GENERAL DIRECTIONS
FOR A
COMFORTABLE WALKING WITH GOD.
GENESIS 6:8, 9
But Noah found grace in the eyes of the Lord.
These are the generations of Noah:
Noah was a just man, and perfect in his generations, and Noah walked..with God.
IN this
dreadful story of the old world's degeneration and destruction, here stands an
illustrious star, shining, fair in the darkest midnight of SATAN's universal
reign; I mean Noah, a preacher of righteousness, to whose family alone the true
worship of God was confined, when all the world besides lay drowned in idolatry
and paganism, ready to be swallowed up in an universal grave of waters.
Now in this
story of Noah, so highly honored with freedom from the sinful contagion of
those desperate times, and happily exempted from the judgment upon the earth, I
consider,
First, The cause of such a singular,
blessed preservation; which was the free grace and favor of God: "but
~i6ah found grace in the eyes of the Lord," ver. 8.
Secondly, the renown of Noah's name:
in that he stands here as the father of the new world: "
These arc the generations of Noah," ver. 9.
Thirdly. The description, 1. Of
Noah's personal goodness: 2. Of his preservation: 3.
Of his posterity.
The description of his personal
goodness stands in the end of verse 9, " Noah was
a just man, and perfect in his generations; and Noah walked with God." Where we find him honored with three noble attributes, which make
up the character of a complete Christian. 1. Honesty. 2. Uprightness.
3. Piety. And they receive much lustre from a circumstance of time: "in
his generations:" which were many and mainly corrupt.
Without, any
further unfolding of my text, I collect from the first point, (wherein I find
God's free grace to be the cause of Noah's preservation,) that the free grace
and favor of God is the first mover and fountain of all our good. All praise
then is due unto Jehovah, the author of all our good, the fountain of all our
bliss, the well-spring of life, whereby we live, and move, and have our being;
our natural being, the being of our outward state; our gracious being, the
everlastingness of our glorious state. Were the holiest heart upon earth
enlarged to the vast comprehension of this great world's wideness; nay, made
capable of all the glorious hallelujahs offered to Jehovah, both by all the
militant and triumphant church; yet would it come infinitely short of
sufficiently magnifying, admiring, and adoring the inexplicable mystery, and
bottomless depth of this free mercy of GOD, the fountain and first mover of all
our good! We may, and are bound to bless GOD, for all the means, instruments,
and second causes, whereby it pleases him to convey good things unto us: but we
must rest principally at the well-head of all our welfare, Jehovah, blessed for
ever. We receive a great deal of comfort and refreshment from the moon and
stars; but we must chiefly thank the sun: from the great rivers also; but, the
main sea is the fountain. Angels, ministers, and men may pleasure us; but Jehovah
is the principal. Let us then imitate those lights of heaven, and rivers of the
earth; do all the good we can with those good things God has given us by his instruments;
and then return all the praise unto the Sun of Righteousness, and Sea of our
salvation.
From the second point in these words,
" These are the generations of Noah; (whereas the memorial of all the
families upon earth besides, lay buried in the gulf of everlasting oblivion, as
their bodies in the universal grave of waters; the family of Noah is not only
preserved; but his generations registered in the book of GOD, and conveyed
along towards the Lord JESUS, as his progenitors, and precedent royal line.) I observe, that personal goodness is a good means to bring
safety, honor, and many comfortable blessings upon posterity. Because,
1. Parents, professing religion in
truth, make con-science of praying for their children before they have them, as
did Isaac and Hannah: when they are quick in the womb, as did Rebeckah: when
they arc born, as did Zachariah: in the whole course of their life, as did Job:
at their death, as did Isaac. And prayers, we know, are for the procuring of
all favors at the hands of GOD, either for ourselves, or others, the most
sovereign means we can possibly use.
2. Godly parents do infinitely more
desire to see the true fear of God planted in their children's hearts, than the
diadem of the whole earth set upon their heads. And therefore their principal
care is, by a good example, religious education, daily instruction, loving
admonitions, seasonable reproofs, restraint from wicked company, and by all the
best means, and utmost endeavors, to leave them gracious, when they go out of
this world. And "Godliness, (says Paul,) has the promise of the life that
now is, and of that which is to come." It gives right and full value to
all the true honor, blessings, and comforts, which are to be had' in heaven or
in earth.
We have, Thirdly,
a description of Noah's spiritual state, consisting of, 1. His
justness. 2. Sincerity, 3. Piety.
I collect from the first branch of his
character, that every truly religious man, is also a just and true-dealing man.
From the second, that sincerity is the sinew and touchstone of true
Christianity. But these two I have so often pressed in the course of my
ministry, that I will pass by them at this time; only making the following
observation. Look! what kind of honesty to men that
is, which is not accompanied with religion towards God; the same is that
religion towards GOD, which is not attended with honesty to men. Dishonest
religion, irreligious honesty, insincere religion and honesty, are all out of
the right path. If you have respect only to the commandments of the first
table, and outward performance of religious services; but
neglect the duties of the second, you art but a pharisee and formal
professor. If you deal justly with thy neighbor, and yet be a stranger to the
mystery of godliness, you art but a mere civil man. If you put on an outward
face only of conformity to both, and yet be true-hearted to neither, you art
but a gross hypocrite. Bear thyself holily towards GOD, honestly towards man,
and true-heartedly towards both, or you art no body in CHRIST's kingdom; but
still in the gall of bitterness, and bond of iniquity. Put on righteousness
and true holiness, in this life, or you shall never put on a crown of glory in
the life to come.
Again, that which adds lustre to
Noah's character is the circumstance of time, that is, "
in his generations," which were many, and mainly corrupt. Noah
stood out,. and cleaved unto
God through so many ages; and against so wicked a world: so likewise the true
Christian must stand at staves' end with the corruptions of the time. Let every
one, who has given his name to CHRIST, ever count it
his crown and comfort, to hold a strong and unconquerable counter-motion to the
courses of the world. Let him still discover the true nobleness of his
Christian spirit, and of a mind spiritually generous, by gathering vigor,
growing invincible, from the very oppositions of the wicked, and villanies of
the time. It was the saying of a moral heathen, " That to do well, where was no danger, was a common thing; but to do well where was
both peril and opposition, was the peculiar office of a man of virtue:"
much more, say I, of a man of God.
"And Noah walked with God."
Walking with God is the flower of all Noah's excellencies.
It is the crown of the Christian's character, and the duty and property of
every true Christian. By walking with
GOD, I mean, a sincere endeavor to dispose all our thoughts, words, and deeds; our
whole conversation, in reverence and fear, with humility and singleness of
heart, as in the sight of an invisible GOD, under the perpetual presence of his
all-seeing, glorious eye; and by consequence, to enjoy by faith, an unutterable
sweet communion and humble familiarity with his holy Majesty; in a word, to
live in heaven upon earth. God's covenant with Abraham, and in him, with all
the faithful unto the world's end, requires this. The practice and
protest4tions of the servants of God set a seal unto it. Enoch's walking with
God was an happy preparative to his translation to
glory. "The Lord before whom I walk," (says Abraham,) will do thus
and thus. " I will walk before the Lord in the
land of the living," says David. " O Lord God of Israel," says
Solomon, " there is no God like thee in the heaven, or in the earth; which
keepest covenant, and showest mercy unto thy servants,- that walk before thee
with all their hearts." " I have walked
before thee in truth, and with a perfect heart," says Hezekiah. "And
herein do I exercise myself, to have always a conscience void of offence toward
God and toward men," says Paul: which sounds the same way. " Let their money perish with them, who esteem all the
gold in the world worth one day's society with JESUS CHRIST and his Holy
Spirit," said that noble Marquis of Vico, well experienced in an heavenly
conversing with God.
And it must needs
be so: for 1. Howsoever natural men do not dare to draw near to that GOD, who
to them is " a consuming fire;" yet all those, who have truly tasted
how gracious and glorious he is, find their hearts, out of a secret sense of
God's love unto them first, in-flamed with infinite desire to live under the
influence of his pleased countenance, to enjoy his holy majesty with constant
peace, and an humble spiritual access to and acquaintance with him continually.
The true Christian's spirit of prayer, exercise of repentance, temptations, and
troubles from SATAN; pressures from the world, faintness of faith, want of
spiritual strength, assault of some special sin, sweetness of meditation, daily
favors showered down' upon him without number, and above measure;
fore-thought of the great and last account, motions of the blessed Spirit; but
above all, the inexplicable blessedness, goodness, and excellency of that
highest majesty, drives him to his God many times a day.
2. All God's love unto us; his
loving-kindnesses, protections, preservations, bounty, patience, Divine illuminations,
spiritual blessings: in a word, every link of that golden chain of mercy,
grace, and glory, far thicker set with blessings in all kinds, than the heaven
with stars, should be so many strong chains, to draw our hearts to delight in
him, and with an humble familiarity to con-verse with his Holy Majesty. Oh! then, let us infinitely love, and learn exactly the heavenly
art of "walking with God!" For a more comfortable guiding us wherein,
give me leave to premise these quickening preparatives.
I. Look that you live not in any
known sin, in thine heart, life, or calling. For if so, you art so far from any
possibility of walking with GOD, that you wearest the devil's brand, and art
most certainly one of his. If SATAN keep possession, but by
one reigning sin, it will be thine everlasting ruin. You shall then be
so far from ever enjoying any holy acquaintance with GOD, that you shall be
destroyed body and soul for ever. One breach in the walls of a city, exposeth it to the surprise of an enemy. One leak in a
ship neglected will sink it at length into the bottom of the sea. The stab of a
pen-knife to the heart will as well slay a man, as all the daggers that killed
Cesar in the senate-house.
And because the bosom-sin is SATAN's
strongest hold, his tower of greatest confidence and security, and most
powerful to keep a man's heart from all holy acquaintance with God; I will, in
a few words, labor to en-lighten and disentangle any one, who unfeignedly
desires an utter divorce from this bosom-devil, by telling him first, what it
is: secondly, what is his: thirdly, how he may be deceived about it.
