friends are answered.
THE second
case is, concerning answers to our prayers for others, and likewise for
temporal blessings. Pray for others, you know, we must. So the elders of the
church for those that are sick, " Pray for one
another," says St. James, chap. 5: 15, 16. So also, 1 John 5: 16, "
If a man see his brother sin a sin, which is not unto death, he shall ask life
for him, and GOD shall give him life that sins not unto death."
1. Such
prayers GOD often heareth; why else are any such
promises made? As " that they shall be healed in
their bodies," Jam.
5: 15; "healed of their
lusts," ver. 16; " converted to life,"
1 John 5: 16. GOD has made these
promises to encourage us to pray, and to testify his abundant love to us; that
it so overflows, that he will hear us, not only for ourselves, but for others
also. So GOD intimates concerning Abraham, to Abimelech,
Gen. 20: 7, "he is a prophet, and he shall pray for thee, and you shall
live;" and as he was a prophet, so we are priests; as for our-selves so
for others also, to GOD our Father. And it is a prerogative we have through the
fellowship we have of CHRIST's priestly office,
" who hat' made us kings and priests," to prevail for others; and a
special token of extraordinary love. For if GOD hears a man's prayers for
others, much more for himself. So when CHRIST healed the man sick of the palsy,
it was, as it is said, " For the faith of the standers-by," Matt. 9:
2; " he seeing their faith said, thy sins are forgiven thee:" not as
if for their faith he forgave that man his sins, for, " the just does live
by his (own) faith:" but to encourage then), who out of faith brought that
sick man to him; and us all in like manner, he took occasion to pronounce forgiveness
to that poor man.
2. Yet
secondly, prayers for others may often not obtain the particular thing prayed
for them. So Samuel's prayer for Saul, 1 Sam. ay. 35.
So David for his cue-lilies, Psal. xxxv. 13. For it
is in this, as. it, is in the use of other means for the good of others, GOD
making such promises to our prayers herein as he has made to our endeavors to
convert when the preach. As we preach to many, and yet but few believe, so we
pray for many, not knowing who will receive the blessing: which whilst we know
not, we are yet to pray for them, 1 Tim. 2: 3, 4. Only as where GOD has set his
ordinance of preaching, it is a probable sign he has some to convert; so when
he has stirred up our hearts to pray for others, it is a sign GOD will hear us
for some of those we pray for, GOD's promise to hear
the prayer is universal; yet the promise to hear it, by granting the very thing
prayed for, is but an indefinite promise; such as he makes to other means of
doing good; as to our admonitions, reproofs, and preaching. For instance, that
promise, Jam. 5: 15, of healing the sick, cannot be universal: for then sick
men might never die; seeing the elders may, at all times of clanger,
pray with then: but the weaning is, that if, *, unto, because he often Both
restore the sick at their prayers. Of the like nature are all other promises of
thingss temporal; as when GOD promises to give long
life to them that honor their parents; riches and honors to them that fear
him." Whenever GOD does dispense any such mercies to any of his, he would
do it by promise; all his ways to his being truth; that is, the fulfilling of
some truth promised. And also GOD having purposed to bestow riches and honors
upon some that fear him, he has therefore indefinitely expressed his gracious
dispensation herein.
GOD
requires not of me in the application of a temporal promise an absolute
persuasion that he will perform it to me in such a particular manner; but only
an act of dependence and adherence, referring it to his wise and righteous good
pleasure. And yet if GOD should at any time give a man a special faith
concerning any such particular temporal blessing, than he is to believe it in
particular. As when he gave power to any to work miracles: and therefore in
this case CHRIST rebukes his disciples, for not believing thus upon such
particular occasions, Matta 17: 2O. And it is also
true, that if GOD give such a faith, he will infallibly perform it; and thus
his• words are to be understood, Matt. 17: 22,
" Whatsoever ye ask in faith believing, ye shall
receive." But unto such faith in temporal promises for ourselves or
others, GOD does not always call us.
3. When
prayers are thus made out of conscience of our duty for such, whom yet Cod Both
not intend that -mercy unto, then they are returned
again into our own bosoms. Even as St. Paul
says, " That his rejoicing that others preached,
though they lost their labor, should " turn to his salvation," Phil.
1. 2O. So prayers for others, though to the parties
themselves they are hi vain, yet they turn to our good. As in preaching the
gospel, CHRIST told his disciples, that if in any house there were not a " son of peace," on whom the message might take
place, their peace should "return unto them again." So is it if yours
prayers take not place.
4. If we
have prayed long for those whom GOD intends not mercy unto, he will in the end
cast them out of our prayers, and take our hearts off from praying for them.
That which he did by a revelation from heaven to some prophets of old, as to
Samuel and.Jeremiah, the same he does by a more undisccrned work; that is, by with-drawing assistance to
pray for such; by withdrawing the spirit of supplication from a man, for some
men, and in some business. Thus he did with Samuel; "
Why lost you mourn for Saul?" I Sam. 16: 1: So with Jeremiah, der. 7: 16, " Pray not for this people:" and this
he doll, because he would not that such precious breath as that of prayer is,
should be without its full success. Therefore when he means not to hear, he
lays the key of prayer out of the way.
5. GOD will
hear those prayers, and answers them in some others in whom we shall have as
much comfort as in those we prayed for: and so it often falls out. GOD, to show
" he looks not as a man looks, lets us pray for
the conversion of some, and then answers them in some others. When GOD had cast
off Saul, still Samuel mourned for him; but GOD at the same time, when he bids
him cease mourning for Saul, 1 Sam. 16: to slim that yet he accepted that his
mourning, " Go," says he, " and anoint one of the sons of
Jesse," 1 Sam. 16: 1. Samuel desired to see a good successor in that
government; it was his special care; and he having anointed Saul, it
exceedingly grieved him, that he should prove so
wicked. GOD saw and answered the ground of his de-,sires;
and therefore, immediately upon his prayers, sent him to anoint a better king.
So Abraham had prayed for Ishmael, " O let Ishmael live in thy
sight!" Gen. 17: But GOD gave him Isaac instead of him. So perhaps you prayest for one child more than for another, out of thy
natural affection, looking on his countenance and stature, as Samuel did on Eliab's: but yet thy prayers being sincere, in that you desirest a child of promise, GOD answers thee, though in
another; who proves as great a comfort as of that ether had been wrought upon.
CHAP. 4
About such Prayers
wherein others join with us: how
therein to discern the Influence of our own Prayers.
