A
COUNSEL
FOR
PERSONAL
AND FAMILY GODLINESS.
BELOVED, I despair of ever bringing
you to salvation, without sanctification; or possessing you of happiness,
without persuading you to holiness. GOD knows I have not the least hope of
ever seeing one of your faces in heaven, except you he converted, and sanctified,
and exercise yourselves unto Godliness. I beseech you to study Personal Godliness,
and Family Godliness.
I. Personal Godliness. Let it be
your first care to set up CHRIST in your hearts: see that you make all your
worldly interests to stoop to him, and that you be entirely and unreservedly
devoted unto him. If you harbour any sin, you are
undone. See that you unfeignedly take the law of
CHRIST as the rule of your words, thoughts, and actions; and subject your
whole man, members, and mind, faithfully unto him. If you have not a true
respect to all GOD's commandments, you are unsound
at heart. O study to get the image and impress of CHRIST upon you within.
Begin with your hearts, else you build without foundation. Labor to get a
saving change within, or all external performances will be to no purpose
and then study to show forth the power of Godliness in your life. Let piety
be your first and great business. It is the highest justice to give GOD his
due. Beware that none of you be a prayerless person;
for that is a most certain discovery of a CHRISTless
and a graceless person. Suffer not your Bibles to gather dust: see that you
converse daily with the word. That man can never lay claim to blessedness,
whose delight is not in the law of the LORD. Let meditation and self-examination
be your daily exercise.
But piety without charity is but
half of Christianity, or rather impious hypocrisy. We may not divide the tables:
see therefore that you do justly, and love mercy; and let equity and charity
run like an even thread throughout all your dealings. Be you temperate in
all things; and let chastity and sobriety be your undivided companions. Let
truth and purity, seriousness and modesty, be the constant ornament of your
speech. Let patience and humility, simplicity and sincerity, shine in all
the parts of your conversation. See that you forgive wrongs, and requite them
with kindness, as you would be found children of the Most High. Be merciful
in your censures; and put the most favorable construction upon your brethren's
carriage, which their actions will reasonably bear. Bc slow in promising, punctual in fulfilling. Let meekness,
innocency, affability, yieldingness, and courtesy,
commend your conversations to all men. Let none of your relations want that
love and loyalty, that reverence and duty, that tenderness, care, and vigilancy,
which their several places and capacities call for. I charge you, before the
1\iost High GOD, that none of you be found a swearer,
or a liar, a lover of evil company, or a scoffer, or malicious, or covetous,
or a drunkard, or a glutton, unrighteous in his dealing, unclean in his living,
or a quarreller, or a thief, or a backbiter, or
a railer: for I denounce unto you, from the living
GOD, that destruction and damnation are the end of all such.
II. Family Godliness. He that has
set un CHRIST in his heart, will be sure to set him
up in his house. Let every family with you be a Christian church, every house
a house of prayer. Let every householder say, with JOSHUA, "
I and my house will serve the LORD;" and resolve, with DAVID,
" I will walk within my house with perfect heart." Let me press
upon you a few duties in general. First, Let religion be in your families, not as a matter by the bye,
(to be minded at leisure, when the world will give you leave,) but the standing
business of the house: let them have your prayers as daily as their meals.
Is there any of your families but have time to take
food? Wretched man! Can you not find time to pray in?
Secondly, Settle
it upon your hearts, that your souls are bound up in the souls of your families.
They are committed unto you, and if they be lost through your neglect, will
be required at your hands. Sirs, if you do not, you shall know that the charge
of souls, if neglected, exposes you to a heavy guilt. O man, have you a charge
of souls to answer for, and dost you not yet bestir thyself for them, that
their blood be not found in thy skirts? Wilt you do no more for immortal souls
than for thy beasts that perish? What dost you for thy children and servants?
You providest meat and drink for them, and (lost
you not the same for thy beasts? You givest them
medicines, and cherishest them, when they are sick;
and dost you not as much for thy swine? More particularly,
1. Let the solemn reading of the
word, and singing of psalms, be your family exercises.
2. Let every person in your families
he duly called to an account of their profiting by the word heard or read,
as they are about doing your own business. This is a duty of consequence unspeakable,
and would be a means of bringing those under your charge to remember and profit
by what they receive.