First, As
in every man there is one humor predominant; so also one work of darkness. And
it is that which his corrupt and original crookedness singles out to feed upon
with greatest sweetness. Afterward, by custom, it grows so powerful, that it
draws unto it the heat of his desires, and strongest workings of his heart; and
at the heighth, by an irresistible tyranny, it makes all occasions and
occurrences, religion, conscience, credit with the world, body, soul, and
outward state, service-able and contributory unto it, as to the devil's
viceroy, domineering In the wasted conscience.
Secondly, You
may discover what thine is by such marks as these: 1. It is that which thy
truest friends, thine own conscience and the finger of God in the ministry,
many times meets with, and checks thee for. 2. It is that, which if it break
into act, thine enemies most eagerly observe, and object, as matter of thy
greatest disgrace..3. It is that, which you art most
loath to leave, art oftenest tempted unto, have least power to resist, and
which most hinders the resignation of thy soul and body, heartily and
unreservedly to God. 4. It is that, which God most frequently corrects in thee,
even in the acknowledgment of thy self-accusing heart. It may be, at several
times you have been afflicted with some heavy cross, loss of a child, bodily
pain, trouble Qf mind: now in all these, upon the first smarting apprehension,
thy conscience, if any whit awakened, of its own accord, seizes upon that sin
we now seek for, as the principal Achan and author of all thy misery. 5. It is
that which you loathest to acknowledge. And therefore you beatest thy brains to
devise evasions, excuses, extenuations, whole
cart-loads of fig-leaves with which to colour and cloak this foul fiend. 6.
Thoughts, plots, and projects about it, ordinarily seize upon thine heart, at
thy very first waking; if they have not broken off thy sleep, and troubled thee
in thy dreams. 7. In the darkness of the night, if you art suddenly awakened
with some dreadful thunder, lightening, or terrible tempest, (if thine heart be
not altogether hardened,) the guilt and accusations of thy beloved sin is wont
to come into thy mind in the first place, and with greatest terror.
Thirdly, A
man may be deceived in conceiving that he is quite delivered from his
bosom-sin, and yet it may be but a mere exchange, or some other mistake. This
gross, affected self-imposture, may be seen in such
cases as these: 1. He may change the outward form of it. For instance; whereas
the same sin of covetousness does express itself by usury, bribery, crushing
the poor of the same trade, over-reaching, all manner
of doing wrong, all kinds of oppression; he may insensibly glide out of one
gulf, into another. He may fall from one of these, being more notorious to some
other of them less observed, and not so odious in the world, and yet still
abide in the "chambers of death." The foul sin of uncleanness shows
itself by fornication, adultery, self-pollution,
brutish and immoderate abuse of marriage. Now, he may pass from one of these
pollutions to some other of them, not affrighting the conscience with such
horror, and yet still he in the damnable snares of
lust. 2. He may refrain from the outward acts of such hateful villanies; and
yet his inward parts be still hankering after them. He may forbear the external
acts of uncleanness; and yet he in speculative wantonness. 3. Nay, he may
change the kind of his bosom sin, and yet it is but the exchange of one foul
fiend for another. For instance: wantonness may be his sweet
sin in youth; worldliness in old age: revelling in his younger years; downright
drunkenness in his declining time: prodigality may sway in some part of his
life; pinching in some other: furious zeal for one while; profane
irreligiousness for another. 4. When the feebleness of old age has wasted the
vigor of his mind, and the boisterous heat of his affections, his darling sin
may bid him adieu, without any penitent discharge; and he may say unto it, I
have no more pleasure in thee. Whereupon he may conclude a
final conquest over it; a secure deliverance from the guilt and curse of it.
5. He may please himself with forced cessation from it, when there is no want
of good-will, as they say; but only of matter, means, or opportunity. 6. He
may, for a time, pull his neck out of this strongest yoke of SATAN, out of a
slavish fear of hell; but the unclean spirit returns, and rules in him again
far more imperiously, after his extra-ordinary and impatient forbearance.
Thus I have briefly intimated what a
beloved sin is; what thine may be; and how you may be deceived about it. Fqr if
you wouldst truly taste how gracious the Lord is, in a sweet communion with his
blessed majesty; if you wouldst be intimately acquainted with the mystery of
CHRIST, wherein are hid infinite heavenly treasures, and such pleasures, "
as neither eye has seen, nor ear heard, neither has it entered into the heart
of man to conceive; if you wouldst ever be fitly qualified to walk humbly with
thy GOD, in the way which is called holy; as you must fall out for ever with
all sin, so must you principally improve all thy spiritual forces, utterly to
demolish the devil's castle; to dethrone that grand empoisoner of thy soul,
(and strongest bar to keep out acquaintance, and intercourse with GOD,) thy
bosom sin.
II. Build all thy resolutions for
heaven and God's service, upon that strong and purest pillar, that main and
most precious principle of Christianity, self-denial. There can be no walking
with GOD, no sweet communion, and sound peace at his
mercy-seat, except for his sake
you be
content to deny thyself, thy worldly wisdom, excellency of learning, applause
with the most; thy passions, profits, pleasures, preferments, nearest friends,
ease, liberty, life, any thing, every thing: and fear no loss; for all things
else are nothing, to the least comfortable glimpse of God's face.,
III. Exercise thyself continually,
in that only heaven upon earth, and sweetest sanctuary to an
hunted soul, the life of faith: which to live in some good measure, is the duty
and property of every living member of JESUS CHRIST. Love therefore, and labor
to live by the power of faith,. the
life of salvation, sanctification, preservation.
1. Of salvation, thus: let thy
humbled soul, groaning under the burden of sin, throw itself into the merciful
arms of JESUS CHRIST, wounded, broken, and bleeding upon the cross; and there
let it hold, and hide itself for ever in full assurance of eternal life, by
virtue of that promise, John 3: 36, "He that believeth on the Son, has
everlasting life." For having thus laid hold upon him, he by his Spirit
does communicate first himself unto thee; then both the merit of his death for
remission of thy sins; and of his active obedience for thy right to salvation;,t.' and withal, the power of his Spirit, to quicken thee to
the life of grace in this world, and to raise up thy body to the life of glory.
2. Of sanctification: if you always
keep thy faith, the root from which all thine other graces spring, in life and
vigor, you shall pray more comfortably, be more courageously patient, hear the
Word more fruitfully, receive the sacraments more joyfully, pass the sabbaths
more delightfully, confer more cheerfully, meditate more heavenly, walk in all
the ways of new obedience with more strength, and conquest over corruptions. For ordinarily, every Christian shall find the exercise of other
graces to be comfortable, or cold, according to the liveliness, or languishing
of his faith.
3. Of preservation,
both temporal and spiritual: in crosses, afflictions, and all God's outward
angry visitations, by the power of such promises as those, Psal. lxxxix. 33, and 1. 15; Heb. 12: 7, 8, 11; 1 Thess. 3: 3;
Acts 14: 22; Luke 9: 23. And in the course of thy particular calling: the
duties and works whereof, if you discharge with conscientiousness, diligence,
and prayer, you may go on with comfort, and freedom from torturing
thoughtfulness; and leave the success of all thy labors unto the Lord,
whatsoever it may be; resting sweetly, and ever relying upon that gracious
promise, Heb. 13: 5, " I will never fail thee, nor forsake thee."
Nay, in the loss of all earthly things in every kind: see flab. 3: 17, 18,
" although the fig-tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the
vines: the labor of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat:
the flock shall be cut off from the field, and there shall be no herd in the
stalls: yet I will rejoice in the Lord: I will joy in the God of my salvation."
In oppositions against the raising or restoring of spiritual buildings by the
ministry of the Word: or in temptations against a man's personal progress, and
holding out unto the end; by renouncing our own strength, disclaiming the arm
of flesh, and crying in every encounter, " Not by
might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord." In
the valley of the shadow of death; by an assurance of God's merciful,
omnipotent presence, Psal. 23: 4. Amidst variety of temptations, relying on those words, 1 Cor. 10:
12, James 1: 2, Isa. 30: 18. Thus in any trouble of soul, body, good
name, outward state, present, or to come, you may by the sovereign power of
faith working upon the Word, not only draw out the sting and expel the poison
of it; but also create comfort to thy soul, and maintain it, in despite of all
opposition, in a constant spiritual gladness. For all those promises, whereupon
thy heavy heart in such cases may repose, are sealed with the bloody sufferings
of CHRIST. And if you be in CHRIST, all are as certainly thine, as the heart in
thy body, or blood in thy veins.
IV. Settle in thine heart a true
estimate of the sub-stance, power, and marrow of Christianity: which does not
consist, as too many suppose, in outward shows, profession, talking; in holding
strict opinions, contesting against the corruptions of the times; in the work
wrought, external religious exercises, hearing, reading, conference, and the
like: but in righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost; in meekness,
tender-heartedness, love; in patience, humility, contentedness; in
mortification of sin, moderation of passion, and holy guidance of the tongue;
in works of mercy, justice, and truth; in fidelity, and painfulness in our
callings; in reverence unto superiors, love of our enemies, an open-hearted,
real, fruitful affection and bounty to God's people; in heavenly-mindedness,
self-denial, the life of faith; in disesteem of earthly things, and a resolute
hatred of sin; in approving our hearts in God's presence; a sweet communion with
him, and a comfortable longing for the coming of the Lord JESUS.
Yet mistake me not; you must have a
show, must profess and talk, if you wouldst have CHRIST to own thee at that
dreadful day, Mark 8: 38. It is therefore an idle cavil of some, to say, Cannot
a man be religious to him-self, except he let all the
world know it? For where the power of religion is, there will be the show also.
Painted fire shines not, ascends not, heats not; but true fire is ever
inseparably attended with these properties. If true grace be in the heart, it
will shine in our words, actions, and whole conversation. He that will take
shows from the substance of religion, let him take
brightness from the sun. show and profession of CHRIST
before men is commanded, as well as the substance and soundness of heart, Rom.
