CHAP.
IV.
OF
WORSHIP DUE TO GOD'S NAME.
1. Of
prayer, and its several parts. 2: Of public prayers in the church.
3. In
the family. 4: Of private prayer. 5: Of fasting.
I.
Of Prayer and its several Parts.
THE eighth duty we owe to God is
worship; this is that great duty by which especially we acknowledge his God-head,
worship being proper only to GOD, and therefore it is to be looked on as a
most weighty duty. This is to be performed, first, by our souls; secondly,
by our bodies: the soul's part is praying. Now prayer is a speaking to GOD,
and there are divers parts of it, according to the
different things about which we speak.
2. As first, there is confession,
that is, the acknowledging our sins to God. And this may be either general
or particular; the general is when we only confess in gross that we are sinful;
the particular, when we mention the several sorts and acts of our sins. The
former is necessary to be always a part of our solemn prayers, whether public
or private. The latter is proper for private prayer, and there the oftener
it is used the better; yea, even in our daily private prayer, it will be fit
constantly to. remember some of our greatest and
foulest sins, though never so long since past: for such we should never think
sufficiently confessed and bewailed. And this bewailing must always go along
with confession; we Host be heartily sorry for the sins we confess, and from
our souls acknowledge our own great unworthiness in having committed them.
For our confession is not intended to instruct GOD, who knows our sins much
better than our-selves do, but it is to humble ourselves, and therefore we
must not think to have confessed aright till that be done.
3. The second part of prayer is petition,
that is, the begging of God whatsoever we want, either for our souls or bodies.
For our souls, we must first beg pardon of sins, and that for the sake of
JESUS CHRIST, who shed his blood to obtain it. Then we must beg the assistance
of God's Spirit, to enable us to forsake our sins, and to walk in obedience
to him. And herein it will be needful, particularly to beg all the several
virtues, as faith, love, zeal, purity, but especially those which you most
wantest. And in all these things that concern thy soul, be
very earnest and importunate; take no denial from GOD, nor give over, though
you do not presently obtain what you suest for.
But if you have never so long prayed for a grace, and yet findest
it not, do not grow weary of praying, but rather search what the cause may
be which makes thy prayers ineffectual; see if you do not thyself hinder them.
Perhaps you prayest to God to enable thee to conquer
some sin, and yet never goest about to fight against
it, never makest any resistance, but yieldest to it as often as it comes, nay, puttest thyself in its way, in the road of temptations. If
it be thus, no wonder though thy prayers avail not, for you wilt not let them.
There-fore amend this: set to the doing of thy part, and then you needest not fear but God will do his.
4. Secondly, we are to petition also
for our bodies, that is, we are to ask of God such things as are needful to
us while we live here. But these only in such a degree as
his wisdom sees best for us. We must not presume to be our own carvers,
and pray for all that wealth or greatness which our own vain hearts may desire,
but only for such a condition as he sees may most tend to those great ends
of living, the glorifying him, and the saving our own souls.
5. A third part of prayer is deprecation,
that is, when we pray to God to turn away some evil from us. Now the evil
may be either the evil of sin, or the evil of punishment. The evil of sin
is that we are especially to pray against, most earnestly' begging of God
that he will by the power of his grace preserve us from falling into sin.
And whatever sins they are, to which you knows thy-self most inclined, there
be particularly earnest with God to preserve thee. This is to be done daily,
but then more especially when we are under any present temptation, in which
case we have reason to cry out, as Peter did when he found himself sinking,
" Save, Lord, or I perish!" humbly beseeching him either to withdraw
the temptation, or strengthen us to withstand it.
6. Secondly, we are likewise to pray
against the evil of punishment, but principally against spiritual punishments,
as the anger of GOD, the withdrawing his grace, and eternal damnation. Against
these we can never pray with too much earnestness. But we may also pray against
temporal punishments, that is, any outward affliction; but this with submission
to God's will, according to the example of CHRIST, Matt. 26: 39, " Not as I will, but as you wilt."