3. Often take an account of the souls
under your care, concerning their spiritual states. Make inquiry into their
(ondi'ions; and insist much upon the sinfulness
and misery of their natural state, and upon the necessity of conversion in
order to their salvation. Admonish them gravely of their sins, and encourage
their good beginnings. Follow them earnestly, and let them have no quiet
from you, till you see in them a saving change. This is a duty of high consequence,
but (I am afraid) fearfully neglected. Does not conscience say, "You
art the man?
4. Look to the strict sanctification
of the Sabbath by all your household. Many poor families
have little time else. O improve but your Sabbath-days as diligently in doing
your Master's work, as you do the other days in doing your own work, and I
doubt not but you may cone to some proficiency.
5. Let the morning and evening sacrifice
of solemn prayer be daily offered up in all your families. O miser-able families,
without GOD in the world, that are without family-prayer!
What! have you so many family-sins, family-wants,
family-mercies, and yet no family-prayers? How do you pray with all prayer
and supplication, if you do not use family-prayer? Say not, "I have no
time." What, have you not all thy time on purpose
to serve GOD, and save thy soul? And yet is this the business for which you
can find no time? Find but a heart, and [ will find time. Pinch out of your meals, and sleep, rather
than want time for prayer. Say not, " My business
will not give leave." This is the greatest business, to save thyself,
and the souls committed to thee. In a word, the blessing of all is to be got
by prayer. Helps are to be had, till you art better able: but if there be
no other remedy, you must join with thy abler neighbor. GOD has special regard
to joint prayer; and therefore you must improve family advantages for the
performance of it.
6. Put every one in your families
upon private prayer. Observe whether they perform it. Get them the help of
a form, if they need it, till they are able to do without it. Direct them
how to pray, by reminding them of their sins, wants, and mercies, the materials
of prayer.
7. Set up Catechising
in your families, at least once in every week. Have you no reverence for the
Almighty's charge, that you should "teach these things diligently unto
your children, and talk of them as you sit in your houses;" and "
train them up in the way wherein they should go?" has GOD so commended
ABRAHAM, because he would " teach his children and household," and
given such a promise to him thereupon; and will not you put in for a share,
either in the praise or the promise? has CHRIST honored
Catechising with his presence, and will you not own it in
your practice? You will call them up, and force them to do your work; and
should you not'be as zealous in putting them upon
GOD'S work? Say not, they are dull, and are not capable. If they be dull,
GOD requires of you the more pains and patience. But dull as they are, you
will make them learn how to work; and can they not learn as well how to live?
Are they capable of the mysteries of your trade, and are they not capable
of the plain principles of religion?
Would you answer the calls of Divine
Providence? Would you plant nurseries for the Church of GOD? Would you that
GOD should build your houses, and bless your substance? Would you that your
children should bless you? O then set up piety in your families, as ever you
would be blessed, or be made a blessing. Let your hearts and your houses be the temples of the living GOD, in which his worship may
be constantly and reverently performed. O be wise
in time, that you be not miserable to eternity!
VOL. 14
CASES OF CONSCIENCE
TWO
PRACTICAL CASES
OF CONSCIENCE
RESOLVED.
THE
FIRST CASE OF CONSCIENCE.
ON MATT. 5: 47
What do ye more than others?
QUEST. Wherein
should Christians be singular in their obedience? Or, what may they and must
they do more than others?
ANSW. Take
the answer in these ten Rules, containing the character of a Christian.
Rule 1: Heartily love them that slight
you; and wish and seek the good of those that hate you, and seek to hurt you.
This is the very thing urged in the text, " If
you salute your brethren only, and love them that love you, do not even the
publicans the same?" (Matt. 5: 46, 47.) To love them that respect and
value us, is what every one can do: but to love them
truly that think meanly of us, and have prejudices and hard thoughts against
us, and to speak well of them that speak evil of us,—that is to do more than
others. Thus did the martyr CR1NMER; of whom it was a proverb, " Do the Archbishop of Canter-bury a displeasure, and
you shall ever have him your friend." Thus that holy man said, in his
parting words," I had never any greater pleasure in all my life, than
to forget and forgive injuries, and to show kindness
to them that sought evil to me." Consider who have offended you, and
disobliged you, and slighted you; and keep up good thoughts of them, if the
case will bear it,—speak nothing but good of them,—think what kindness you
may show them,—pray for them, and wish well for them; " so shall you
be the children of_ your Father which is in heaven."