10: 9, 1O. Outward exercises of religion are, as it were, the body, without
which the soul of Christianity path no existence.
V. Prize the fruition of GOD, a
nearer communion with his blessed majesty, the love and light of his
countenance; and thereupon a free and frequent access, with humble boldness,
unto the throne of grace, at a far higher rate, than heaven and earth; as a
real foretaste of eternal joys. For to say no more at this time, if you hold an
holy familiarity with GOD, and he look pleasedly upon thee, you shall grasp
JESUS CHRIST more sweetly in the arms of faith; partake more plentifully of the
joyful freedom; presence, and communication of his comforting Spirit; be
guarded more strongly and narrowly by his glorious angels, suck more heavenly
manna out of the ministry, and other ordinances; walk in safety amongst the
creatures, like an unconquerable lion. And if at any time you art seized upon
by any cross or calamity from any of the creatures; any trouble or temptation
from man or devil; yet the refreshing beams of God's face, shining through the
darkness of such discomforts, will infinitely make
amends for all. The poison and curse of them shall never come near thy soul.
The Lord, in the mean time, like an eagle fluttering about her nest, will most
tenderly defend and protect thee, Isa. xxxi. 5; and at length most certainly
come, like a young lion roaring on his prey, for thy rescue and enlargement,
Isa. xxxi. 4.
VI. Labor by a constant watch to
keep thy heart in a spiritual temper, still sweetly content, and fruitfully
con-versant in the mystery of CHRIST, and secrets of his kingdom; which you
shall more easily do, if you rejoice in GOD, his Word, and graces, as thy chief
joy. 2. By all earthly things he drawn to the love of heavenly. For though God
has appointed but one Sabbath in seven days, yet to a Christian every day is
sanctified to be a rest from all the deeds of the flesh, wherein he is to walk
with his GOD, and show forth the religious keeping of his heart, in every
action of his life; so making every passage of his particular calling, a part
of Christian obedience. 3. As soon as you discoverest any spiritual weakness or
decay, any extraordinary assault, temptation, deadness, complain betimes; cry mightily
to GOD, give him no rest, neither give over seeking, until he return unto thy
soul, If ordinary means will not prevail, press upon him with extraordinary. If
then he do not revive thee, wait with a patient, wakeful longing of all the
powers of thy soul; and then all this while thy soul will be still in its true
spiritual temper, 4. Decline watchfully all occasions of falling from thy first
love, fervency, and heavenly-mindedness; as spiritual pride, desire to be rich,
discontinuance of thine intimateness with the godly, neglect of thy particular
calling, or daily watch over thy heart; ungodly company, formality in
religious duties, coldness and customariness in the use of the means. 5. Suffer
not thine affections to be set upon praise, profit, the favor of great ones,
mirth, pleasure, ease, earthly contentment, and comforts, preferment, wealth,
long life, or any worldly thing; but disesteem all other delights in respect of
doing God's will; which should ever be unto thee meat and drink, thy only paradise
upon earth.
VII. Let thy soul often soar upon
the wings of faith, unto the glory of the empyrean heaven, where God dwells,
and hase itself before-hand in that everlasting bliss above. Oh 1 think with
thyself, (though it far pass the reach of any mortal thought,) what an infinite
sweetness it will be, to look for ever upon the glorious body of JESUS CHRIST;
and to consider that every vein of that blessed body bled to bring thee to
heaven! To say no-thing of the beauty of that ever-blessed place, of that
joyful communion with Christian friends, and all the crowned saints, and
innumerable felicities more, which surpass the comprehension of the largest
heart; contemplate principally the fountain of all thy bliss: how the mighty
Jehovah, God blessed for ever, will pour out of himself, perpetual rivers of
unutterable joys and pleasures, upon thy glorified body and soul, through all
eternity; even as the sun pours out his beams, and shining every day afresh
upon the world, without emptiness or end. And with such variety, (for he is
infinite,) that they shall be unto thee as fresh, as new, as sweet, as ravishing,
millions of years after you have dwelt in those mansions of rest, as they were,
the very first moment you enteredst that blissful place. If a man do but once a
day seriously and solemnly thus cast up the eye of his faith, upon that
never-fading crown of life, he may, with more affectionate freedom, and
contempt of earth, have his conversation above, and turn the current of all his
delights, love, and longings, with more constancy towards his heavenly
home. These preparatives premised, I proceed to some general directions for a more
comfortable walking in the way that is called holy.
I. First, have a special eye to a
sincere, constant, and fruitful performance of holy duties, God's services.
And, to say nothing at this time of private reading the Scriptures, public
hearing the Word, personal prayer, and with thy yoke-fellow, (if you live in
that estate,) singing of psalms, meditation, days of humiliation, (of which you
must proportionably make conscience in their due place, observing also in them
the ensuing cautions: for a customary neglect of any holy duty, religious
exercise, Divine ordinance, may bring a damp upon the rest, and a consumption
upon the whole body of Christianity;—1 say, to leave these,) I only at this
time purposely advise, for the better sanctifying thyself and all about thee,
to a more successful managing of affairs, either spiritual or civil; that you
being master of a family, (for I single out such an one for instance,) be ever
sure to glorify GOD, amidst thy people, by morning and evening sacrifice of
prayers and praises. In the discharge of which main duty of Christianity,
utterly neglected by the most, and empoisoned to many, by their resting only in
the work wrought, take heed of declining into a form or customariness, which
will most certainly draw the very life-blood and breath out of those holy
businesses. Labor, therefore, by a reverent collecting of all the powers of thy
soul, and fresh renewing thy watch at every several time, to preserve heart and
spirit in those daily devotions. Which you shall the better
do, if you look to, 1. A right disposition before the doing: 2. A
spiritual behavior in it: 3. An holy carriage afterward.
For the first, 1.
Come not before God with any sin lying upon thy conscience unrepented of, or
delighted in. 2. Neither with passion, wrath, or
heart-burning against any. 3. Stir up thy faith, about the things
desired and deprecated. Briefly, in the apostle's words, "
Lift up holy hands without wrath and doubting." Bring, 1: Resolution
against all sin, in respect of God: 2. Peace and appeased passions, in respect
of men: 3. Assurance to be heard, in respect of thyself. Or thus: Before you
fall upon thy knees, shake off three empoisoning binderances, which will clog
the wings of thy prayers, that they will never be able to ascend unto heaven:
outward sin, inward anger, distrust: and possess thy heart of three excellent
helps: 1. A right apprehension of God's dreadfulness, purity, power. 2. A true
sense of thy own vileness. 3. A hearty survey of the infiniteness of God's
bounty, blessings, and compassionate forbearances towards thee.
For the
second: 1. Repel with an undaunted spirit, SATAN's blasphemous injections, (if
he be busy that way,) and he is ordinarily most spiteful against the best businesses,
and the rather, because if they be heartily abominated, they are put upon the
devil's score, and are only thy crosses, not thy sins. 2. Watch over the world
with all care, that if it be possible, not an earthly thought may creep into
thy heart. 3. Strive to hold thy heart in heat, as well in confession as
deprecation; in deprecation as petition; in intercession as for personal
blessings; as well for purity of heart, as pardon of sin; though there may be
difference of heat, and crying unto GOD, according to the necessity of the
blessing asked in the prayer. Prayer is the creature of the Holy Ghost, every
part whereof, we should heartily desire, that he would animate thoroughly, even
as the soul does the body.
For the third, with all
watchfulness, pursue and press after the things prayed for, by a timely
apprehension, fruitful exercise, and utmost improvement of all occasions,
ordinances, helps, and heavenly offers, which may any ways concur to the
obtaining of them. For instance: you prayest for knowledge: walk then, when you
have done, with a constant endeavor, in the strength of this prayer, through
all the means, reading, hearing, confer ring, practising, (for even that also
is a means to increase knowledge, especially experimental,) for the storing of
thy understanding with all sacred illuminations and holy senses of God's saving
Word. Let no opportunity pass; be violent in catching all occasions for the
hoarding up in thine heart such hidden treasures. " If you criest after
knowledge," says Solomon, " and liftest up thy voice for
understanding," chap. 2: 3, (there is the prayer): " if you seekest
her as silver, and searchest for us, as for hidden treasures, ver. 4, (there is
the endeavor): " Then shall you understand the fear of the Lord, and find
the knowledge of GOD," ver. 5, (there is the blessing.) Again, you prayest
to be preserved out of ill company, you dost well: but when you have done, dost
you make conscience of that counsel of Solomon, Prov. 4: 14, 15, and by the
power thereof, oppose the cunning enticements, and cursed importunities of
thine old companions and brethren in iniquity? " Enter
not," says Solomon, " into the path of the wicked; and go not in the
way of wicked men. Avoid it, pass not by it; turn from it, and pass away."
He that makes prayer the end of prayer, thinking when that holy duty is done,
that there is no more to be done, prays to no purpose. There must be good doings,
as well as good ordinances. He that does not earnestly afterwards set himself
against sins deprecated, and pursue with zeal the good things petitioned, his
prayer is not worth a rush.
II. Decline idleness, the very
canker of the soul, the devil's cushion; his tide-time of temptation, wherein
he carries with much ease, the current of our corrupt affections, to any
cursed sin. And be diligent in some lawful, honest, particular calling; not so
much to engross wealth, as for necessary provision for thy family and
posterity. And in obedience to that common charge, laid upon the sons of Adam,
to the world's end; " in the sweat of thy face
shall you eat bread, till you return unto the ground." 1. But ever go
about the affairs of thy calling with a heavenly mind, seasoned and sanctified
with habitual prayer, ejaculatory elevations, willingness, if God so please, to
be dissolved, and to be with CHRIST; pregnant with heavenly matter and
meditations, picked out of the passages of thy present business. For instance;
let the husband-man in seed-time think, If I now take
not the season, I shall have no harvest, but starve in the winter: so if I
gather not grace in this sunshine of the gospel, 1 shall find nothing but
horror upon my bed of death. 2. In all the business of thy personal calling,
let thy eye be upon God's glory, as the end of all thy actions, and in them
seek and serve that glorious end of God's honor, not so much in procuring thine
own, as the good of the church, of thy neighbors, and family. 3. By earthly employments,
do not become an earth-worm. In using the world, grow not a worldling, and such
an one as finds more sweetness in worldly dealings and
profits, than in thy heavenly traffic and treasures.