7. A fourth part of prayer is intercession, that is, praying for others. This in general
we are to do for all mankind, as well strangers as acquaintance, but more
particularly those to whom we have any special relation; either public, as
our governors both in church and state; or private, as parents, husbands,
wife, children, friends. We are also to pray for all that are
in affliction, and such particular persons as we discern especially to be
so. Yea, we are to pray for those that have done us injury, those that despitefully
use us and persecute us." For all these sorts of persons we are to pray,
and that for the very same good things we beg of God for ourselves, that God
would give thee, in their several places and callings, all spiritual and temporal
blessings, which he sees wanting to them, and turn away from them all evil,
whether of sin or punishment.
8. The fifth part of prayer is thanksgiving;
that is, the praising God for his mercies, whether to our persons, and those
that immediately relate to us, or to the church and nation whereof we are
members, or yet more general, to all mankind; and this for all his mercies,
both spiritual and temporal. In the spiritual, first, for those wherein we
are all in common concerned, as the giving of his Son, the sending of his
Spirit, and all those means he has used to bring sinful men unto himself.
Secondly,. for those mercies
we have in our own particulars received; such are the having been born within
the church, and so brought up in the Christian religion, by which we have
been partakers of those precious advantages of the word and sacraments, and
have had the means of eternal life put into our hands. But besides these,
there is none of us but have received other spiritual mercies from God.
9. As first, God's patience and long-suffering,
waiting for our repentance, and not cutting us off in our sins. Secondly,
his calls and invitations of us to repentance, not only outward in the ministry
of the word, but also inward, by the motions of his Spirit. But then
if you be one that bast, by the help of God's grace,
been wrought upon by these calls, and brought from a profane or worldly, to
a Christian course of life, you art in the highest degree tied to praise his
goodness, as having received from him the greatest of mercies.
1O. We are likewise to give thanks
for temporal blessings, whether such as concern the public, as the prosperity
of the church or nation, and all remarkable deliverances afforded to either;
or else such as concern our particular; such are all the good things of this
life which we enjoy; as health, friends, food, raiment; also for those minute
preservations whereby we are by God's gracious providence kept from danger,
and the especial deliverances which God has given us in time of the greatest
perils. It will be impossible to set down the several mercies which every
man receives from GOD, because they differ in kind and degree between one
man and another. But it is sure that he which receives least,
has yet enough to employ his whole life in praises to God. And it will be
very fit for every man to consider the several passages of his life, and the
mercies he has in each received, and to gather a kind of catalogue of them,
at least the principal, which he may always have in his memory, and often
with a thankful heart repeat before God.
II. Of public
Prayers in the Church.
11. These are the several parts of
prayer, and all of them to be used both publicly and privately. The public
use of them is, first, that the church, where all meet to join in those prayers
wherein they are in common concerned. And in this (where the prayers are such
as they ought to be,) we should be very constant, there being an especial
blessing promised to the joint requests of the faithful; and he that without
a necessary cause absents himself from public prayers, cuts himself off from
the church, which has always been thought so unhappy a thing, that it is the
greatest punishment the govenors of the church can
lay upon the worst offender; and therefore it is a strange madness for men
to inflict it upon them-selves.
III. Of family
Prayer.
12. A second sort of public prayer
is that in a family, where all that are members of it join in their common
supplication; and this also ought to be very carefully attended to, first
by the master of the family, who is to look that there be such prayers, it
being as much his part thus to provide for the souls of his children and servants,
as to provide food for their bodies. Therefore there is none, even the meanest
householder, but ought to take this care. What choice soever
they make of prayers, let them be sure to have some; and let no man that professes
himself a Christian, keep so heathenish a family, as not to see God be daily
worshipped in it. But when the master of a family has done his duty in this
providing, it is the duty of every member of it to make use of that provision,
by being constant and diligent at those family prayers.
IV. Of private
Prayer.
13. Private or secret prayer is that.
which is used by man alone, apart from all others,
wherein we are to be more particular, according to our particular needs, than
in public it is fit to be. And private prayer is a duty which will not be
excused by the performance of public. They are both required, and one must
not be taken in exchange for the other. And whoever is diligent in pub-lick
prayers, and yet negligent in private, it is much to be feared he rather seeks
to approve himself to men than to God; contrary to the command of our Savior,
Matt. 6: who enjoins this private prayer, this "praying to our Father
in secret," from whom alone we are to expect our reward, and not from
the vain praises of men.
14. Now this duty of prayer is to
be often performed, by none seldomer than evening
and morning, it being most necessary that we should thus begin and end all
our works with GOD, and that not only in respect of our-selves, who can never
be either prosperous or safe, but by committing ourselves to him; and therefore
should tremble to venture on the perils of day or night without his safeguard.