Rule 2: Swim against the strewn.
The dead will swim with, but the living against the stream. When religion
is in fashion, every one will be in it: but to make head against the current
of the times,—to be for strict Godliness in all your ways, when the stream
runs quite against it,—and to resolve, as DAVID did, " to be yet more
vile,"—this is to be and to do more than others. To be singular in your
good choice and resolutions, with JosuuA, though
all should vote against you; with NOAH, to be perfect in your generations,
when ever so adulterous; and to walk with GOD, when all flesh have corrupted
their way;—this is to do more than others.
Rule 3: Take most care of that which
is most out of sight. A Christian's eye is most on the things least seen:
namely, 1. Upon his heart; herein he does exceed the righteousness of the
Pharisees, whose great care was to keep all fair and clean that came to view.
Make great conscience of your behavior in secret, and let your main guard
be upon your heart.—2. Upon his hope. Others look
to the things seen,—things in hand: but the true believer walks by faith,
not by sight, and lives a quite different life from that of any others in
the world; as living upon the hopes of heaven does differ from living on the
pleasures, profits, and honors of the world.
Rule 4: Be merciful to others' failings,
and very severe to your own. To aggravate our own evils, and to have an. excuse
ready for our brother's,--to censure ourselves freely, and to come with a
mangle behind us to cover our brother,—this is to do more than others. The
servant of GOD rebukes others with meekness, but falls out easily and bitterly
with himself.
Rule 5: Suer
rather than sin. To go so far with CHRIST as our way lies together, is to
do no more than an unsound professor may do. The trial is, when CHRIST'S interest
and ours do cross; so that we must either balk our duty, or our safety and
advantage. The famous martyr, under JULIAN, would not give one half-penny
towards the building of the idol's temple, though he was offered his life
on those terms. When a man lies in outward misery, and has a door of deliverance
open, if he will but sin, and yet will not accept it,—this is to do more than
others.
Rule 6: Rejoice in losses for CHRIST,
and glory in the cross. When we take pleasure in infirmities and tribulations,
and rejoice that we are counted worthy to suffer shame for the name of CHRIST,
this is to do more than others. When the servants of GOD not only patiently
but triumphantly undergo the crosses which rack the hearts of others; when
PAUL and SILAS sing in the stocks, and the martyrs embrace the faggots, and
kiss the stake; when the valiant PHILPOT shall say of his prison, " In
the judgment of the world we are in hell, but I find in it the sweet consolation
of heaven;" and the holy BRADFORD, « My prison is sweeter to me than
my parlor, or than any pleasure I have had in all my life;"—this is to
exceed others.
Rule 7: Make a true conscience of
the least sin, but most conscience of the greatest. In one of these will the
unbeliever be found tardy. It may be, he will fly
from open sins, and startle at gross and staring sins, but of little sins
he makes little conscience; or else, he will be very tender of little things,
so as to scruple the picking of ears of corn on the sabbath-day,
or the curing of the sick, and thus strain at the gnat,—when he will in other
*}rings swallow a camel, and devour widows' houses. The sincere
Christian will indulge no sin; he grieves for, groans under, cries out feelingly
against his very infirmities; but most dreads what GOD most hates.
Rule 8: Allow yourselves in the neglect
of no duty, but reserve yourselves for the duties of most weight. To tithe
mint and cummin, and neglect judgment, mercy, and
faith; to be zealous for human ceremonies, ordinances, and wen's traditions, and omit the weightier matters of the law,
is the way of the Pharisees. To eye both the tables; to join sweetly together,
morality and piety; to be punctual with amen, but not careless of GOD; to
give to CEESAa the things that are CAESAR'S, but
first to give to GOD the things that are GOD’s;—this
is to do more than others. The sincere Christian has respect to all GOD’s commandments; walks in all his statutes; and is through-out
with GOD; but he is most zealous in those things which he next the heart of
religion.