This third
case to be considered is, when a marl prays for
something with others; or which others likewise pray for; how then should he
know that his prayers have a hand in obtaining it, as well as theirs? For SATAN is apt to object; though the thing is granted, yet not
for thy prayers. First, if thy
heart did sympathize in the same holy affections with others, then it is
certain thy voice has helped to carry it. " If
two agree on earth," says CHRIST, Matt. 18: 19, the word is avpc9wvriaw6u;
that is, if they harmonially agree to play the same
tune: for prayers are music in GOD's ears, and so
called " melody, to GOD," Eph. 5: 19. It is not simply their agreeing
in the thing prayed for, but in the affections: for it is the affections that
make the melody. Now if the same holy affections were touched by GOD's Spirit in thy heart, then you dost help to make up
the comfort; yea, without thee the thing might not have been clone; for GOD
stands some-times upon such a number of voices, and one voice casts it; as when
he named ten righteous persons to save Sodom. When therefore the same holy
affections acted thee in thy prayer which did them in theirs, it was the work
of the same Spirit, both in them and thee, and GOD has heard thee. Especially,
if GOD did stir up the same instinct in thee, to sympathize with another in
praying for such a thing unknown one to another, as sometimes it falls out;
then surely thy prayers are in it as well as his. You shall observe sometimes a
general instinct of the Spirit put into GOD's
people's hearts, to pray for or against a thing, without their stirring up one
another; even as Ezekiel, by the river Chebar,
prophesied the same things Jeremiah did at home at Jerusalem.
Secondly,
GOD does usually evidence to a man, that his prayers contributed towards the
obtaining of it. 1. By some circumstance: as sometimes
by ordering it no, that the man that prays most for a thing, shall have the
first news of it when it comes to be. accomplished.
Which GOD cloth, as knowing it will be most welcome to him.
GOD does herein as we do with a friend, who we know is cordial in a business;
we send him the first word of it who was most hearty in it, and prayed most ahout it. Good old Simeon had surely been earnest in
seeking the Lord, as well as the rest in Jerusalem,
to send the-Messiah; (for GOD did reveal to him, that he should see him before
he died:) and therefore, to evidence his respect. to
his prayers, GOD carried the good old man into the temple, just when the child
was brought. By some such circumstance does GOD often use, to witness to a
man's heart, that he has heard him in things prayed for in common with others.
2. By filling the heart with much joy in the accomplishment
of what a man prayed for; which is an evident argument that his prayers moved
the Lord to effect it, as well as the prayers of
others. As when a ship comes home, not only the chief owners, but every one
that ventured, shall have a share out of the return; so here, though some one,
whom it mainly concerns, has a special interest in the mercy obtained, yet you
shall have thy prayers out in joy from GOD, that the thing is granted. St. Paul
had planted a church at Thessalonica, but he could not stay to water it with
his own preaching; yet when absent, he waters those plants which he had set
with prayers night and day, 1 Thess. 3: 1O: "
Night and day praying exceedingly for you," says he; and as his prayers
were exceeding abundant for them, so was his joy as abundant in them. " Now we live, if ye stand fast in the Lord," ver. 8. " And what thanks can
we render to GOD for all the joy wherewith we joy for your sakes before the
Lord?" ver. 9.
3. If GOD
give you a heart thankful for a blessing vouchsafed to another, prayed for by
you with others, it is another sign your prayers have some hand in it. St.
Paul knew not what thanks to give for the answering of
his prayers. Old Eli had put up but one short petition that we read of, for
Hannah; and for the return of that one prayer, when Hannah related how GOD
answered her, 1 Sam. 1: 16, 27, he returned solemn thanks, " and he
worshipped the Lord there," ver. 28.
And lastly, in case the thing concerned thyself, which was
prayed for by others helping thee therein, what cause have you but to think
that it was granted for thy own prayers, and not for
theirs only? Seeing GOD stirred up their hearts to pray for thee, and gave thee
a heart to pray for thyself, and besides gave thee the thing which you desiredst. " I know this
shall turn to my salvation through your prayer," says St.
Paul, Phil. 1: 19. Though their prayers went to the
business, yet had not St. Paul been
accepted himself, the prayers of all the men in the world would have done him
little good. GOD may hear the prayers of the good for wicked men, when they do
not pray themselves, in temporal things; so he heard Moses for Pharoah, Abraham for Abimelech;
and he may hear good men the sooner for others' prayers; so he heard Aaron and
Miriam the sooner, for Moses's sake, Numb. 12: 13.
But if GOD stir up thy heart to pray for thyself, as well as others for thee,
then GOD, that gave thee a heart to pray, has heard thy prayers also; and has
had a respect to them more in it than to theirs, because it was amore special
mercy unto thee,
CHAP. 5
Common
Directions helpful in all Cases and Prayers. First,
from such Observations as may be taken from, before, and in praying.
I COME now
to more general directions to help you in discerning GOD's
answers to your prayers. All which directions are such, as may be helpful in
all the fore-mentioned cases, and in all sorts of prayers whatever. And they
are taken from observations, to be made upon your prayers, both before, in, and
after praying.
Observe, first, Before praying: when GOD bespeaks a prayer,
(as I may so speak) that is, when GOD secretly speaks to the heart to pray much
about a thing, he then speaks to the heart to pray, when he not only puts upon
the duty, by saying-to the conscience, this you oughtest
to do; but when (as he said, " Let there be light, and there was
light,") he says, Let there be a prayer, and there is a prayer; that is,
when he pours upon a man a spirit of grace and supplication, a praying
disposition; he puts in motives, suggests arguments and pleas to GOD; all which
you shall find come in readily, and of them-selves; and that likewise with a
quickening heat, and enlargement of affections, and with a lingering, and
longing, and restlessness of spirit to be alone, to pour out the soul in private
to GOD, and to vent and form those motions And suggestions into a prayer. This
is speaking to the heart. Observe such times when GOD does thus, and neglect
them not. You have then his ear; it is a special opportunity for that business,
such an one as you may never have the like. Suitors at
court observe when they have kings in a good mood, which they will be sure to
take the advantage of; but especially if they should find that the king himself
should begin to speak of the business which they would have of him. And thus
that phrase of Psa. 10:
17, is understood by some, that " GOD
prepares the heart;" that is, he fashions it, and composeth
it into a praying frame. And sure it is a great sign that GOD means to hear us,
when himself thus indites the petition.
And, by the
way, let me give this note of difference, between these speakings
to the heart, and those whereby SATAN puts us upon such duties at unseasonable
times; as when we are otherwise necessarily to be employed in, our callings, to
eat or to sleep; then to put upon praying is a device of his, to tire out new
converts with. The difference will appear in this; the devil comes in a
violent, imperious manner upon the conscience, but enlargeth
not the heart a whit unto the duty, But whensoever
GOD at such extraordinary times does call upon us, he prepares the heart, and
fills the soul with holy suggestions, a materials for the duty; for whatsoever
he calls to, he gives abilities for. And thus usually, when he will have any
great mutter done, he seta men's hearts to pray by a kind of. gracious instinct; he stirs them up,, and toucheth the strings of their hearts, by his Spirit sent
down upon them. Thus, against the return of the captivity, he stirred up
Daniel's heart, Dan. 9:1. He knowing by
books the time to be near expiring, was stirred up to seek GOD. Therefore
observe what things GOD thus, by an instinct, does enlarge thy heart to pray
for, when haply you didst not think to pray about any such thing; yet he then
stirred thee up most, it may be, as you wart walking, riding, or the like; and
having spare time, he draws thee into his presence.