III. In thy solitary seasons: 1.
Single out some special matter to meditate on; both to prevent vain and foolish
thoughts, impertinent wanderings, and the trifling away thy precious time; and
also to keep the powers of thy soul alive. When can. you be alone, and not have
just cause, either to busy thy mind about some lawful affairs of thy calling;
or to strive against some corruption, which troubles the peace of thy
conscience, or to break out in the praises of GOD, or to employ thy mind on
sotne subject of heavenly meditation, whereof there is so great variety? 2.
Watch and withstand, with all godly jealousyand care, two dangerous evils: 1st.
Thoughts of pleasures from thy youthful sins, which at such times are ready to
make re-entry. And in this point take heed, lest the devil delude thee in the
glory of an angel. For in thy solitary musing, you may possibly resume the
abominations of thy former life, especially of that sin, which was thy darling
pleasure, on purpose to bewail and detest them; and yet, without a vigilant
eye, that which was intended for an exercise of repentance, may cursedly end in
the ideal re-enjoyment of old filthy pleasures. 2dly, Take heed also at such
times of acting any new sins, upon sensual suppositions, and imaginary plots:
as of worldliness, speculative wantonness, or dishonoring God's providence by
an unnecessary forecasting of fearful accidents. 3. Let not pass such a golden
opportunity without some conference with God in secret. Cry out towards heaven
for some special graces, by which you may be most enabled to glorify God most, and
to keep in thy breast a cheerful and heavenly spirit, as for precious jewels to
be purchased with the loss of ten thousand worlds; but not to be parted with
for as many worlds as you have hairs upon thy head. Beg with earnestness
mortifying grace, and spiritual strength, for the conquering of those unruly
passions that most haunt thee. Let a sorrowful survey of all thy sins draw from
thee some hearty groan, and fervent ejaculations for mercy and pardon; or a
summary view of God's blessings fill thy heart with lowly and thankful
thoughts. Thus let some part of thy solitary time be sure to be seasoned with
holy musings, and talk with God.
IV. Concerning company, I advise, 1.
That you never cast thyself into wicked company, upon choice; and abide no
longer with them at any time, than you have sound warrant to do. It is not for
the honor or comfort of God's children familiarly to converse with graceless
men. There is a strange power in ill company, to empoison and pervert even the
best dispositions. But the hurt which the Christian does take in this regard,
is most from civil men, whited tombs, who being unseasoned with the power of
inward sanctification, secretly infuse, if not a notorious infection with some
scandalous sin; yet many times a fearful defection from zeal in the ways of
God. Throw a blazing firebrand into the snow, and its brightness and heat will
be quickly put out. Let a Christian but for a while abandon his communion with
God's children, and stay in the company of those who are cold and careless; and
he shall, in a very short time, find his zeal to be much cooled, the tenderness
of his conscience much qualified with worldly wisdom; much dullness of heart,
deadness of spirit, drowsiness, and heartlessness in his affections to holy
things; and an universal decay of his graces insensibly to grow upon him. In
this respect many Christians do themselves much injury. For they some-times
unadvisedly, by reason of kindred, or for old acquaintance, hold too near
correspondence with such as are at best only civil men; and they, wanting both
heart and skill to uphold any holy conversation, or to afford mutual help, in
the feeling parts of sanctification, are occasions to put God's children out of
use with the language of Canaan, and to bereave them of much zeal, comfort,
feelings of God's favor, boldness in his ways, and cheerfulness in the
exercises of religion.
2. In the second place: if you
desire to converse with some of thine unconverted kindred, neighbors, and old
acquaintance, for their spiritual good, observe these three rules: 1. Let there
be good probability of there being more spiritual wisdom and Christian
resolution in thee to convert. them, than poison of
worldly wisdom in them, to pervert thee. 2. See that thy heart be sincere, and you seek truly their conversion, and not
thine own secret satisfaction: for in this point thine own heart will be ready
to deceive thee. 3. As physicians of the body arm themselves with strong
preservatives, when they visit contagious patients; so be you sure to furnish
thyself before-hand with prayer,meditation, the sword of the Spirit, store of
persuasive matter, strength of reasons, and unshaken resolutions, to repel all
spiritual infection.
3. In the company of true
Christians, which you should prize as heaven upon earth, bring, l. A cheerful heart. Methinks, though you should come amongst
the saints with a sad heart, overcast with clouds of heaviness; yet the faces
of those, whom hereafter you shall meet in heaven, and there with incomparable
joy behold for ever, clothed with glory, should dispel
them all. I know them, who, being cast sometimes against their wills among
profane company, are quite out of their element all the while; struck dead in
the place, as they say; as solitary as in the silentest desert. But let them
come amongst Christians, and they are quite other men, as full of lightsomeness
and life, as full of heat and heaven, as if they had the one foot in the porch
of paradise already. Sadness is not seasonable, where such precepts as these have
place: " Be glad in the Lord, and rejoice, ye righteous, and shout' for
joy, all ye that are upright in heart."
2. A fruitful heart, full as the moon with gracious matter to uphold
edifying conference. Being forward and free without any hurtful bashfulness, or
vain-glorious aim, both to communicate to others the hidden treasures of
heavenly knowledge, and also by moving of questions, and ministering occasion
mutually to draw from them the waters of life, for the refreshing and
quickening of the deadness and unheavenliness of thine own heart. And here it
will be a profitable wisdom, to observe each others several endowments, and
with wise insinuations, to provoke them to pour out themselves in those
things, wherein they have best experience and most excellency.
Some are more skilful in discussing controverted points: others in resolving cases of conscience some in discovering the devil's depths,
and treading the maze of his manifold temptations: others in comforting
afflicted spirits, and speaking to the hearts of mourners in Zion.
I am persuaded many times, many worthy discourses he buried in the breasts of
understanding men, by reason of the sinful silence, and barrenness of those
about them. And there-fore Christians ought to be more forth-putting, active,
and fruitful this way.
3. An humble heart, rejoicing to exchange and enjoy heavenly
consultations with the poorest and most neglected Christian. If you be haunted
with the white devil of spiritual pride, it is likely you wilt be either too
profuse, and so engross all the talk; or else too curious, and so say no more
than may serve to breed an admiration of thy worth; which is a very sinful and
fearful fault. There is no depth of knowledge, no heighth of zeal, but may be
enlarged and inflamed by conference with the poorest Christian.
V. But above all, be most busy with
thy heart: for it is the root that either poisons or sweetens all the rest.
Attend, therefore, amongst others, to these three points of special consequence
with all seriousness and zeal.
1. To captivate and conform the
thoughts and imaginations of thy heart, to the sovereignty and rules of grace.
If thy change in words, actions, and all outward carriage were angelical; yet
if thy thoughts were the same as ever, you wouldst still be a limb of SATAN.
Purity in the in-ward parts is the most sound evidence
of our interest in CHRIST's saving passion: see Jer. 4: 14, Isa. lv. 7. Now,
that you may the better keep the thoughts of thy heart in obedience unto
CHRIST, acknowledge, First, the pestilence of that wicked proverb, Thoughts
are free. It is true, the invisible projects of the heart he not within the
walk of human justice. But there is an all-seeing eye in heaven, to which the
blackest midnight is as the brightest
noontide. Whereas then the natural man is wont to let his heart run into idle
imaginations, without remorse or restraint; do you make thy sanctification
sure, by this infallible sign, that you sufferest the consideration of God's
all-seeing eye, and check of a tender conscience, to range thy thoughts into
order, and to confine and keep them within a holy compass.
Secondly, acknowledge that you must
he accountable for every wandering thought, as well as for idle words and
wicked actions. Therefore, if you be not exactly vigilant over thy heart, you
may justly fear, that, upon the opening of the book of thy conscience, at those
two dreadful days, of death, and the last judgment, innumerable armies of
exorbitant thoughts, which have lain in ambush as it were, in the secret
corners of thy deceitful heart, will charge thee with a far heavier account,
than you have seriously thought upon heretofore.
Thirdly,
acknowledge that God's glory must as well shine in thy thoughts, in the
invisible workings, intentions, and desires of the heart, as in thine outward
conversation. As God expects service from his children in words and works; so
there is also a thought-service, a thought-worship, as I may call it, which is
very precious in his eyes, as springing more immediately from the heart, wherein
he principally delights; and because the secrecy of it is attended with more
sincerity. Remember there-fore to render with all'reverence and zeal unto the
Father of spirits, and Lord of thy soul, the daily tribute of thy
thought-service, as well as the tongue-service and hand-service. And the
rather, because opportunities, abilities, and means may fail for outward
performances, but the heart is ever at leisure and liberty to think nobly. No
times, no tyrants, no wants or restraint, can hinder it from an invisible
fruition of GOD, with thoughts of sweetest rapture and reverence, of love and
lowliest adoration; from hasing itself in the meritorious blood of the immaculate
Lamb, with thoughts of inexplicable peace, joy, and triumph; and from cleaving
to the promises of life, and diving into the mystery of grace with purest
delight, and victorious faith; from being as a mountain of myrrh and incense,
sending up a spiritual sacrifice of praise-full thoughts, infinitely admiring
and magnifying the glory and goodness of that merciful hand, which wrote thy
name in the book of life, suffered the dearest blood in his Son's heart to
"be spilt as water upon the ground, for the washing of thy body and soul
from sin; and after a span of time, will set a crown of eternity upon thy head.
And, besides God's more special acceptance of this invisible service, it is
ordinarily full of more spirituality and life, by reason that it is nearest to
the object of adoration. The best man, though he may labor to do his best every
way, yet he shall find a difference in his duties and services towards God.