Rule 9: Love your reprovers. Herein David doth more than AHAB: see their contrary
frames in I Kings 22: 8, and Psal. cxli. 5.
Rule 10: Subject all your worldly
interest to your Maker's glory; and perform holy duties with holy ends. While
others do their best actions with carnal aims, you must do your common actions
with heavenly aims.
Quest. How
may we know, when we do more Man others who are unsound?
I shall answer this question by propounding eight
questions to you; beseeching you to retire to the most solemn and strict examination,
and make conscience to give a clear answer to these few interrogatories.
Quest. 1:
When others pick and choose, have you respect to
all GOD’s conznzandrnents? The sound
Christian sets all GOD’s commands before him. He
eyes all his copy, and heartily studies a thorough conformity. He does not
fear the LORD and serve other GODs, nor divide his
service between GOD and Mammon; but he is intent on uniformity,
and entirely devoted to GOD’s service and fear alone.
He has a good conscience, willing in all things to live honestly, and does
forsake all his sins, and keep all GOD's statutes,
which are known to him.
Let me therefore ask you two questions:
(1.) When others divide the tables,
do you join them in your practice? The hypocrite may be just and square towards
men, but follow him to his family or closet, and you shall find but little
of GOD. His family is neglected; and his soul is neglected. Or, it may be,
Ile is a forward first-table man; but you shall find him tardy
in the second. He will make many prayers, and long prayers, yet no conscience
of devouring widows' houses. He is a great pretender to piety; but mean while
neglects judgment and mercy. But the sincere man joins all together. He is
so far careful for justice towards men, that, mean while, he will not neglect
the first and greatest part of justice, to give GOD his due. He does justly;
he loves mercy; but, withal, he walks humbly with GOD. He walks soberly with
respect to himself, righteously towards his neighbor, and in a Godly manner
*towards his Maker. He is not one of those who are good only on his knees;
but you shall find him every where conscientious. You shall have temperance
at his table, chastity and modesty in his behavior, grace and truth in his
works, charity in his deeds, faithfulness in his trust, and justice in his
dealings. He does not only seem to be religious, but bridleth
his tongue; he is not only a good Christian, but a good neighbor; not only
a good man, but a good husband, a good master, a dutiful child, a diligent
and faithful servant, and a good subject. In a word, he makes great conscience
of discharging the duties of his relations among men.
(2.) When others rest in externals,
do you look to the spiritual part of every command, and principally mind the
inward vitals of religion? Do you not only make conscience of performing duties,
but carefully look to the manner of performing them, and the ends for which
you
perform them? Do you not only make conscience of abstaining
from open, but also from secret sins? Do you abound, above all, in secret
duties? Do you keep a watch upon your hearts, and make conscience of avoiding
not only the gross acts of sin, but even sinful thoughts, inclinations, and
desires?
Quest. 2:
When others have had their reserves in closing with CHRIST, do you give up
all to him entirely? Have you taken CHRIST deliberately, understandingly,
sitting down first, and counting the cost? 1-Iave you not secret reserves
for your own ease, safety, estate, or beloved sin? Have you, upon solemn consideration,
accepted CHRIST as the LORD your righteousness, for better, for worse, for
all changes of times and conditions, so as to run all hazards with him, and
to take your lot with him, fall as it will?
Quest. 3:
When others are for a little religion by the bye, do you make religion your
business? Do you not put off GOD with the world's leavings, and serve him
only when you are at leisure? Must not GOD stand by, while the world is first
served? And are not your souls the least of your cares, and put off with some
scraps of your time? Is religion your trade, and is your conversation irr heaven? Do you walk with GOD, or have you only now and
then a turn with him? When you have ended your prayers, is there an end of your religion till you come to them again; or do
you carry on a design of religion throughout your whole course? Have you only
a list of religion at the outside of the piece; or is the woof of religion
woven into the whole cloth, into heart and life, into your discourse, and
trades, and tables? Do you " first seek the
kingdom of GOD, and the righteousness thereof?" Is it the chief care
of your lives, that GOD may be served, and your souls
saved? And is this the one thing necessary with you, about which you are most
solicitous? Do your very hearts say, with DAVID, "One thing have I desired
of the LORD, and that I will seek after?"