Secondly,
as GOD thus speaks to the heart to pray, so also in praying; and his speaking
to the heart in prayer, may be discerned by these particulars; l. When GOD quiets,
calms, and contents the heart in prayer, which is done by speaking to the
heart, though what is spoken be not always discerned.
If you should see one, who was exceeding anxious when he went in to a great
man, after corning out from him, contented and cheerful, you would conceive
that certainly something had been said to him which
gave him encouragement and contentment in his suit. Thus when you goest to GOD, and have been importunate in a business, and raisest up thy mind calmed and
satisfied, and feelest the anxiousness, the
solicitude of thy heart about things taken off; this is a good sign that GOD
has heard thy prayer, and has spoken to thy heart. When Hannah out of much
bitterness, and with strong desire, " had poured
out her soul before the Lord," (EII joining in prayer) after that prayer
she found her heart so quieted and calmed. And it was that prayer that did both
fill Eli's mouth, with that word of prophecy, and her heart with quietness, and
a secret word from GOD accompanying it, that did still those waves; and
accordingly GOD gave her a son, a son of her desires. And the like GOD does
now; by speaking, (as I said,) something to the heart; as by dropping in some
promise, or some like consideration; saying, as it were, to the heart, even as
Eli from GOD did to her, «The Lord grant thy petition." In like manner you
hast, it may be, been long praying against poverty, or the like distress, and
GOD lets fall this promise into thy heart, " I
will never leave thee, nor forsake thee," which quiets and contents thy
mind. This is an answer; and observe such answers, for
they are precious.
2. If,
whilst you art praying, GOD draws nigh to thy soul, and reveals himself to it,
in and upon such a particular petition; as in case you didst intend when you
didst begin to pray, to beg some temporal mercy, some great matter for the
prosperity of the church, as Daniel, chap. 9: did set himself to seek GOD for
the return of the captivity; and even before you comest
to ask it, or in asking it, GOD smiles upon thee, welcomes thee, falleth about thy neck, and kisses thee;—this you art to observe,
as a sign he hears thy prayer, and accepts both thee and it. When there is such
a strong sense of GOD's favor and presence, whilst
you art upon such a suit, more than at other times, or than in other passages
of the same prayer, this is a token GOD hears thee in that particular; and you
art to observe this his speaking to thy heart. When you shall no sooner come
into his presence to inquire of him, but he says, " Here
I am." It is men, " false upon the
balance," as David speaks, when they come to be tried and weighed, who
will out of cunning use suitors most kindly then, when they mean to put them
off, and deny their requests. But GOD, who is truth and faithfulness itself,
does not use so to deal, but when he means to answer the prayer, he withal
sometimes reveals his free grace most, to the end they may see the fountain of
all, to be his everlasting love, and so take the thing granted as a fruit of
it, and thereby be the more abundantly thankful. Only let me add this caution,
which may be of great use to you. 1. It is not always infallibly true, that
when GOD draws nigh to you in a particular request, that request shall be
granted in the manner you desire; but it is a certain evidence that your prayer
is heard, end that the thing you ask is agree-able to his will, and that he
approves of you, and your request, and will give it you, or something that is
better,
But you
will say, " Why does GOD draw so nigh if he means
not to grant it?" GOD may accept the person and the prayer
when he does not grant the thing prayed for; and by that drawing nigh, witness
his acceptation of your person and the prayer. Yea,’.?.
That revealing of him-self is often the ansi.'er he
intended to such a prayer; and it is answer enough ton, to enjoy, instead of a
particular mercy, the assurance of GOD's love. 3.
When GOD stirs up in the heart a particular faith in a business, as sometimes
he cloth, and upholds the heart to wait for it, maugre
all discouragements. As there is a witness of the Holy Ghost immediate to the
heart testifying adoption to a man's person; so, in some cases, there is the
like testimony for the obtaining of some eminent thing we have asked. Which
special faith does answer to the faith of miracles of old; whereby a man had a
particular confidence that GOD would do such a miracle by him. In some things,
there may be a particular assuring the heart, that GOD will do such a thing for
a man. Concerning this also I will add a caution. These very persuasions are
often but conditional, though thus immediately made to a man`s
spirit, and are so to be understood. They cannot be more peremptory than were
many of those revelations made by GOD to the prophets, wherein he manifested
his purpose towards a certain man or people, to vouchsafe them some particular
mercy, or bring upon ti;ern some particular judgment.
But those fore-warnings; though they were particular and express, yet were
in-tended with a condition, according to the performance or non-performance of
which, either the judgment was diverted, or the good thing was not bestowed. It
was thus in the case of Jonah threatening the destruction of Nineveh; and so in
the promise concerning Eli's house, I Sam. 2: 3O, " I said indeed that thy
house and the house of thy father should walk before me for ever, but now the
Lord says, it shall not be so:" for they had broken the condition which
was implied in it; they had despised the Lord; " and them that despise
me," says GOD, " I will despise." In like manner is GOD, in such
persuasions wrought in us by prayer, to be understood; that such mercies will
surely come to pass, but still under a condition of obedience, and performing
of those vows which a man joined with those petitions, to move the Lord to grant
the things. If a man fail in these, it may and does often come to pass, that
things fall out contrary to that persuasion, and then we are apt to question
whether it was from GOD or not; which it might be, and yet not absolutely
meant, (that was your mistake) but conditionally only. For in such great
requests of the soul unto GOD, there use to pass mutual covenants between GOD
and us; and indentures are drawn and sealed unto by us; that is, we in prayer,
offer and promise to do thus and thus, if GOD will vouchsafe us such a mercy,
and plead it to GOD to move him to bestow it; and GOD thereupon, it may be,
seals a covenant on his part to grant the thing, and works such an undoubted
persuasion; but if we in that interim of waiting for that mercy, do deal falsely
in that covenant; and this even whilst we are yet in dependence upon GOD for
it, where-by it appears that we would have done so much more after we should
have received it; in this case GOD denies the thing, and yet notwithstanding,
that persuasion was from GOD. He said indeed he would do thus and thus for
thee, because you saidst to him, you wouldst walk
thus and thus. You failest in thy word, upon which GOD altered: his; and
thereupon says GOD, as to Eli, " Now it shall not
be so," and yet GOD has spoken it before, and not SATAN, nor thine own heart only.
4. When GOD
does put restless importunity into the heart, maugre
all discouragements, when GOD maintains this in the heart, it is a sign he will
answer. For you know the parable, that the unjust judge heard the widow for her
importunity; therefore when GOD puts importunity into the heart, he means to
hear. Only this likewise is to be added, there is a double importunity: one out
of such an inordinate desire for a thing, as the heart knows not how to be
without it, and so continues to ask, but asks amiss, and so receives not, James
5: The other joined with a subjection to GOD's will;
this GOD has stirred up, and then look for something to come.