His works do not answer with that exactness to his words: his words cannot
express the thoughts of his heart: the thoughts of his heart come infinitely
short of the excellency of God. Those streams which
are next to the well-head, are purest. The thoughts of
a sanctified heart, laying hold upon him, with immediate apprehension, that
most amiable, holy, and glorious object, God blessed for ever, give him his due
and reverend attributions, with more heartiness, life, and heavenliness, than
words or actions are wont; though all a man's best, in thought, word, and deed,
falls fearfully short of what we owe and ought to do.
2. Keep a continual and watchful
guard over thy heart. It is like a city, liable every moment both to inward commotion
and outward assault. The fountain of original impurity, though its main stream be stayed by the sanctifying power of CHRIST's grace; yet
it does still less or more bubble up. The world does labor continually with her
three great battering engines of pleasure, riches, and honors, to lay it waste.
The devil watches every opportunity to hurl in his fiery darts, and cast all
into combustion. Precious, therefore, is that precept, "
Keep thy heart with all diligence," Prov. 4: 23. That you may do this with more success, First, watch'over the windows of thy soul, the senses. It is
incredible what pollution the devil conveys insensibly through these inlets of
sin, into their bosoms who are careless this way. To
instance in the ear and eye: a tale-bearer tells thee, that such a one said of
thee so and so, when in truth, it was neither so nor so. You presently
conceivest thoughts of displeasure against that man, that. never
thought thee ill. Here you spillest innocent blood; for thy heart may kill, as
well as thy tongue. and hand. It is fit therefore for
every honest face to fill itself with frowns of distaste and indignation at the
approach of any tale-teller. " As the north wind
driveth away rain, so does an angry countenance a backbiting tongue."
Concerning the eye, David's example may warn the holiest men to the world's
end, to be very watchful with a restless jealousy, over that wandering sense.
Secondly, resist and crush every exorbitant thought, which draws to sin, at the
very first rising. Say unto thyself, " If I commit this sin, it will cost
me more smart, before I can obtain assurance of
pardon, than the sensual pleasure is worth: if I never repent, it will be the
damnation of my soul." Thirdly, entertain always with all holy desire, and
make much of; all good motions put into thy heart by the blessed Spirit. Feed,
enlarge, and improve them to the utmost, with meditation, prayer, and practice.
So you shall preserve thy heart in a soft, holy, comfortable temper, which is a
singular happiness.
3. Often lift you up thy heart
towards heaven. What Christian heart can endure to discontinue its sweet
familiarity and humble intercourse with God for one day? Let thy broken heart
therefore every day, besides ordinary ejaculations, evening and morning, and
upon other special occasions, be sure, 1st, To have itself in the depth of
God's mercies in CHRIST, that it may be kept thankful, and inclined to all holy
duties. 2dly, To kiss sweetly the glorified body of our
crucified Laid with the lips of affectionate love, (though the distance be
great, yet the hand of faith will bring them easily together,) that it may be
preserved in peace, purify, and opposition unto sin. 3dly, To cast the eye of
hope unto the unutterable excellencies of that immortal crown above, which
after this life shall be set upon thy head by the hand of God; a very glimpse
whereof is able both to sweeten the basest wrongs from the world and wicked
men, and to dispel those mists of fading vanities, which this great dunghill of
the world, heated by the fire of in-ordinate lusts, is wont to interpose
between the sight of men's souls and the bliss of heaven.
VI. Be very
watchful over thy predominant passion; whether it be fear, sorrow, love, or
anger. All of them are raging enough; but commonly one rules over all the rest,
in the unregenerate man; nay, too often offers to rise in rebellion even
against the sanctified soul. Whatsoever it be, 1. In
thy private morning sacrifice, be sure to pour forth the deepest groans and
strongest cries for mortifying grace against it, and comfortable conquest over
it. 2. Cut off all occasions, whatsoever it cost thee, which
may any ways kindle it. Withdraw the fuel that ministers food unto that
flame, though it shall be as painful unto thee, as the plucking out of the
right eye.
VII. Prize, as a most comfortable
perfection in Christianity, a right ordering of thy tongue. It is of special
importance for preservation both of outward and inward peace. Original
corruption has put upon every man's tongue a fiery edge, whereby like a sword,
it kills and slays on all sides; wounds the souls of the present; mangles the
good names of the absent, and so hases itself in continual bloodshed, (for
there is heart-murder, and tongue-murder, as well as hand-murder,) until the
attainment of this grace. That it may therefore neither be unseasonably idle,
nor sinfully exercised, take notice of, and practice.
I. That much and generally neglected
duty of Christian reproof. You shall meet now and then, upon unavoidable
necessity, wits men that swear, blaspheme God's name, talk filthily, or rail
against good men; besides many other base and profane speeches. In this case
wicked men meddle not. They hold it a point of unnecessary preciseness to mar
the mirth, by calling sin into question. They are commonly excellent in railing
upon a good man in his absence; but they are stark naught in reproving a
notorious wretch unto his face. If they open their mouth in this way, it is
commonly in form, for some one's sake in the company;' who, they know, cannot
endure it. But in such cases, the Christian is truly solicitous and zealous,
and careful how to frame and hold a serious, wise, and seasonable
contra-diction to the language of hell. He dares not hold his peace, lest he be
guilty, of the parties going on in sin; of betraying God's glory by a cowardly
silence; and of wounding his own conscience. For this kind of reproving then,
the Christian is not to be censured. Conscience, charity, and God's commandment
call upon him for the performance of this needful duty, whensoever necessity,
or a warrantable calling shall have cast him among profane wretches; except
they be dogs, or swine. CHRIST himself has commanded,
that pearls and holy things shall not be cast away upon such.
The ground of this commandment of
CHRIST I take to be twofold: 1. A compassionate care
of GOD, even over the lives of his children. Besides the continual guard of the
blessed angels, his own all-seeing and all-pitying eye cdoes ever graciously
watch over them; and therefore he forbids them to cast themselves into the
mouth of a barking dog, or upon the paw of a revengeful lion: that is, he would
not have his child to vouchsafe so much as a reproof to any blasphemous wretch,
or desperate swaggerer, that would furiously fly in his face for offering him a
pearl. 2. An holy jealousy over the glory and majesty
of his own blessed word. It is that holy wisdom which issued immediately out of
his own infinite under-standing. It is far more pure
and unspotted than silver tried in a furnace of earth, fined seven-fold. It is
a sacred pearl, fashioned by his own almighty hand in the palaces of heaven;
and therefore most unworthy to be trodden under foot, or trampled in the mire
by any sensual swine. These two reasons of the commandment he in the text, " Give ye not that which is holy unto dogs, &c.
lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rent you."
Whence we have also some light to discern who are dogs,
and who are swine.
1. By dogs, we see, are meant
obstinate enemies, that maliciously revile the ministry of the word, and the
messengers thereof; who not only tread the words of instruction under foot, but
turn again, and rend the teachers, and furiously fly in the face of those who
fairly tell them of their faults. Consider this and tremble, all ye that are
become scornful and furious opposers to the power and purity of the word, and
to its faithful ministers. Alas! poor wretches! you
cast yourselves desperately into that accursed and horrible condition, that
every man is bound in conscience not to afford you so much as an admonition, or
reproof, or a caveat to prevent those curses, which are coming upon you. And
you willfully draw upon your own heads that most fearful doom from God's
Spirit, " He that is filthy, let him be filthy
still." He that rails against the power of grace,
let him continue still a mad dog. He that sets himself
maliciously against the ministry of the word; let that man receive no comfort
or benefit by the word of life. If he will needs do it, let him roar
still, swagger, be drunk, despair, die, And be damned.
2. By swine are meant those
scurrilous wretches, who scornfully trample under foot all holy instructions
and reproofs. Some of these are swine, as it were, only in practice. They do
not say much, or keep any great grunting against good men; but they feed
insatiably, though silently, upon the dross of sensual pleasures. And if at any
time a pearl be cast in their nay, (I mean, a seasonable reproof,) they trample
it in the mire, and, with a brutish baseness, tread it under foot; because
indeed they hate to be reformed, and are resolved not to exchange these worldly
pleasures for an hundred heavens. Other swine there are, both in practice and
profession; who, besides their hating to be reformed, and resolution not to
forego their present pleasures, arc also possessed with a spirit of scoffing.
These are rather wild boars: for with a furious insolence, they provoke and
challenge the mighty Lord of heaven, about the truth of his judgments and
promises. Let all swinish wretches consider this, and tremble; who, with sinful
greediness feed upon earthliness; who willfully wallow in the mud of vanishing
pleasures, and will not be washed; who come to, and depart from the house of
GOD, with a resolution not to change their old fashions, (say the preacher what
he will,) but to live, and end their days in their former courses of
profaneness. Cursed also is the condition of all you that are scoffers at
godliness and good men. You have wearied yourselves so long in walking and
standing in wicked ways, that you are now set down at rest in the chair of
scorners. And therefore, all those that stand on the Lord's side are commanded
by CHRIST, there to leave you in your damned case, and to disquiet you no
further. And what an horrible depth of spiritual
misery is this, that you run furiously towards the pit of hell, and must have
no body to stay you; not a man to call and cry unto you, that the fiery lake is
a little before you?
Though we have thus much light from
the natural properties of dogs, and swine to descry them; yet Christians are
sore troubled many times, when to speak, and when to hold their peace; when to
repute persons, dogs, and swine, when not. And I do not see how any constant
rule can be given in this case; it is clothed with such a variety of
circumstances. The advice which I would give is this: when a man is perplexed
what to do amongst profane company, let him consult with those bosom
counsellors, look unto his spiritual wisdom, to his heart, and to his
conscience. These must be his guides in these cases: and they are counsellors
ever at hand.