Quest. 4:
When others are for the wages of religion, are you for the work? Can you say,
with DAVID, " I have chosen thy precepts? "
Had you rather be holy than otherwise, if you were left to your choice? Had
you rather be God’s servants, and live at his command, than serve your own
lusts? Do you count the laws of CHRIST your heritage,
or rather do you not count them your bondage? Do you choose not only the wages
of righteousness, but the ways of righteousness? Are GOD’s
commandments your delight? And are the sweetest hours of your lives the hours
which you spend with him? Do you never enjoy yourselves so much as when you
most enjoy GOD? Is his service your greatest comfort? And is it meat and drink
to you to do his will? Do you make use of holy duties, only as men do of physic
when they are ill at case, when conscience lashes, or afflictions sting, or
to pacify GOD, that he may not hurt you? Or, do you use them as your daily
bread, the staff of your life, and the means of your comfort?
Quest. 5:
When others are for a cheap and easy religion, are you for self-denial? When
others are for the religion that will serve them best, are you for that which
will serve GOD best? When others are all upon the sparing plan, and will spare
what may be spared, and study how they may best save charges in going to heaven,
are you of such princely spirits, as to resolve not to serve the LORD with
that which will cost you nothing? Is your course of religion such as does
mortify your flesh, and cross and curb its desires; or do you love to give
it what it craves, and suffer it to take its own way? Have you no enemy you
dread so much as self? Do you pamper and please it, and make provision
for it; or do you pray and watch against it, and grieve for its infirmities,
and had you rather that this enemy were under your
feet, than have all the world?
Quest. 6:
When others are for no more of religion, than they deem to be absolutely necessary,
are you for the height of religion? Some are very inquisitive what is the lowest degree of religion that a man may have, and go
to heaven. But the sincere Christian, though satisfied that his state
issafe, will rest in no attainments in grace; but reaches
for-ward, and presses on, " if by any means
he may attain to the resurrection of the dead." He that does not desire,
and design, and endeavor after perfection, never yet came up to sincerity.
A true believer desires holiness for holiness' sake; and therefore is set
upon perfecting holiness. Others desire it only for heaven's sake; and therefore
are only for so much of it as will bear their charges thither. They make use
of holiness only as a bridge to heaven; and therefore are for no more than
will just serve their turn. The true believer has a holy nature, and therefore
holiness is his element and natural employment; and he must
needs desire holiness in its height, because every nature aspires after
perfection in its kind. He desires not holiness, merely because it is the
way to heaven; but he loves heaven the better for the holy way that leads
to it, and for the perfect holiness which is there.
Quest. 7:
When others are only intent on salvation from hell by CHRIST, are you as truly
intent on sanctification by CHRIST? Do you take CHRIST as GOD offers him,
with all his offices and benefits, to be both a PRINCE and a SAVIOR, to give
repentance as well as remission of sins? Are you desirous of the dominion
of CHRIST, as well as of deliverance by CHRIST? Do you close with his burden,
as well as his benefits? Do you count his laws your liberty; his service your
freedom? Do you go in CHRIST'S ways as one in fetters, or do you run with
enlargement of heart?
Quest. 8:
When others make self their end, do you set up GOD above all as your highest
end? Is it your great design, in your whole course of life, to glorify and
enjoy GOD? Do you count this your whole business and blessedness? Do you make
other business stoop to this, and other interests yield to this? Do your souls
breathe after this, above all worldly good, that CHRIST may be magnified in
you? Do you count your name, and your estate, but as loss, and the delights
of sense but as puddle-water, in comparison of CHRIST?
If conscience give
a comfortable and clear answer to these questions, go in peace. Blessed are
you of the Loa')! GOD is your friend: heaven is your portion: CHRIST is yours:
all is yours. For "he that has these things shall never
be moved."
THE
SECOND CASE OF CONSCIENCE.
ON 1 THESS. 4:1
Furthermore then, we beseech you,
brethren, and exhort you by the LORD JESUS, that as ye have received of us
how ye ought to walk, and to please GOD, so ye would abound more and more.