CHAP. 6
Farther
Observations to be made, on the Dispositions and
Carriage of our Hearts, after Prayer.
NEXT: after
you have prayed, observe what GOD does towards thee. First,
how he does guide thy feet and heart after praying. There is much in
that: that which was the spirit of supplication in a man when he prayed, rests
upon him as the spirit of obedience hi his course; so that the dependence he
has upon GOD for the mercy he seeks, is a special motive, and means to keep him
fearful of offending, and diligent in duty; to look to his paths, to walk as
becomes a suitor, as well as to come and pray as a suitor. Thus
David, Psalm lxvi. 18, "
If I regard iniquity in my heart, GOD will not hear me." That
consideration still came in as a curb unto sin. without
this a man casts himself behind-hand again, and by sinning loses what ground he
had got by praying. Therefore David, Psalm cxliii. 8, 9, 1O, when he was to pray, even for his
life, specially prays GOD to keep him, that he might not sin against him; for
he knew by sinning he should spoil all his prayers: not only " hear me
speedily," says he, but also " cause me to know the way wherein I
should walk teach me to do thy will." This he especially prays for, and
more than for deliverance; for else he knew GOD would not hear him. Therefore,
when you art in treaty with GOD for any mercy, observe, does GOD after praying
keep thee in a more obedient frame of spirit? It is a sign he intends to answer
thee; as in like manner, when he keeps thee from using ill means to obtain thy
desire. When he meant to give David the kingdom, he kept him innocent, and his
heart tender, that it smote him but for cutting off the lap of Saul's garment.
When GOD after prayer strengtheneth the
heart to wait for the mercy. So Psalm 27: 14, David having prayed, says
to his soul, " Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and he will
strengthen thy heart." Honest men, when they nourish hopes in one that is
in dependence on them, use not to deny him. It were
dishonest to keep a man under hand, and then frustrate his expectations.
Therefore when GOD keeps thy soul after praying in such a dependent frame, look
for some good answer. And indeed when a man has prayed long, in the and he
begins to wait, as I may so say, rather than pray, though he pray still,
because now he looks that GOD should perform. Before, and at first he told the
Lord he desired it, but now he can, with some boldness tell him, that he waits
for it and expects it. The hope of a good man would make him ashamed if it were
not answered, therefore in this case answers use to come.
CHAP. 7
Observations to be
made after Prayer, upon the Issue of
what
was prayed for: and first, if accomplished, whether as the Fruit of Prayers, or
of common Providence.
WHEN a man
has thus waited, then let him observe the issue and
conclusion of what he sought for. Now either the thing desired is accomplished,
or not accomplished; and in either of these be may see answers to his prayers;
for prayer may be answered, though the thing be not done. I mean to insist
severally on these.
1. If the
thing you grayest for does come to pass, then what needest
you doubt of an answer, and whether GOD heard thee or not? For you beholdest it with thine eyes. And
so often it falls out that GOD does grant ac-cording to the desires of a man's
heart; and not only so, but also fulfils his counsel therein, that is, fulfils
not only his desire, but in that very way, by that very means, which he pitched
upon in his own thoughts. The desire of the heart may be satisfied, when GOD
gives some other thing, but the counsel of the heart is then fulfilled when a
man is answered in that particular which his own judgment pitched upon as best
for him. As CHRIST said, " Be it according to thy
faith," so GOD says sometimes, " Be it according to thy
prayers." Thus if a man will hear GOD and obey him, GOD will hear him: for
if a man be subject to CHRIST's kingly office, his
prophetical office shall guide him, and cause him not to err in his petitions;
but by an unerring providence and pre-instinct infused by his Spirit, GOD will
so guide him, as to ask that very thing which GOD intends to give; whereas of
himself he knows not what, nor how to ask. So David asked long life, and GOD
gave it him. GOD not only gave him his heart's desire, but the request of his
lips. So, 1 Chron. 4: 1O,
Jabez called on GOD, " and GOD granted him the thing he requested." And
thus GOD often deals with his children. And to this end has GOD given us his
Spirit; and made CHRIST wisdom unto us, who knows what is good for us, though
we do not: and has therefore commanded us to spy out mercies for ourselves, and
then to come to him for them. And to this end has made such particular promises
of particular mercies, which he would have us have an
eye unto in our prayers: all which is because often he means to bestow the very
things we ask.
And yet, although we, have. the very things we did ask, such
is the infidelity of our hearts, that we often discern not, nor acknowledge it
was our prayers that obtained them from GOD; but are apt, when once we have
them, either to look to the second causes of them, though before we did
earnestly seek them of GOD; or to question whether it was at our prayers that
he granted them, or out of common providence. Our distrustful hearts are apt to
be unsatisfied with the clearest pledges of GOD's
favor; and although GOD does answer us upon our calling upon him, yet we will
not believe that he hearkened unto our prayers in it. Therefore, that you may
be further enabled to discern, when things prayed for come by prayer, I give
you these further directions:
1. When GOD
does a thing in answer to prayers, he often does it in such a manner, that his
hand may be in a more than ordinary manner seen in it. There are few prayers,
wherein a man has sought GOD much, but in the answers of them GOD discovers
himself much, and turns many great wheels in the accomplishment of them, and
manifests his marvelous loving-kindness: and in-deed, when GOD hears prayers,
that have been long a making, he shows usually half a miracle one way or other.
Now GOD
discovers his immediate hand in the answers of our prayers: First, when he
carries a thing through many difficulties; when there were a great many cross
wards in a business prayed for, the least whereof would have kept the key from
turning. When GOD shall snake a key, as it were, a key on purpose to unlock it;
when GOD contrives all the passages in a business you didst pray for, and so accomplisheth it: this is a sign, it is a fruit of prayer,
and that prayer had been making that key all that while. So
in bringing David to the kingdom, Mordecai to honor. When St. Peter was
delivered out of prison, it was done at the prayers of the church, Acts 12: He
was sleeping between two soldiers: if they had awaked, he had been discovered.
And he was in chains, but they fall off, ver. 6, 7.
And the- keepers stood before the door, but they mind him not, ver. 6. And when one watch is past, he passes quietly
through another, ver. W. And when both these were
past, an iron gate flies open of its own accord, ver. 1O. Now there are many difficulties in many
businesses, which yet in the end are accomplished by prayer. Iron chains fall
off, iron gates, enemies' hearts fly open of their own accord; and though not
in that miraculous manner, by the means of an angel, yet no less wonderfully.