1. His spiritual wisdom is to guide
him in a right apprehension of circumstances, and to define when he is to
interpose, and in what manner. It must tell him secretly, when the cause of
GOD, or the innocency of a good man calls specially upon him for an apology. It
must
inform him
how he must reprove; whether directly and in plain terms, or by intimation, and
indirectly; whether personally, or in the general; whether in a fair or milder
manner, or with a more bold and resolute spirit; whether in hot blood, as it
were, or afterward to take occasion to censure the same sin; whether only by
discountenance, or discourse; by a silent disapprobation, (which, I think, may
be sufficient for some men, at some times, in some companies,) or with solemn
protestation, and a professed opposition and dislike.
2. Let him also look to his heart,
that his reproof spring not from any imperious humor of censuring and meddling
with his brethren; from a proud vein of contradicting; out of a stoical
sourness, and commanding surliness; from any purpose to disgrace and grieve the
party; from pharisaical severity; from a secret desire of purchasing reputation;
or from any other by-respect: but from an heart truly humbled with its own
infirmities, zealously thankful unto God for preserving him from the like
outrage; graciously melted into commisseration of the offender; lifted up in a
secret supplication for the pardon of its own sin, success of the reproof, and
salvation of the party.
3. His conscience must guide him in
the right path, between two extremes, which, in these cases men are apt to
incur: I mean, faint-hearted silence, and furious zeal. Men, many times, by
reason of unChristian cowardliness, would gladly make all such offenders dogs
and swine; that thereby they might challenge the privilege of exemption from
the discharge of that Christian duty. Though their ears be filled with the
oaths and blasphemies of those that are about them, and railings against good
men, and the ways of God; yet they never open their mouth. Oh! these are vile cowards in good causes, and a kind of
traitors to Christianity. By such sinful silence, they labor to purchase a name
of no-meddlers in other men's matters; of wiser and more moderate Christians.
But let them know, that such no-meddling is a kind of soul,murdering.
Such wisdom is not that of the Scripture, but the wiliness of that red dragon,
suggested by hell. Some others, it may be, but not near so many, run into the
other extreme, and out of a furious zeal, with boisterousness fly in the face
of some desperate swaggerer, with an indigested and unseasonable reproof;
whereby they both incur the guilt of giving an holy thing unto a dog, and
unnecessary danger from the fury of the party. Or else for want of spiritual
wisdom, they tender an admonition to some such contemptuous swinish wretch, as
will put by the word of truth with a scurrilous jest; or with a dull, and
scornful sottishness trample it under foot.
These cautions premised, every Christian ought to ad-dress himself with resolution
to discharge this duty of reproving, when a just occasion requires it at his
hands. For these reasons:
First, In
respect to the party offending, a seasonable reproof may, by the blessing of
GOD, beau occasion of conversion to the offender. And let him know, that he who
a converteth the sinner from the error of his way,
shall save a soul from death, and shall hide a multitude of sins." With
what eagerness and zeal ought we to stop the course of a reasonable creature
towards the pit of hell? Speak then boldly in the cause of GOD, when you
Nearest thy brother blaspheme his name, jest with his word, talk filthily, rail
against holiness, slander good men; plead for profane pastimes, for they are so
many mortal stabs to his own poor soul; besides the natural infectiousness of
such speeches, which may do much mischief to the standers by. Though thy
reproof prevail not at the present; yet you knows not what impression it may
have afterward upon his hard heart, whereby perhaps he may think upon a new
course, and so you be a blessed instrument of saving a soul.
But if it have not so happy a success upon his soul, yet perhaps you
may thereby tame his insolence, and so cool and confound his swaggering humor,
that he will not glory in his villany. If a profane wretch will needs swear,
and rail against the servants of GOD, yet let him know, that all the while he
fights against GOD, damns his own soul, and pleases none but devils, drunkards,
and devilish men. If he will needs labor against the ways of GOD, let him know
that his name shall rot after him as vilely as his his carcass in the grave;
and himself burn in hell everlastingly, if he hold on in that humor without
timely repentance and re-formation.
Secondly, In
such cases the Christian must speak in respect of himself. As when the air is
empoisoned, men use some perfume, that so they may avoid the noisomeness of
the smell, and repel the contagion: so when any profane wretch has let fall any
rotten speech, the Christian, with a present counter-poison, as it were, of a
seasonable reproof, should stop his own apprehension,,lest
any baser infection insinuate, and stain the soul. Besides
silence at such a time would seem to bewray thy cowardliness in the cause of
God. For it would seem strange, that You, who makest a show of standing
on the Lord's side, should hear the name of God profaned, or the innocency of a
good man trampled upon, and yet never open thy mouth. As you therefore desirest
to hold it thy crown and honor to be champion unto the mighty Lord of heaven,
and the protector of the good names of good men, be ever ready to open thy
mouth, when a just apology in any of these respects is needful. Add to this, if
thy conscience be enlightened, awake, tender, and rightly informed, it will
smite thee after the omission of such a duty; when afterwards you considerest
that by thy cowardly silence thy soul is account-able for that sin. As you then
wouldst keep all in quiet in thine own bosom, suffer not blasphemies,
obscenities, railing, and other such talk to pass uncensured. It was the voice
of cruel Cain, " Am I my brother's keeper?"
But every true and tender-hearted Christian cdoes grieve to see so many of his
brethren stick fast in the teeth of thatred dragon, and therefore labors by all
means he can to rescue them; to see so many about him run as furiousl y as they
can, to drown themselves in the pit of endless perdition; and therefore, as
occasion serves, he calls and cries unto them to stay their course, before the
hellish gulf has shut her mouth upon them.
Thirdly, In respect of those which
are present, 1. By thy speaking in such a case, you may lay, as it were, the
spirit of profaneness for that time; so that it will not rage in the rest, as
otherwise it would. For we may sometimes observe, that a seasonable reproof
from a man of understanding, upon a fellow that behaves as though swearing were
his portion, and traducing the saints his trade, does so confound the rest of
the same crew, that they are quite put out of their humor. 2. You may hereby
uphold the weak, that they be not scandalized. 3. You may encourage the hearts
of stronger Christians, that they be not cast down
with the domineering of profaneness.
Fourthly, In respect of God himself,
reprove, 1. That though the days wherein we live, be strangely profane, yet
that it may appear, God has some to speak for him: that here and. there God has
a champion, who, fearless of the face of a man, dares defend his ways, and
stand on his side. 2. But above all, let that strict charge from God's own
mouth, (Levit. xix. 17, " You shall not hate thy brother in thine heart:
you shall in any wise rebuke thy neighbor, and not suffer sin upon him,")
fright every one of us out of our sinful silence and cowardliness this way.
Upon the
whole, as to this point, take notice of a threefold duty, which lies upon every
Christian in his carriage towards men before their faces: 1. Christian
admonition: as, if a brother be overtaken with a fault, or some less offence,
we are to admonish him in the spirit of meekness, Gal. 6: 1. 2. Christian
reproof: as, if he offend more grievously, we are freely to reprove him; and
not to suffer sin to rest upon him, Levit. xix. 17.
3. Christian
silence: as, if he be a son of Belial, a dog, or a swine, we are commanded by
CHRIST to say nothing, Matt. 7: G. Neither private admonition, nor brotherly
reproof is to be vouchsafed to profane ruffians, who would entertain it with cruelty
or scurrility.
II. Observe a sanctified silence,
from, 1. Rash censuring, which is severely censured by
CHRIST himself, and set as a visible brand upon the face of the hypocrite.
Leave pharisees and false hearts, to pass rash censures against those who are
far better than themselves. A sincere heart is ever most censorious and severe
against itself; most searching into, and sensible of its own sins. It knows
right well, by experience, what bitterness of spirit springs from the survey of
scandalous transgressions in cold blood. It feels deadness of heart, lessening
of graces, loss of comforts to ensue upon every
relapse. It finds too often, that if it foster in
itself any corruption or secret lust, the Lord will not hear its prayers. It is
well acquainted with the preciousness of a peaceful conscience, and God's
favorable countenance, which it cannot possibly enjoy, if it he in any one sin.
This being the experience of an upright heart, it is most eagle-eyed and
watchful over, most strict and severe against its own sins. Which
home-employment hinders a man from too much meddling abroad.
This world of work within, about his own soul, ties his tongue from being so
busy in censuring other men's faults. As therefore you wouldst have a true
testimony of taking thine own sins to heart, keep a constant and narrow watch
over thy tongue: be very sparing in speaking the evil which you knows of others: judge no man rashly.
Yea, but some will say, "
Howsoever you put it upon profane men, yet it is well known your sort are the
only shrewd censurers, very severe about other men's faults, and still ready,
by their peremptory judging, to send all others to hell, save themselves, and
those of their own sect." This I grant is many times the profane man's
censure of the true Christian, and therein he discovershimselff to be a true
hypocrite. For he censures sincere-hearted men to be censorious, when himself is the only unconscionable censurer. He reproves
God's faithful ones for reproving, when himself full
often, amongst his companions, condemns for counterfeits, without all ground or
truth, those whom the Lord himself justifies for true-hearted Nathanaels.
To rectify thy judgment in this
point of private judging, observe, first, That all
judging and censuring is not here condemned. We may judge the tree by its
fruit. If we see a fellow incorrigible in his lewd rebellious
courses; as swearing, whoredom, scoffing at religion, and the like, we may
(leaving his final doom to the Searcher of all hearts,) judge hint, for the present,
to be in a most wretched state. But in such cases, besides just cause,
be sure of a warrantable calling, conscionable end, and no beam in thine own
eye.
Secondly, Let u; take notice of some
differences between the true professor's and profane
men's censuring. It differs in respect, 1, Of the
object. The principal object of carnal men's censures is the zealous professor.