QUEST. What
may and must a Christian be, and do, that he may
please GOD?
Answ. To your pleasing GOD,
something is necessary as to your Persons, and something as to your Performances.
First. As
to your Persons, it is necessary, in general, that you be
in a state of reconciliation with GOD. If you would "walk worthy of the
LORD unto all pleasing," you must first be friends with him. Labor to
get the breach made up, to have the enmity slain, to have divine displeasure
removed. Till your pardon be obtained, and your peace made, nothing you can
do will please GOD. Come in then, and touch the golden sceptre;
yield to mercy; "kiss the SoN;" resign
yourselves to CHRIST; accept of the peace tendered to you in the word of reconciliation;
and then GOD will be your friend. More particularly, that you may be in a
state of reconciliation, and so in a capacity of pleasing GOD, you must follow
these directions:
I. Put away every sin. It is thy
iniquity that separated' between thee and thy GOD. If you wouldest
have GOD pleased, turn every sin out of doors; " pluck
it out and cast it from thee." If you art of them that have pleasure
in unrighteousness, the LORD has no pleasure in thee. He is not a GOD that
has pleasure in wickedness; evil shall not dwell with him; the foolish shall
not stand in his sight; he hateth all the workers
of iniquity. See that you abandon every sin that you knows;
spare not one AGAG, not a right eye, not an HERODIAS; for then GOD will not
spare thee. Give the darling of thy boson' a bill of divorce. Say to all thy
idols, " Get thee hence." GOD will not
look to that man who looks pleasantly upon any sin. Though you be very diligent
in GOD's service, and presentest him
with multitudes of sacrifices, and many prayers, he will be pleased with nothing,
but hide his face, and stop his ears, whilst you keepest
thine iniquities in thine
hands. O look into thy hands, look into thy heart, look into thy house, into
thy shop, thy trade, thy calling! See if there be
not some way of wickedness that you art found in. You can not have peace with
GOD, nor he pleasure with thee, till this be removed.
II. Put on the LORD JESUS CHRIST:
viz.
1. The red robe of his righteousness
[or merits] for justification. The LORD will never give thee a good look,
nor a good word, but in CHRIST. He is a consuming fire out of CHRIST; but
get on this robe, and he will be well pleased. ENOCH had this testimony, that
he pleased GOD: but CHRIST had much more, namely, a testimony that GOD is
well pleased with penitent and believing sinners, in and for him. Away with
these rags, and with these fig-leaves! How can the righteous soul of GOD but
abhor you, whilst you trust in your own righteousness? Dare
not come to GOD, but with CHRIST in your arras: approach him not but in the
garments of your Elder Brother, lest you carry away the curse. JOSHUA'S
filthy garments must be put off, (Zech. 3: 4,) and CHRIST's
raiment put on, or else you cannot stand before the comely garment. This grace
does eminently honor GOD, and therefore GOD Both
put a peculiar honor upon it, and manifest a most special delight in it. Of
all the men in the world, this is the man that GOD will look unto, even to
him that is poor, and of a contrite spirit, and trembleth
at his word. As you wouldest have GOD well-pleased
with thee, be thoroughly displeased with thyself. If you dost thoroughly loathe
thyself, GOD Both love thee. If you abhorrest
thyself, GOD delighteth in thee. Be angry with thyself,
and the Almighty will turn away his anger from thee: condemn thyself, and
GOD will acquit thee. In no wise extenuate thy sins, nor justify thyself.
Think the worst of thyself; be willing that others should think meanly of
thee; and heartily love them that slight thee. This is the frame with which
GOD is well-pleased. Pass sentence on thyself, and GOD will absolve thee:
set up thyself at his footstool, and he will lift thee up into the throne.