Or, secondly, When GOD facilitates all things to accomplish
the thing which was prayed for, so that they conspire and combine in it, that
you have wind and tide, and a fair day, and all the way paved; or, as David
says, " halt thy way made plain before thee;" and there falls out a
great conjunction of many circumstances to effect it, which had influence unto
it; whereof if any one had been wanting, the thing had not been done. When the
thing prayed for is thus granted, prayer then has done it.
Again, when
he does it suddenly, and accomplisheth the thing you
have long prayed for, ere you art aware of it: as the return of the captivity
of Babylon, which was the
conclusion of many prayers, was done in a trice, they were as men in a dream, Psal. cxxvi. 1. They could scarce
believe it was so, when it was done. So Peter, he' was fast asleep, and did not
so much as dream of deliverance.
And
fourthly, When GOD grants the thing with an overplus
above what we asked, and casteth many other mercies
in together with that which we so long prayed for; this also may be a sign GOD
did hear our prayers in it. For when he does hear indeed, he uses " to do above what we ask or think." When prayers
are answered, usually mercies come thick; the thing we prayed for comes not
alone; as when sins are punished, then miseries come also like armies upon us.
As temptations likewise come together; thus do mercies also.
In the
fifth place, when the thing is granted by prayers, there ie
often some particular circumstances of Providence,
which sealeth to us that it is from GOD; such often
as a man himself takes notice of, and which others take notice of also. " show me a token for good," says David, Psalm lxxxvi. 17. And such tokens does
GOD often make small circumstances to be. Things small in themselves
may be great signs and tokens. For example, Moses and Aaron, and the
Israelites, had long cried to GOD for the deliverance of his people, and laid
up many players their cry came up. And when GOD delivered them, what tokens
were there of good; and of GOD's answer to their
prayers? The text notes, " that a dog did not bark at their going
out," Exod. 11: 7, which was a small circumstance,
but it was a great token; so intended by GOD; for the text adds, " That ye
may know that GOD puts a difference between the Israelites and the
Egyptians." This was a token of GOD's hand, to
over-rule the tongues of brute creatures, that used to
stir at unusual noises, and at travelers, especially in the night. So when
Isaac and Abraham, and his servant also, had prayed for a wife for Isaac, see
by what a token GOD showed he had heard their prayers, Rebekah
was the first that came out to the
servant. And if she be the woman
appointed for Isaac, (says the servant) " Let her
offer me drink, and my camels also." This was a small thing in appearance,
but a great token of GOD's hand in it, and therefore the servant bowed at it,
and worshipped. And the sign in itself was such as argued a good nature in her,
and a
kind, courteous disposition, which
therefore, (it may be) he singled out, as a thing especially to be looked at in
the marriage choice.
Again, the
consideration of the time, wherein the things we have asked are granted, may
much help us to discern, whether it be in answer to our prayers. For GOD, who
does all things in weight and measure, shows his wisdom and love as much in the
season, as in giving the thing itself. GOD considereth
all times, and still chooseth the fittest to answer
prayers in. " In an acceptable time have I heard
thee." So GOD answers in the most acceptable time to us; for " he waits to be gracious, for he is a GOD of
judgment," Isa. 30: 18; that is, he is a wise
GOD, that knows the fittest times and seasons wherein to deal forth his favors.
At first, it maybe, that at the very time you have been most
earnest, yea, even whilst you art praying, or presently after, the thing is
done. To this purpose is - that of Isa. lxv. 24, that as sometimes " he hears before they
call," so also, " whilst they are speaking, I will hear:" and he
singles out that time on purpose, that they might rest assured it was in answer
to their prayer. Thus to assure Hezakiah his prayer
was heard, GOD sent the prophet unto him whilst he was praying and weeping. As
the ruler in the Gospel, enquiring diligently, " found that the same hour
that CHRIST had said to him, thy son liveth, his son
recovered." So also here, sometimes the thing is done, or the news of it
comes the same hour wherein a man was praying about it.
Or, secondly, when it is every way the fittest time to have the
thing granted. At that time, 1, when you hadst
most need; and, 2, when thy heart was most fit for it. For in answering of
prayers, GOD aims especially at two things: First, to show his mercy, that a
man might magnify that: and, secondly, to have the heart satisfied, and filled
with joy in his answer, and the thing made sweet, and a mercy indeed.: in
brief, that his goodness might be delighted in, and his mercy exalted. And for
these two purposes he singles out such times, when we have most need; and also
when our hearts are most subdued.
For the
first of these: suppose you didst pray long for assurance of salvation, when
you hadst. most need of it;
either when thy spirit would have failed without it, or against some great
affliction approaching, then GOD filled thy heart with it; that was the fittest
time: now has GOD heard thy prayer. If 2, when thy heart was most fit for the
mercy, it was granted, then art you also heard in an acceptable time. For GOD
does not withhold mercies out of want of love; neither so much for what is
past, as for the present evil disposition of men's hearts, whereby they are
unfit to receive them. And in this sense likewise may that be understood, that
GOD prepareth the heart, and heareth
the prayer, Psalm 10: 17. As first, when thy heart is most weaned from the
temporal mercy granted thee upon seeking of it. So David had the kingdom given
him when he was as a weaned child. Thus, when thy heart had betaken itself
alone to GOD for thy portion, then the thing prayed for came to pass.
A third
thing you are to observe concerning the accomplishment of the thing prayed
for, whereby you may discern whether it be granted in answer to prayer, is,
when you see GOD in his answering you to deal in a kind of proportion with your
manner of praying and seeking of him, and of walking with him whilst you were
dependent on him for such a mercy. As you may see a proportion between sins and
punishments, which are the rewards of them; so that you can say, such a sin
brought forth this affliction, it is so like the
father: so you might. see the like proportion between
your prayers, and walking with GOD, and GOD's answers
to you. The more by-ends or carnal desires you had in praying, and the more you
mingled of these with your holy desires, and the more want of zeal and fervency
were found in your prayers, the more you shall find of bitterness mingled with
the mercy. when it is granted; and so much
imperfection, and want of comfort in it: so David, "With the pure you wilt
show thyself pure." Pure prayers have pure blessings. And again, as you in
praying sometimes grew cold, so you might see the business in like manner to
cool: as when Moses' hands were down, Amalek
prevailed; but when they were lifted up, Israel had the better, Exod. 17: 12. GOD let him see a pro-portion, which argued
his prayers were the means of prevailing. A man finds in praying, that his suit
some-times sticks, and goes not as he expected; this is because he does not ply
GOD, and solicit him. On the contrary, when he is stirred up to pray, then
things go well; by this a man may clearly see, that it is the prayer which GOD
hears and regards. Thus likewise, when a man sees hills and dales in a
business, fair hopes often, and then all dashed again, and the thing in the end
brought to pass, let him look back upon his prayers: didst you not just thus
deal with GOD?.When you hadst
prayed earnestly, and thought you hadst even carried
it, didst you not then dash all again by interposing some sin, and thus again
and again? Herein GOD would have you observe a proportion. GOD deals thus with
you in proportion to your prayers.