Dogged they are many times among themselves, but to the people of God they are
not only dogs, but enraged devils. The most resolute for God's glory, and in
good causes, is ordinarily most railed against and reviled. The foul spirit of
good fellowship, as they call it, is still foaming out against them the foulest
censures: That they are hypocrites, humorists, pestilent fellows, and all that
is nought. David was so charged by Saul and his
courtiers, Jeremiah by the profane nobles, CHRIST himself by the Scribes and
Pharisees, the primitive Christians by the heathens; and all that will live
godly in CHRIST JESUS, must look for the same persecution amongst the men of
this world. And in this itching humor of censuring the servants of GOD, the
wicked are so eager, that rather than they will want matter, they will snatch
it from the envenomed tongue of a tale-bearer; from the slanderous folly of
some scurrilous jester, the frothy raving of a greasy, drunken
alehouse-haunter; nay, rather than fail, forge it out of their own profane
fancies, and suck it, as they say, out of their own fingers. On the other side,
the ordinary object of the Christian's censure is according to CHRIST's rule;
those trees which discover them-selves by the fruits which hang upon them in
the sight of the sun. And yet that also must be seasoned with charity,
discretion, seasonableness, freedom from spleen, humor, and passion. As the
hand fasteneth a salve upon any sore part of the body, and then covers it, so
they apply a gentle and mild reproof, that it may secretly heal, and the world be never the wiser.
2. In respect of the order. The true
Christian ever casts the first stone at himself, begins with himself, searcheth
his own heart, censures his own ways, and abandons all his known sins; and then
he may with more success censure others. But those who hate to be re-formed,
begin with others, are most prying into other men's carriages, perusing other
men's lives, but have never any leisure to look into their own hearts.
3. In respect of the manner.
Pharisees are wont peremptorily to pass their censures upon the more righteous
than themselves, with pride, scornfulness, and insultation; but the censures of
Christians are mingled with much mercifulness, pity, and love.
4. In respect of truth. Profane
men's censures of God's servants are many times, not only groundless and false,
but also absurd, without any shadow of likelihood. The enemies to CHRIST's
ministry censured him as having a devil. Elijah was accounted a troubler of Israel;
who was in truth, the very chariots and horsemen thereof. The princes suggested
to the king, that Jeremiah was a traitor to the state; from which he was so
far, that he desired his head to be waters, and his eyes springs of tears, that
he might weep day and night for the desolations of it. Proportionable for
monstrousness of falsehood, are many censures passed upon professors at this
day. On the other side, God's people are very careful and tenderwhat censures
they pass upon others. They conceive and speak the best
of every one, until his open fruits clearly convince the contrary. They are so
far from violent wresting of men's words, or behavior to the worst sense, that
if matters be but probable, they are ever carried the more charitable way. They
are so far from censuring others without truth and proof, (which is the ordinary
practice of most men) that they never speak the ill they certainly know by
their brethren, but with fearfulness, and' some kind of enforcement.
Secondly, be silent from slandering,
and backbiting. Here I will say nothing of the grosser sorts of slander,
because of them, God's children are more easily sensible. But let me a little
advise and awaken thee to further inspection of the present point; lest
sometimes even in telling the truth, you be intangled in the briars of this
base sin, and justly incur the fault of a false accuser; which you may many
ways. 1. By discovering secret infirmities, which love, that covereth a
multitude of sins, would have concealed. 2. By drawing out of other men's
words, actions, and behaviors, aims, and intentions, which the author never
dreamed of; and by fathering upon them such senses, as an impartial expositor
could never possibly extract. It is the easiest thing of a thou-sand, to spoil
the glory of the most beautiful actions with surmises of by-ends. For a man's
own pride and that of the devil himself, are ready midwives at such monstrous
conceptions. 3. By adding unto the truth, or detracting from it, or intermixing
false, adulterate glosses. 4. By relating all the
truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth: but either with a spiteful
heart; or in a scornful, and insulting manner; without any warrantable calling
thereunto.
Here therefore it will be
seasonable, for help against this more plausible, but pestilent kind of
slandering, to tell you, that relating the evil that is true of another, in his
absence, cdoes brand you with the guilt of back-biters, save in such cases as
these:
1. Of good
to the party absent. For instance: you informest thy friend of a third man;
telling him, that he begins to break out into bad courses, and so proceedest to
a more particular discovery of his carriage: but all this purposely for the
benefit of the party. And therefore you entreatest thy present friend, that he would improve the utmost of that power which
he has, for his amendment.
2. Of
expedience for him that heareth: when he is in danger of injury from the party
spoken of. For instance: you may lawfully lay out a counterfeit in his colours,
for prevention of the mischief, which might ensue, if his character were
concealed.
3. Of
necessity for him which speaketh: that he may be preserved from guilt, which by
saying nothing, he should bring upon himself. For instance: there comes to thy
notice some notorious villain, which concealment might animate to further
excess; but seasonable advertisement given to authority, as to a magistrate,
minister, tutor, father, master, or governor of a family, might be a means to
stay the torrent. In this case you have a calling to reveal, inform, and
implore superior assistance. And therefore those of the house of Chloe did well
to certify Paul, of the disorders amongst the Corinthians: and Paul's sister's
son, to acquaint the chief captain, with that devilish plot against Paul.
Otherwise, both you and they, by cowardly silence might incur guilt even for
other men's sins so unhappily concealed.
4. Fourthly, when a seasonable,
warrantable occasion is given thereby, of performing some Christian duty, as,
1. Of
instruction, and forewarning others. You have a friend, whom you seest, and
fearest is entering a licentious course; whereupon you tellest him, that such
and such a man, from contempt of the word, profanation of the sabbath,. disobedience to parents, fell into a knot of lewd
companions, then to gaming, at last, to the gallows. And therefore you advisest
him to take heed in time.
2. Of
praising God for the rooting out of some implacable persecutor. Upon which occasion thoti discoverest unto thy friend many passages
and plots of his cruelty and hate against the kingdom of CHRIST.
But in such cases look unto thy heart with extraordinary watchfulness, that you
do it simply and sincerely; out of zeal to the glory of GOD, prosperity of the
gospel, and peace of the church: otherwise, instead of a Christian duty, it
will prove a cursed cruelty.
3. Of
prayer. You art acquainted with the secret plots of some tyrant against the
people of God; where-upon you unmaskest his malice amongst thy Christian
friends, to the end that they may contribute their prayers for the confusion of
all the devices of hell. Tears, patience, and prayers, were ever the defensive
weapons of God's people. Or thus: you observe one to have continued long a
professor, but now unhappily he begins to grow negligent, to suffer immoderate
employment, and entanglement in the world, to waste his heavenly-mindedness;
so that in all likelihood God will shortly give him over unto some scandalous
fall, as a punishment of his back-sliding: whereupon you discoverest unto thy
Christian friends his declining state, only that they may join with thee in
prayer, that the Lord would be pleased to stay him, and re-establish him in his
first love.
4. Of
vindicating the power and truth of religion. Thus, you art in company, where
you hearest a mere civil man, or formal professor at the best, of whom you
thyself can aver out of thy certain particular knowledge, that he is utterly
unacquainted with the mystery of godliness; I say, you hearest such a man
commended for his religion, and fear of God; which commendation, if he carry
away without contradiction, the rest of the company may be very eager to follow
such a precedent. Now in this case, it may concern thee, but with as much
wisdom, discretion, and charity as you can possibly use, to disrobe such a
person of the reputation of that holiness which he never had; lest both the
by-standers be encouraged to rest short of a title to heaven, and the power of
Christianity be disparaged.
III. Pray for, and practice an holy dexterity, to divert from wicked or worldly talk, to
more heavenly conversation. Methinks, it is a great pity,
that professors should ever meet without some discourse of their meeting
in heaven, or of the blessed ways that lead thereunto. Yet many times, worldly
matters, speaking of others, or some more remarkable accidents and affairs abroad,
speculative curiosities, ceremony, or other impertinencies, take up even from
God's children, too much of many golden seasons, which might preciously serve,
by their mutual diving into the great mystery of godliness, and ways of
Christianity, to increase amongst them spiritual warmth, and resolution against
all oppositions, and to build up one another in their most holy faith,
acquaintance with temptations, comfortable walking with God. To confront this
common mischief, come unto them prepared, as I advised before. But if the
company be contrarily minded, and unaccustomed to the language of Canaan,
interpose all thy wisdom, courage, authority, and eloquence, to draw them from
their idle talk; and by a wise, plausible diversion, and modestly over-ruling
transition, carry the current of their discourse all you can towards some good
and spiritual end.
1. To which end, observe, and
apprehend all opportunities and occurrences which may minister matter of
digression into Divine discourse; and acquaint thyself
with the art of abstracting sacred instructions from the book of the creatures
and businesses in hand. It was the practice of our blessed Savior. Upon mention of bread, Matth. 16: he pressed upon his
disciples to avoid the leaven of the Pharisees. • When he observed (John 6:) a number of people throng about him for miraculous
bread, he digressed into a most heavenly discourse of the food of life. Upon
occasion of drink being denied him by the Samaritan woman, (John 4:) he labored to allure her to the well-head of everlasting
happiness,
2. Have ever in readiness some
common heads of quickening motives to mind heavenly things: as the miserable
condition of our natural state, the vanity and vexations of all earthly things,
the everlastingness of our state in another world, the sudden execution of
God's fierce wrath upon some notorious ones, even in this life; especially
those which are freshest in memory; the terrors of death, the dreadfulness of
that last and great day drawing on apace. The mention of these things many
times will strike full cold to the hearts of the most swaggering and sensual
Belshazzars, and may, by God's blessing, prepare and
soften them for remorse, and more heavenly impressions.
3. But, above all, get into thine
own heart an habit of heavenly-mindedness, by much exercise, intercourse, and
acquaintance with GOD, in pouring out thy soul before him, in renewing thy
peace, and comfortable access unto him upon every check of conscience, in
contemplation of the inexplicable sweetness, glory, and eternity of those
mansions above; in diving into the secrets of his kingdom, by the help of
humbleness and godly fear; by private employment of thy soul in solemn
reflections; recounting with what variety of trains it was detained in the
state of darkness; what delays and assaults it met with in its way to light;
what terrors it passed through in the pangs of its new birth; the temptations
incident to its infancy in grace, progress and growth in several graces, and
the whole body of Christianity; relapses, desertions, their discoveries,
recoveries, with all the means and circumstances: in a word, by a punctual
observing how God deals with it every day, be, I say, thus blessedly busied at
home in thine own heart, and you shall find thyself more plentiful in holy
discourse when you eomest abroad.