How much oftener this duty is to be per-formed, must be judged according to
the business or leisure men have. Where by business, I mean not such business
as men unprofitably make to themselves, but the necessary business of a man's
calling, which with some will not afford them much time for set and solemn
prayer. But even these men may often in a day lift up their hearts to GOD,
in short prayers, even whilst they are at their work. As for those that have
more leisure, they are in all reason to bestow more time upon this duty. And
let no man, that can find time to bestow upon his vanities, nay, perhaps,
his sins, say he wants leisure for prayer; but let him now endeavor to redeem
what he has mis-spent, by employing more of that
leisure in this duty for the future.
15. But we are not only to consider
how often, but how well we perform it. Now to do it well, we are to respect,
first, the matter of our prayers, to look that we ask nothing that is unlawful,
as revenge upon our enemies, or the like. Secondly, the manner; and that must
be first in faith. We must believe, that if we ask as we ought, God will either
give us the thing we ask for, or else something which he sees better for us.
And, secondly, in humility; we must acknowledge ourselves utterly unworthy
of any of those good things we beg for, and therefore sue for them only for
CHRIST's sake. Thirdly, with attention; we must mind what
we are about, and not suffer ourselves to be carried away to the thought of
other things. I told you, at first, that prayer was the business of the soul;
but if our minds be wandering, it is the work, only, of the tongue and lips,
which make it, in God's account, no better than vain babbling, and so will
never bring a blessing on us. Nay, as Jacob said to his mother, Gen. 27: 12,
it will be more likely to bring a curse on us than a blessing; for it is a
profaning one of the most solemn parts of God's service; it is a piece of
hypocrisy, the "drawing near to him with our lips, when our hearts are
far from him," and a great slighting and despising that dreadful Majesty
we come before. It is just as if a malefactor, that comes to
sue for his life to the king, should, in the midst of his supplication, happen
to espy a butterfly, and should
leave his suit and run after that butterfly, would you not
think it pity a pardon should be cast away upon so care-less a creature? And
sure it will be as unreasonable to expect that God should attend and grant
those suits of ours, which we do not consider ourselves.
16. This wandering in prayer is a
thing we are much concerned to arm ourselves against; it being that to which
we are naturally wonderfully prone. To that end it will be necessary, first,
to possess our hearts at our coming to prayers with the greatness of that
Majesty we are to approach, that so we may dread to be vain and trifling in
his presence. Secondly, we are to consider the great-concernment of the things
we are to ask, some whereof are such, that if we should not be heard, we were
of all creatures the most miserable; and yet this wandering is the way to
keep us from being heard. Thirdly, we are to beg God's aid in this particular:
and therefore, when you settest to prayer, let thy
first petition be for this grace of attention.
17. Lastly, be as watchful as is
possible, over thy heart in time of prayer, to keep out all wandering thoughts;
or if any have gotten in, let them not find entertainment; but as soon as
ever you discernest them, suffer them not to abide
one moment, but cast them out with indignation, and beg God's pardon for
them.
18. In the fourth place, we must
look our prayers be with zeal and earnestness; it is not enough that we so
far attend to them, as barely to know what it is we say, but we must put forth
all the affections of our souls, according to the several parts of prayer
before mentioned. It is not the cold faint request that will ever obtain from
God; we see it will not from ourselves; for if a beggar should ask relief
from us, and do it in such a manner that he seemed indifferent whether he
had it or not, we should think he had either little want, or great pride,
and so have no heart to give him. Therefore be careful when you drawest
nigh to God in prayer, to raise up thy soul to the
highest pitch of zeal and earnestness you art able. And, because of thyself
alone you art not able todo any thing, beseech God
that he will inflame thy heart with this heavenly fire of devotion; and when
you have obtained it, beware that you neither quench it by any wilful
sin, nor let it go out again for want of stirring it up.