CHAP. 8
Seven
Observations more, from the Effects which the
accomplishment of the Mercy has upon the Heart.
FOURTHLY,
you may discern whether they are in answer to thy prayers, by the effects upon
thy heart.
1. If the
thing that is granted upon thy prayers, draw thy heart
more near to GOD, it is then certain that it was granted as an answer to thy
prayers. Things granted out of ordinary providence only, are snares to us. But
things obtained by prayer are sanctified to us, for every thing is sanctified
by prayer, so that it shall not ensnare nor entangle our hearts. A thing
obtained by prayer, as it came from GOD, so a man will return it to GOD, and
use it for his glory; if therefore you findest this
his answering thee, to cause thee to mourn for thy sin, and to be a restraint
against sin, it is a sign it was the fruit of prayer. Thus it wrought with
David, Psalm 6: 8, " Away from me, ye that work iniquity: GOD has heard
the voice of my weeping." Also if you rejoicest
in GOD, more than in the thing obtained. So Hannah begins her song when she
blesses GOD for her child; " My heart rejoiceth in the Lord," 1 Sam. 2: 1. She rejoicetl) not so much in the gift, as in the giver and his
favor: more in this, that her prayer was answered, than in the thing obtained.
This is a sign of having obtained the mercy through prayers, when it is thus
sanctified unto a man's spirit.
2. Prayers
answered will enlarge thy heart with thankfulness. Self-love makes us more
forward to pray, than to give thanks; but where grace is, there will be no
eminent mercy gotten with much struggling, but there will be a continued
particular thankful remembrance of it a long while after. Thankfulness, of all
duties, proceeds from pure grace; therefore if the spirit stirs thee Into it, it is a sign he made the prayer. Prayer and thanks
are like the double motion of the lungs, the air that is sucked in by prayer,
is breathed forth again by thanks. Is thy heart afresh enlarged as to mourn for
past sins long since committed, so in like manner, to give thanks for mercies
won with long prayers, and this for a long while after? It is a sign that they
were obtained by prayer.
3. If the
mercy obtained does encourage thee to go to GOD another time, to pray again the
more confidently and fervently, it is a sign you have got the former that way.
For the Holy Ghost having once shelved thee this way of procuring mercy, hence
it is, you art thus ready to take the same course another time, Psalm cxvi. 2, The Lord has heard me, and I will call on him as
long as I live."
4. When GOD
having heard thy prayers upon solemn vows, thy heart is careful to pay those
vows, this may be an argument to thee, the thing being granted, that thy prayer
was heard. It was an evidence that the thing was obtained by prayer, in that
GOD calls for those vows, by his Spirit in thy heart, and stirs thee up to
perform them; it argues that in relation to thy prayers answered, he takes them
as dues from thee; that having despatched thy suit,
he now calls for what was agreed to be given him, when it should be performed.
5. When you
art enabled by faith, to see clearly GOD's hand in
effecting that mercy, over and above the power of second causes, and to
acknowledge it to his glory. One main reason whereby we are usually hindered
from apprehending our prayers to be answered, is, that our eyes, are terminated
by second causes, and not raised to see GOD's hand;
therefore, on the contrary, when GOD enableth thee
to see that he has done this, it is a fruit of his hearing thy prayers. And
this you will usually find, that so much dependence as
you had upon GOD in prayer for the obtaining of a mercy, so much acknowledgment.
you will have iii the accomplishment of it. Parallel
with this rule is that other, in another case, that in performance of duties,
so much as the soul did go out of itself to GOD, for strength to perform them,
so much, when they are performed, will the heart acknowledge GOD's assistance and be humbled. And this is a sign of
prayer being heard upon this ground, because GOD's
end in hearing prayers is, that we might glorify him. So Psalm 1. 15, " Call upon me in the day of trouble, and I will deliver
thee, and you shall glorify me." Therefore, when the heart has prayed much
for a mercy, with dependence before the obtaining it, and then is enabled to
exalt GOD when it is obtained, it is a sign that GOD did it in relation to
those prayers.
6. When with
the mercy there cometh the assurance of GOD's love,
and evidence of his favor; when GOD sends not a bare token only, but a letter
also with it, to bear witness of his love; I need not make that a sign, for
when this comes with a mercy, it carries its own evidence.
7. Lastly,
it will be evident by the event. Things obtained by prayer have few thorns in
them, the curse is taken out; but what comes by ordinary providence, like the
earth untilled, is full of thorns, briars, and vexations. The reason is, what
comes by prayer comes as a blessing, and so no sorrow is added to it; and
prayer killeth those inordinate lusts, which cause
that vanity and vexation. Things long deferred, at last obtained by prayer,
prove most comfortable, and in a settled manner such; they prove stable
blessings; and what trouble the heart was put to in the deferring, it is
recompensed by the more settled sweetness in the enjoying: prayer having long
perfumed it, and the thing being steeped herein, it proves exceeding pleasant.
So Prov. 13: 12,
" Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when
the desire comes, it is a tree of life," and heals that sickness, and
abundantly comforts the heart. Such a comfort was Isaac to Abraham: whereas
Jacob getting the blessing, but without prayer, how embittered was it to him by
twenty years banishment from his mother's house!
CHAP. 9
Helps
to discern an Answer to Prayer, when the thing is
not accomplished.
THE next
and more difficult question is, when the thing is not granted, how shall we
then discern that GOD cloth, notwithstanding, hear the prayer? Ere I come to
resolve this case, an objection is to be removed, which is, that if the Spirit
of GOD does make every faithful prayer in us, and he " searcheth
the deep things of GOD," and therefore knows that GOD will not grant such
a thing, you may think that he should not stir up the heart to pray for that
which GOD means to deny. To this in brief by way of answer.
1. The
Spirit makes not prayers in us always, according to what he means to do, but
according to what it is our duty to pray for. Secondly, that phrase helps to
answer this, when he is said to help our infirmities; and therefore not
according to his own vast knowledge does he frame our prayers, but he applies
his assistance to our weak and narrow apprehensions; and stirs up desires in us
for such things as according to our knowledge we are in duty to conceive, and
which, by all that we can see, we think to be most for our good, and his glory;
and GOD accepts such desires as from us, but yet does for us according to the
largeness of his own love.
Now to come
to the case, and direct the heart about those prayers which are not granted. 1.
And first, how didst you frame thy prayer for that thing which is denied thee?
Didst you pray for it absolutely? You must not then think much, if such a
prayer be denied, for therein you wentest beyond thy
commission. But if you didst pray for it conditionally, as CHRIST did, with
" if it be possible," and, " not my will, but thy will be
done," so that you didst refer it unto, and trust GOD's
judgment in the thing, and not thine own, only didst
put him in mind, as thy duty was, of what was represented to thee as best for
thee, and so left it to him to choose; then thy prayer may be fully answered,
and yet the thing denied; and you art to interpret, and take GOD's meaning, revealed in the event, in the best sense,
which way soever it falls.