We are most
apt to pour out ourselves in public according to our private contemplations.
The conferences of free and unreserved spirits are ordinarily nothing else but
the clothing of their ordinary heart-secrets with familiar forms of speech.
Men, for the most part, speak most, and most willingly of those things they
mind most. I advise thus in this point, that you may be habituated and
encouraged in the art and exercise of putting forward good talk; or of diverting
and drawing towards better, in case of the contrary. Otherwise, you shall never
be able to hold out with constancy and courage, to cross many times the general
mirth of the company, to put worldly wise men. out of
their clement of earthly talk, to draw worldlings to hear of heavenly things.
VIII. Watch narrowly, with the eye
of a tender con' science, and conduct with spiritual prudence, every action you
undertakest, whether natural or civil, of mercy or of religion. To which
particulars, before I descend, let me premise this principle concerning actions
in general. In every one of thine actions, look that every concurrent be justifiable,.. that every
ingredient be gracious. For instance
1. It must be good in its own
nature, and warrantable out of the Word; by which all things must be sanctified
unto thee; as a good servant will venture upon nothing but what he knows will
please his master. Otherwise, let the person be never so pleasing unto GOD, his
intention never so good, his heart never so zealous, the means; circumstances,- and end never so excellent, yet all is nought.
2. The object, about which the
action is exercised, must be qualified according to the rules of religion.
Alms-deeds are acceptable sacrifices unto God: but, amongst other cautions, the
parties that are to be made partakers thereof are to be singled out with
discretion. 1. The true wants of a Christian should, in the first place, draw
bounty from a truly charitable heart; according to that, Gal. 5: 1O, "As
we have opportunity, let us do good unto all men,
especially unto them who are of the household of faith." 2. In the next
place,. the lame, the blind,
the sick, the aged, or any that God has made poor. 3. Any whosoever, in a case
of true necessity, whatsoever the party has been before. But now, if you may
choice of a sturdy beggar, an idle rogue, the shame and plague of this noble
kingdom; you clost not only deprive thyself of the comfort of a charitable
deed; but encouragest an execrable irreligious paganism iii such lazy drones,
unprofitable burdens of the earth, and intolerable caterpillars of the
common-wealth.
3. You must- also look unto the
matter. For instance, the matter of thy bounty must be thine own goods, got
lawfully; otherwise it will prove, in respect of Divine allowance, but an
abominable sacrifice.
4. The person must be acceptable
unto God; other-wise his best deeds are but beautiful abominations. Services
most sacred in their own nature, as prayer, hearing the Word,
receiving the sacrament, are, from the altar of his unsanctified heart,
but as the oaring of swine's blood. If you be not justified by faith, and
accepted through CHRIST, all thy actions, natural, civil, religious, whatsoever
is within thee, or without thee,—the use of the creatures, all thy courses and
ways,—are turned into sins and pollutions.
5. The heart must, be sincere, else, even the noblest duties of religion are
nothing. The Israelites' humiliation, seeking - GOD, returning, and inquiring
early after hint, were all but temporary and unsound, because their heart was
not upright. "When he slew them, then they sought him; and they returned,
and inquired early after God. -And they remembered that God was their rock; and
the high God their Redeemer. Nevertheless, they did but flatter him with their
mouth, and they lied unto him with their tongues. For their
heart was not right with him," Psal. lxxviii.
6. The means must be good,
otherwise, be the end never so excellent,—let there be never so exact concurrence
of all other causes,—yet the glory of the action is quite darkened to the man
that employs any wicked means for the achievement. Suppose that by a he
thou.couldst save -a man's life, his soul, the souls of all the men upon the
earth,—nay, win thereby unto God as much glory as accrues unto him by all
creatures; yet for all this, on thy part, all were naught. For it is a sacred
principle, sealed by truth itself, We must do no ill
that good may come.
7. The circumstances must be
seasonable. For in-stance: Private prayer is a precious service; but let it be
seasonable for the circumstance of place, or else it may lose it sweet-smelling
savour in the nostrils of God. The closet, or some retired place, is fit for
this exercise; which the more secret, the more sincere. Meditation upon Divine
mysteries is an excellent exercise, so it be confined to a fit time; but in the
fervour of the preacher's pouring out his soul for us in prayer, it is sinful,
because unseasonable. Calling to mind special passages formerly heard, or read,
to press them with more life and power upon the conscience, is a right needful
duty; but so to do at a sermon, or when we ought to bend our best attention to
the present, is but one of SATAN's devices in the glory of an angel, to rob us
of the comfort of the ordinance in hand.
8. The end also must be answerable
in goodness; otherwise, let the whole affair be carried never so fairly in the
eyes of men, yet with God it is no better than the cutting of a dog's neck.
Jehu did noble service, by his resolute rooting out that bloody and idolatrous
house of Ahab: and yet, for all this, all his outward glorious actions were to
God but as the killing of a man; because his eye was not upon the right end,
God's glory. He principally aimed at the secure settling of the crown upon his
own head, by an utter extinguishment of the king's family. If his aim had been
right, his heart would have been as well set against the golden calves in Dan
and Bethel, as his hand and sword
against the idolatrous house of Baal.
Now I come to some particulars; and
I. First, Concerning visits. Ever
before you go out of thy doors, upon any occasion, weigh well in the balance of
holy wisdom, all circumstances, company, probability of all events and
consequents on both sides; of staying at home, or going abroad; visiting this
or that friend; undertaking that or the other business; and ever resolve that
way which, in all likelihood, will bring most glory unto GOD, good unto others,
and comfort unto thine own conscience. Let worldlings waste their time in those
impertinent visits which have no other motive but a desire to be rid of time;
no issue but temptation, and greater disability to good. But let every
wisely-resolute Christian disdain to step over his threshold without a
warrantable calling; aim at some probable good to come; honor to GOD, good unto
our brethren; discharge of some duty of our calling, performance of Christian
offices, of charity, humanity, mutual comforting, confirming, refreshing, and
building up one another in our most holy faith. Otherwise he shall be in great
danger of returning home far worse than when he went out; laden both with more
personal guilt and accessariness to others' sins; bleeding with some fresh
bruise of conscience; failing in some Christian duties; grown into a further
estrangement from God; or deeper sunk into some sensual conformities with this
world.
Some actions, I confess, in their
own nature are in-different; but when clothed with circumstances, are not so;
but necessarily become morally good, or evil, to the doer. And therefore the
assertion of Catarinus, in the council of Trent,
was consonant to Scripture. "Every particular action (said he,) is good or
evil; neither is there to be found any one indifferent." (He meant in the
actual existence; in the general there may.) It is so also in the present point
of visiting.
Although the apostle, 1 Con 10: 27,
in these words, "And ye be disposed to go," seems to intimate that it
is not absolutely unlawful for a Christian, especially if invited, to visit an
irreligious man; yet let none, who desires to preserve peace in his own bosom,
presume hereupon to plunge himself into any unwarrantable engagements with
worldly men. If any of God's children, therefore, at any time, be disposed to
take any allowance from this place, to invite or visit enemies to the purity of
religion, or power of godliness; let him cast his eye also upon those cases and
cautions which may make it comfortable. They are such as these: 1. Their salvation. 2. Thy own safety.
1. For the first, be sure to propose
their spiritual good as at least thy principal end. But, unless we stand
stoutly upon our guard, we are far likelier to be perverted by them, than they
to be converted by us. And therefore, at such times, it concerns us much to collect
all the powers of our souls, with special address and resolution, to
vindicate, all we can, the truth and servants of God from all censure. Let us
labor to bring as much wisdom and courage to confront and countermine, as the
devil's proctors cunning and malice to undermine the kingdom
of CHRIST. It is laudable for the
physicians of the body to visit sometimes such patients as are infected with
contagious diseases; if they arm themselves with preservatives, to prevent and
repel the noisomeness of the air and noxious vapors. So it may not prove unseasonable
for spiritual physicians to be drawn some-times, out of a desire of doing good, into the company of those who are over-run with the
leprosy of sin; if they be fore-armed with prayer, premeditation, and
watchfulness, to preserve their own souls from spiritual infection.
2. Secondly, as to thine own safety,
see that thy heart be not conscious of slavish distrust, false fears, inattention
to God's providence, reliance upon the arm of flesh; but that it approve, upon
good ground, the present occasion, whether of invitation or visitation, as a
means offered by God to mitigate the malice, and mollify the hearts of those
who might do thee a mischief. God's children should not, out of an austere
retiredness, enrage unnecessarily the too much already alienated affections of
the contrarily-minded; but so far as they may, without
a wound of conscience, or imputation of spiritual cowardliness,
observe them with such common offices of humanity as may keep them, if not
hearty friends, yet at least moderate enemies. But at such times, and in such
company, you wilt have need to put on a great deal of courage and patience,
wisdom and watchfulness; and warily decline two obvious errors and dangerous extremes,
furious zeal, and faint-hearted silence.
3. Discover not such extreme
weakness and baseness of mind, as to suffer the eye of thine heavenly spirit to
be any whit dazzled with the glistering of outward glory, or to hunt, with
fawning terror, the transitory favor of worldly greatness.
4. When you visitest others, or
thyself invitest them, take notice before-hand, with as punctual survey as you
can, of their humors, dispositions, opinions, and behaviors, and thereupon
prepare convenient and seasonable matter, whereby you may apply thyself with
all meekness of wisdom and patient discretion, to insinuate, argue, answer,
reprove, reply, and so demean thyself in thy whole discourse, that neithe* the
glory of GOD, the reputation of Christianity, or thine own conscience, may
receive any wound. Would Christians hold this course, they would at such times
not so often depart with spiritual discontent, and so smitten with a
consciousness of their silence, omissions, cowardliness, and unprofitableness
in company.
II. Concerning natural actions, as
eating, drinking, sleeping, I sha