19. Fifthly, we must pray with purity,
I mean, we must purge our hearts from all affections to sin. This is surely
the meaning of the apostle, 1 Tim. 2: 8, when he commands men to "lift
up holy hands in prayer." He that cherishes any sin in his heart, his
prayers, be they never so many or earnest, will little
avail him. The Psalmist will tell him he shall not be heard, Psalm lxvi. 18, " If I regard iniquity
in my heart, the Lord will not hear me." Nay, Solomon will tell him yet
worse, that his prayers are not only vain, but abominable, Prov. 15: 8, " The sacrifice
of the wicked is an abomination to the Lord." And thus to have our prayers
turned into sill, is one of the heaviest things that can befall any man. Therefore,
let us not be so cruel to ourselves, as to pull it upon our own heads.
2O. In the
last place, we must direct our prayers to right ends; and that either ill
respect of the prayer itself, or the things we pray for. First, We must pray,
not to gain the praise of men, only for company or fashion-sake, but we must
do it first as an act of worship to God: Secondly, As an acknowledgment that
he is that great spring from whence alone we expect all good things: and,
Thirdly, To gain a supply of our own, or others' needs. Our end in all must
be God's glory first; and next that our own and others' salvation; and all
other things must be taken in only as they tend to those. I have now done
with that first part of worship, that of the soul.
21. The other is that of the body;
and that is such humble and reverent gestures in our approaches to God as
may both express the inward reverence of our souls, and also pay him some
tribute for our very bodies, with which the apostle commands us to glorify
GOD, as well as with our souls; and good reason, since he has created and
redeemed the one as well as the other: whensoever,
therefore, you offerest thy prayers unto GOD, let it be with all lowliness,
as well of body as of mind.
Of
Fasting.
22. To prayer, fasting is very proper
to be annexed. The Scripture usually joins them together. So Anna, Luke 2:
37, " served God with fasting and prayer."
And the Christians of the first times were generally very frequent in the
practice of it. Now, though fasting be especially
proper to a time of humiliation, yet it is not so restrained to it but it
may be seasonable whensoever we have any extraordinary
thing to request from God. Thus, when Esther was to endeavor the deliverance
of her people from destruction, she and all the Jews kept a solemn fast, Esther
4: 16. And thus when Paul and Barnabas were to be ordained apostles, there
was fasting joined to prayer, Acts 13: 3. And so it will be very fit for us
whensoever we have need of any extraordinary directions,
or assistance from GOD, whether concerning our temporal or spiritual concernments,
thus to quicken our prayers by fasting.
23. How often this duty of fasting
is to be performed, we have no direction in Scripture. That must be allotted
by men's own piety, according as their health, or other considerations, will
allow. But as it is in humiliation, the frequenter returns we have of set
times for it the better; so it is likewise in fasting, the oftener the better,
so it be not hurtful either to our healths, or to
some other duty required of us. Nay, perhaps fasting may help some men to
more times for humiliation than they would otherwise gain. For there are some
who cannot, without a manifest hinderance to their
calling, allow a whole day to that work; yet such a one may at least afford
that time he would otherwise spend in eating and so fasting will be doubly
useful to such a man, both by helping him in duty, and gaining him time for
it.
24. I have now gone through the first
branch of our duty to GOD, to wit, the acknowledging him for our God. The
second is, the having no other; of which I need say little, as it is a forbidding
of that grosser sort of heathenish idolatry, the worshipping of idols, which,
though it were once common in the world, yet is now so rare, that it is not
likely any that read this will be concerned in it. Only I must say, that to
pay Divine worship to any creature, be it saint or angel, yea, or the image
of CHRIST himself, is a transgression of the second branch of our duty to
GOD, being the imparting that to a creature, which is due only to GOD, and
therefore is strictly to be abstained from.
25. But there is another sort of
idolatry, of which we are generally guilty, and that is, when we pay those
affections of love, fear, trust, and the like, to any creature, in a higher
degree than we do to God; for that is the setting up that thing, whatsoever
it is, for our God. And this inward kind of idolatry is that which provokes
God to jealousy, as well as the outward, of worshipping an idol.
CHAP. 5
I. Duty to ourselves;
of sobriety. H. Of humility. 3: The great sin of pride.
4: Of vain-glory,
the danger, folly, and the means to prevent it. 5: Of meekness.
I. Our Duty to
ourselves; of Sobriety.