2. Observe,
if there were not a reservation in that denial, for some greater mercy, whereof
that denial was the foundation. Thus, 1, often some great cross is prevented by
the denial of a thing, which we were urgent for. If we had had many of our
desires, we had been undone. So it was a mercy to David, that Absalom was taken
away, (whose life surely he prayed much for, for he loved him much,) who, if he
had lived, might have been the ruin of him and his house. Again, 2, often the
very denial breaks a man's heart, and brings him nearer to GOD, puts him upon
searching into his ways, and state, and prayers, to see what is amiss therein,
which alone is a great mercy, and better than the thing prayed for, seeing by
the loss of that one thing he learns how to pray better, and so to obtain a
hundred better things.
3. Observe,
if there be not a turning of the thing desired into some other great blessing
of the same kind. For GOD (all whose ways are mercy and truth,) does improve,
and lay out men's prayers to the best advantage. As old Jacob laid not his
hands of blessing, as Joseph would have guided them, but laid the right hand
upon the younger son, whom Joseph set at his left; so often does GOD take off
his hand of blessing from the thing we prayed for, and discovers it in another
more for our good.
4. Observe,
if in the end GOD does not answer thee still according to the ground of thy prayer.
See if that holy end, which you hadst in prayer, be
not in the end fully satisfied, though not in the thing you didst desire. For GOD answers according to the hinge which the prayer turns upon.
To open this: the main ends of our hearts in our requests are GOD's glory, the church's good, and our own happiness. A
man looketh out, and spieth
out such a particular mercy, which he thinks would tend much to GOD's glory, and his happiness, and yet that thing is
denied; yet GOD will answer him according to the meaning of his prayers; his
glory shall certainly be advanced, even for that prayer of his, some other
way; and GOD will take order that the comfort thy soul desired you shall have
come in one way or other, which when it cloth, you can not but say thy prayers
are heard.
5. In the
thing which you have prayed much about, though it be denied thee, observe, if
GOD does not endeavor to give thee, (as 1 may so speak,) all satisfaction that
may be, even as if he were tender of denying thee; and therefore does much in
it for thy prayers' sake, though the conclusion proves otherwise, as being
against some other purpose of his, for some other ends. As when he denied Moses
to go into the land of Canaan, he yielded as far as might be, for he let him
lead the Israelites to the very borders; and he let him see that good land,
carrying him to an hill, and (as it is thought,) by a miracle enabled his sight
to view the whole land; and the man he chose to perform this work was his
servant, which was a great honor to Moses, that one brought up by him should
succeed him. So likewise, when in that thing you didst seek at his hands he
spews an extraordinary hard in turning it; it is a'sign
he had a respect to thee, that he would vouchsafe to discover his hand so much
in it. Let the thing fall out which way it will, if GOD's
hand appear much in it, you mayst comfortably
conclude, that there is some great thing in it, and that prayer wrought that
miracle in it to dispose it so; and that there is some great reason why he
denies thee, and a great respect had to thy prayers, in that he is pleased to
discover so extraordinary a providence about it.
Lastly, Look into the effect of that denial upon thine
own heart; as, 1. 1f thy heart be enlarged to acknowledge GOD to be holy and righteous
in his dealings with thee, and thine own
unworthiness. 2. If GOD fill thy heart with an holy
contentment in the denial; if he speak to thy heart, as he did to Moses, when
he denied him, Deut. 3: 26. " Let it suffice thee;" if as to St.
Paul, when he was earnest in removing that buffetting,
" My grace is sufficient;" or that some such like consideration is
dropped in, that stays thee. 3. If you can be thankful to GOD, out of faith, that GOD has ordered all for the best, though he has
denied thee; and although you seest no reason but
that the thing prayed for would have been for the best, yet art thankful upon
the denial, resting in GOD's judgment of it. As David
before Ile did eat, after his seven days' fasting for
the child, arose, " and went first into the
temple and worshipped," 2 Sam xii. 2O, and of what kind of worship it was,
appears by his anointing himself and changing his raiment, which was in token
of rejoicing and thanksgiving. 4. If you Can pray still; if when you have
mercies granted, you fearest most, and when denied
loves most, and art not discouraged, thy prayers are heard,
CHAP. 10
A
Reproof of those that pray, but look not after their
Prayers.
THE use of
all is, to reprove those who put up prayers, but look not after them when they
have done; who cast not up their comings in, and gainings
by prayers; and when they have prayed sit down discouraged, as not making
account in earnest, that ever they shall hear of their prayers again, even as
if they had been but as words cast away. But herein you err, not knowing the
power of prayer; and you contemn the Lord. If you had wrote letters to a friend
about important business, and had earnestly solicited him for an answer, if you
should make account to hear of him no more, should you not wrong him in your
thoughts? Or if he did write, if you should not vouchsafe to read over his
answer, were it not a con-tempt of him? So is it here, when you have been
earnest with GOD for blessings, and regard not the answer. And because verily
this is a fault among us, I will therefore endeavor to discover to you the
causes, which, though they keep you not from praying, yet from this earnest
expectation of answers to your prayers; only my scope is, not to show you so
much the reasons why GOD denies you many requests, as why you are discouraged
after you have prayed, as if they would not be answered, although GOD does
answer them. These discouragements are partly temptations, partly sinful
impediments.
1. Because
your assurance that your persons are accepted is weak, therefore your
confidence that your prayers arc heard is weak also. For, as GOD does first
accept our persons, and then our prayers; so the belief, that GOD does accept
our persons, is that which upholds our hearts in confidence that our prayers
shall be granted; this you may find 1 John 5: 13, 14, 15. In ver. 13, he says, " These things have I written to
you, that ye may know you have eternal life:" and upon that assurance this
will follow, " and this is the confidence that we
have in him, that if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us. And if we know he heareth
us, we know we have the petitions we desired of him." Mark how he links
these three together. 1. These things I write unto you, that you may be assured
that life and heaven is yours: and upon that, 2. This confidence will follow in
your hearts, that GOD hears you; that is, that you have his ears open to you,
and his heart enlarged towards you: and, 3. If you be assured that GOD hears
you, then from this will follow an assurance, that you shall have any thing
granted that you desire; yea, and he makes this one of the main and immediate
effects of assurance of justification; therefore he says, this is the
confidence that we have in him; that is, this effect there is of this confidence.
For whereas they might say, What benefit will accrue
to us by this assurance? Why this, says he, which is one of the main privileges
of a Christian, even assurance that GOD will hear him, and grant all his
prayers. For when a man is assured GOD has given him his Son, he will then
easily believe, " How shall he not with him give
me all things?" Rom. 8: 32. If
once he looks upon GOD as a father, he will then easily conceive that which
CHRIST says; " If fathers that are evil can give
good things to their children, how much more shall not your heavenly Father
give his Spirit, and all good things, to them that ask him?" If he gave
his Son, when we did not pray to him, how much more shall he with him give us
all things we pray for?