(2.) Put on a spirit of zeal and
activity. There is nothing with which GOD is more displeased, than remissness,
lifelessness, and indiflerency in religion. Lukewarm
water is not a greater offence to the stomach, than the lukewarm professor
is to GOD: and therefore he will spew such a one out of his mouth. Christians,
where is your zeal for the LORD of hosts? CHRIST'S redeemed must be zealous
of good works: " not slothful in business, but
fervent in spirit, serving the LORD." Not only do that which is right
in the sight of the LORD, but do it with all your heart. The LORD loves a
willing servant. Bestir yourselves for the LORD. Be ye followers of CHRIST,
who went up and down doing good. Every Christian
should be a common blessing, a public good. This is to be the "
children of your Father which is in heaven," who is {' good unto
all, and whose tender mercies are over all his works:" and be sure that
the Father does best love that child who is like himself. A private, narrow
spirit, is a low and a base spirit, unworthy of a
Christian. A catholic, communicative spirit is full of great desires, and
bright and burning eyes of infinite holiness. Put on the LORD
JESUS by believing; that is; accept of him in all his offices, and with all
his inconveniences, and deliver up thyself to him, and this will entitle thee
to his merits and righteousness. without this nothing
will avail. If thy head were waters, and thine eyes
a fountain of tears, if you should wear thy tongue to the root with praying,
if, you should weep an ocean, all could not get out one spot of guilt. Nothing
can be accepted, while you art out of CHRIST: and therefore in the first place
apply thyself to him.
2. The white robe of his grace for
sanctification. You that art " in the flesh,"
that is, unrenewed and unsanctified, " can
not please GOD." Never think to make up the matter by a little mending
and reforming in particular acts. Man! thy heart
must be renewed, and thy state altogether altered; or GOD cannot be pleased.
The tree must be made good, and the fountain healed; or else the stream will
be salt, and the fruit sour. If CHRIST be once formed in thee, that is, his
image, likeness is the ground of love; similitude, and suitableness
of nature, are the loadstone of affection. GOD cannot but love his
own likeness. Wouldest you have his favor? Wouldest
you be the object of his delight? Then conform to his pleasure; study to be
like him; purify thyself as he is pure. The righteous
LORD loves righteousness. He desireth truth in the
inward parts; and takes infinite complacency in the graces of his people.
Therefore " as the elect of GOD, holy, and beloved,
put on bowels of mercy, kindness; " and " put off all these, anger,
wrath, malice, filthy communication." Particularly let me recommend to
you some special graces, with which GOD does manifest himself to be wonderfully
pleased.
(1.) Be clothed with humility. This
is a garment which must be put on, or else you cannot be saved. It is the
dress in which you must come to GOD. He must be served with humility of mind.
You must humble your-selves to walk with him. Humility is a plain, but yet
a great designs. A large heart set upon doing good,—whose fire, though ever
hottest within, will be breaking forth, and provoking others,—whose love will
not be con-fined to a party, but gladly and thankfully owneth
CHRIST wherever it sees him,—this catholic spirit, I say, is the glory of
religion, the church's blessing, and Con's delight.
(3.) Live by faith. If you would
so walk as to please GOD, you must walk by faith. Christians must look to
the things unseen; they must not live at the common rate; CHRIST must be their
life, prayer their breath, and the promises their
daily bread. By faith did the elders obtain that good report.
Live in the power of faith, and you wilt please Him to the heart. Give glory
to Him by believing. Let the life you now live " in
the flesh, be by faith of the SON of Gone" Faith, as one well says, is
the nourishment of morality.
Live by faith in prosperity. Though
you have the world about thee, let it not be above thee; keep it at thy feet;
use it as thy servant; live much in the view of glory, and the contemplation
of eternity; be as though you possessedst not; rejoice
as though you rejoicedst not; love as though you
lovedst not; use this world as not abusing it; it is but a
fashion, not a substance, and one which passes away; use it therefore with
mortified affections. Live by faith in adversity. Weep as though you wept
not, enduring the cross, and despising the shame, looking unto JESUS, accounting
CHRIST'S reproach your riches, and his shame your
glory. Compare these light afflictions with the weight of glory. Encourage
your heart with the promises. Count, if you can, the riches that are laid
up in them. Roll yourselves upon the LORD; and know that your heavenly Father
has no greater delight than to see his children trust him, when all visible
helps are out of sight.