If a man
comes to sue to any man, and knows not whether he love him or not, he has small
hope of having his suit granted; but if he be assured he is in favor with him,
according to that degree of favor he supposed himself to stand in, he is
confident of obtaining his request. A
second discouragement is the weakness of men's prayers. Though a man thinks his
person is accepted, yet alas! says he, my prayers are
so poor and weak, that surely GOD will never regard them. To remove which, let
me first ask thee, dost you pray with all thy might? Then though thy might be
weak, yet because it is all you hast, it shall be accepted. For " GOD accepts according to what a man has, and not
according to that he has not," 2 Cor. 8: 12.
2. You art
to consider that GOD does not hear thee for thy prayers' sake, (though not
without them,) but for his name's sake, and his Son's sake, and because you art
his child. As the mother, when her child cries, helps it, not because it does
cry aloud, but because it cries; and pities it the more the weaker it is.
3. Again,
though the performance in itself be weak, yet
considered as prayer it may be strong, because a weak prayer may set the strong
GOD at work. Prayer prevails, not because of the performance itself, but
because of the name, which it is put up in, even CHRIST's
name; and therefore as a weak faith justifies, so a weak prayer prevails, and
both for the like reason; for faith attributes all to GOD, and so does prayer:
for, as faith is merely a receiving grace, so prayer is a begging grace.
4. Prayers
move GOD, not as an orator moves his hearers, but as a child moves his father.
Two words of a child humbled, and crying at his father's feet, will prevail
more than penned orations. It is the meaning of the spirit that GOD looks unto,
more than the expressions, Rom. 8: 26,
27: for the groans there are said to be unutterable.
Hezekiah's expressions were so rude and broken, that he did but chatter, even
as a crane, yet GOD heard them.
A third
discouragement is failing of answers. Thus some say, " I
have prayed often and long, and I have been seldom or never answered." To
remove this, consider, 1. That you
have the more reason to wait, for you have the more answers to come. For
as wicked men treasure up wrath, so do good men mercy, and especially by their
prayers; and therefore mercies and answers often come thick together, even as
afflictions do.
2. Again;
suppose you should have few answers concerning the things you seekest for; yet thy reward is with the Lord. It is in
praying as in preaching, " Every man shall
receive his own reward according to his own labor," 1 Cor.
3: 8, and not according to the success of his labor only. So in praying, though
you missest again and again, and nothing succeeds you
prayest for, yet be not. discouraged,
for thy reward is with the Lord, which will come in one day.
3. GOD does
it, not that he hears thee not, but to try thee. For a
man to say as David, " GOD has heard my prayer,
therefore I will call upon him as long as I live;" that is nothing so much
as to be able to say, Well, I have prayed thus long, and never sped, and yet I
will call upon him whilst I live.
Other discouragements there are, which are our sins, more
than our temptations, and which weaken the expectation of having our prayers
answered: as, 1. Sloth-fulness in prayer, when we do
not put forth all our might; and then no wonder we do not only not obtain, but
that we look for little success of such prayers. He that shows himself cold in
a suit, teaches him he sues to, to deny him. If we see
one seeking to us slightly, we think he will be easily put off; accordingly,
when we observe so much by ourselves, and see ourselves slothful in praying,
and praying as if we prayed not, no wonder if we look not after the success of
such prayers. We know the Scripture says, that the fervent spirit only prevails;
that prayer which is, `EvEp7 Evz, that sets all the
faculties on work, Jam.
5: 16. How should we then expect
that GOD should grant any good thing to us? For though GOD sells nothing to us
for our prayers, but gives freely, yet he would have his gifts accepted. And
what is fervent prayer but the expression of fervent desire? Jacob wrestled
when he obtained. Many seek to enter, says CHRIST, but you must strive. Now
when we know these things, and yet are slothful, how can we expect any answer
at all? Will not the consciousness of it quell our expectations? Those prayers
that awaken GOD must awaken us. Those prayers that stir GOD,
must first stir us to lay hold on GOD, as Isaiah speaks. As obedience
strengthens faith and assurance, so fervency in prayer begets confidence of
being heard. Iii all other things slothfulness weakens expectation. Does any
man expect that riches should come, when he does his business negligently? " It is the diligent hand that maketh
rich." Does any man expect an harvest, if he
takes not pains to plough and sow? No more if you do not take pains in prayer
can you expect an answer, or indeed will you.
A second
cause, or sinful discouragement herein, is looking at prayer only as a duty to
be performed, and so performing it as a task, and not so much out of desires
stirred up after the things to be obtained, nor out of faith that we shall
obtain them. Thus do most in the world pray to GOD; they come to GOD as to a
master only, not a father; and thus doing, no wonder if they look for little
effect of prayers. To help you in this, you are to look to two things in
prayer. First, to a command from GOD. Secondly, to the
promises of GOD: and so to consider it in a double relation: First, as a duty
in respect to the command: Secondly, as a means to obtain blessings at GOD's hand in relation to his promises. Therefore in
prayer, first, an act of obedience, secondly, an act of faith is to be
exercised. " Ask in faith, nothing
wavering," Jam. 1: Now most perform it as an act of obedience only, and so
rest in the present performance of it; but if a man pray in faith, he will pray
with an eye to the promises; and look on prayer as a means to obtain such or
such a mercy at GOD's hands; and if so, then he is
not satisfied till he has an answer of his prayers.
A third
sinful discouragement is returning to sins after prayers, when a man has prayed
for some mercy, and riseth full of confidence that
his prayers are heard; and so awhile he walks, yet falling into sin, that sin
does dash all his hopes; meets as it were with the answer, which is GOD's messenger, and causes it to return to heaven again.
How often, when GOD had granted a petition, and the decree coming forth, has an
act of treason come between, which stopped and blotted all, both prayer and
grant when newly written, and left a guilt in the mind which quelled our hopes,
and then we looked no more after our prayers? And this
especially if, when we were sinning, such a thought came in, (as often it doth)
to restrain us. Are you not in dependence upon GOD for such a mercy, and
have prayed for it? How then dare you do this, and sin against him? When in
this case the heart goes on, it blots all the prayer. And thus far it is true
that sinning thus between, interrupts and hinders the obtaining our petitions;
and that answerably as we do thus betray and undo our prayers; so we find in
the way rubs and difficulties do arise; for as we lay blocks in GOD's way, coming towards us to do us good, so he does in
ours. But yet this you are to consider, that as in the end praying uses to
overcome sin in GOD's children, so also GOD in the
end overcomes difficulties, and brings the matter to pass. And know it is not
sins past so much that hinder the prayers of GOD's
people, as the present unfitness and indisposition of their hearts for mercy.