(4.) Put on the ornament of a meek
and quiet spirit: for this is " in the sight
of GOD of great price." Studyto be, like your
Father, slow to anger, ready to forgive, forgetting injuries, loving enemies,
requiting ill will with kindness, ill words with courtesies, neglects with
benefits; and if any wrong you, do him a kindness the sooner: so shall you
bear His likeness, and be His delight. O " seek
meekness! " How can the Hots DovE
rest in a wrathful heart? CHRIST IS a Iamb, in point
of meekness: how can He take pleasure in an unquiet and contentious spirit?
Verily with the froward, He will show himself froward: if you will not forgive others, He will not forgive
you. Art you hard to be pleased, a froward wife,
a froward master, a cross and self-willed servant?
Surely Goss will not be pleased with thee: He will mete to us as we measure
to others.
(5.) Get a spirit of self-denial.
Be content to be empty, and to be abased, that GOD may be honored; be willing
to decrease, that he may increase. Forget thyself; renounce thine
own wisdom, thine own worthiness, thine own will; bite in thy passions, curb thine appetite, bridle thy tongue. This do,
and you shall be greatly accepted, and shall find that GOD’s
favor will infinitely reward thee for all the murmuring oppositions and discontents
of the flesh.
(6.) Maintain a spirit of resolution
and constancy in the ways of GOD. This was the renown of the three worthies,
mentioned in Dan. 3: They feared not the fierceness of NEBUCHADNEZZAR'S rage,
nor the fire of the furnace; all the world could
not make them bow; and how gloriously did Goss own them, and evidence his
pleasure in them? Stand your ground; resolve to live and die by substantial
Godliness; cleave to the LORD with full purpose of heart; let no difficulties
make you change your station; then shall you be an honor and a pleasure to
the GOD that made you.
Well, then, would you know what frame
of heart is pleasing to GOD? Why, this humble, zealous, active frame; this
believing, meek, self-denying, and resolved frame! This is the frame that
is well-pleasing in the sight of GOD.
Secondly, As to your Performances, I shall briefly state, that in order
that they may please GOD, you must look to these five things.
I. That they be
done by the right Rule; which is GOD's Nord. You must not follow the imaginations of your own hearts;
you must not do that which is right in your own eyes. In all sacred actions,
you must have GOD's command to warrant you. You
may not offer to GOD that of which you are not able to say, "You requirest these things at our hands." In all civil actions,
you must have GOD's allowance. Be sure, He will
never accept that which his word condemns, and therefore under pain of GOD's displeasure dare not to set your hands to what the Word
forbids.
II. That they be
done to the right End; which is GOD's Glory. How
damnably did the Pharisees err! How miserably did JEHL miscarry! And both
in acts which were, as to their matter, commanded, but which were faulty in
not aiming at this end.
III. That they proceed from right
Principles: namely, 1. Faith; without which it is impossible to please GOD.
Prayer will not avail, except it be the prayer of
faith. We believe, and therefore we speak. 2. Love. If we should give our
goods to the poor, and our bodies to the fire, and not from love, it would
profit us nothing. 3. Fear. We cannot serve GOD acceptably, without "reverence
and Godly fear,"—not a slavish fear. The LORD "
taketh pleasure in them that fear him," in them
that hope in his mercy. Observe the happy mixture; where these two are conjoined,
there is a true filial fear. DAVID says, " I will come to thy house in
the multitude of thy mercy;"—behold his faith; "
and in thy fear will I worship toward thy holy temple;"—there is his
fear with faith. Faith without Fear is presumption; Fear without Faith is
despair: join these together, and GOD is well-pleased.
IV. That they be done in a right
Manner:—Preparedly, not rashly and inconsiderately, in the presence of sodreadful a Majesty; and prudently, for lawful acts may be
spoiled, and be done unlawfully, without consideration had to the offence
that may in some cases attend them; yea, holy duties, as well as common actions,
may be turned into sins, by being ill-timed, and for want of a due attention
to the present circumstances.
V. That they be directed through
the right Means: that is, JESUS CHRIST, the only way to the FATHER. Bring
all thy sacrifices to this High-Priest, and offer all upon this altar; else
all is lost. It is not enough to say, "through
our LORD JESUS CHRIST," at the end; but in every duty you must come with
a lively dependence on him for righteousness and strength, for assistance
and acceptance. Remember to do all in the name of the LORD JESUS, and to come
leaning upon his hand. without this, all your services
will be rejected.