This duty to ourselves
is, by St. Paul, in the fore-mentioned text, Titus 2: 12, summed up in this
one word, soberly. Now by soberly is meant our keeping within those due bounds
which God has set us. My business will therefore be to tell you what are
the particulars of this sobriety: and that, 1. Inrespect
of the
soul; 2. In respect of the body. The
sobriety of the soul stands in right governing its passions and affections,
and to that are many virtues required. I shall give you the particulars of
them.
II. Of
Humility.
2. The first of them is humility.
This being the foundation on which all others must be built. And he that
hopes to gain them without this, will prove but like that foolish builder
CHRIST speaks of, Luke 6: 49, " who built his house on the sand." Of the humility
towards GOD, I have already spoken; I am now to speak of humility as it concerns
ourselves.
3. This humility is of two sorts;
the first is, the having a mean opinion of ourselves; the second is, the being
content that others should have so of us. The first of these is contrary to
pride, the other to vain glory. And that both these are absolutely necessary
to Christians, I am now to show you; which will, I conceive, best be done
by laying before you, first, the sin; secondly, the danger; thirdly, the contrary
virtues.
III. The great
Sin of Pride.
4. And first, for pride; the sin
of it is so great, that it cast the angels out of heaven, and therefore, if
we may judge of sin by the punishment, it was not only the first, but the
greatest sin that ever the devil himself has been guilty of: but we need no
better proof of the heinousness of it, than the extreme hatefulness of it
to God; which besides that instance of his punishing the devil, we may frequently
find in the Scriptures, Prov. xvi 5, " Every
one that is proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord." So Jam.
4: 6, " God resisteth
the proud;" and divers other texts there are to the same purpose. Now,
since it is certain, GOD, who is all goodness, hates nothing but as it is
evil, it must needs follow, that where God hates :n
so great a degree, there must be a great degree of evil.
5. But, secondly, pride is not only
very sinful, but very dangerous; and that, in respect of drawing us to other
sins; secondly, of betraying us to punishments. First, pride draws us to other
sins, wherein it shows itself to be directly contrary to humility; for as
that is the root of all virtue, so is this of all vice. For he that is proud
sets himself up as his own GOD, and so can never submit to any other rules
than what he makes to himself. " The ungodly,"
says the Psalmist, "is so proud that he careth
not for God." Where you see it is his pride that makes him despise God.
And when a man is once come to that, he is prepared for the commission of
all sins. I might instance in a multitude of particular sins that naturally
flow from this of pride; as, first, anger, which the wise man sets as the
effect of pride, Prov. 21: 24, calling it proud
wrath; secondly, strife and contention; which he again notes to be the offspring
of pride, Prov. 13: 1O, " Only by pride cometh
contention." And both these are indeed natural effects of pride: for
he that thinks highly of himself, expects much submission and observance from
others, and therefore cannot but quarrel when he thinks it not sufficiently
paid. It would be infinite to mention all the fruits of this bitter root:
I shall name but one more, and that is, that pride not only betrays us to
many sins, but also makes them incurable, for it hinders the working of all
remedies.
6. Those remedies must either come
from God or man; if from God they must be either in the way of meekness and
gentleness, or else of sharpness and punishment. Now if God by his goodness
essay to lead a proud man to repentance, he quite mistakes God's meaning,
and thinks all the mercies he receives are but the reward of his own desert;
and so long it is sure he will never think he needs repentance. But if, on
the other side, God use him more sharply, and lay afflictions and punishments
upon him, those in a proud heart work nothing but murmurings and hating of
GOD, as if he did him injury in those punishments. As for the remedies that
can be used by man, they again must be either by way of correction or exhortation.
Corrections from man will never work more on a proud heart, than those from
God; for he that can think God unjust in them, will much rather believe it
of man. And exhortations will do as little. For let a proud man be
admonished, though never so mildly, he looks on it as a disgrace. And there-fore,
instead of confessing or amending the fault, he falls to reproaching his reprover,
and for that precious act of kindness, looks on him as his enemy. Now
one that thus stubbornly resists all means of cure, must be concluded in
a. most dangerous state.
7. But besides this danger of sin,
I told you there was another, that of punishment; and of this there will need
little proof, when it is considered, that God is the proud man's professed
enemy, that he hates and resists him, as appeared in the text fore-cited:
and then there can be little doubt, that he which has so mighty an adversary
shall he sure to smart for it. " For pride goes
before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall. Every one that is
proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord; though hand
join in hand, yet they shall not be unpunished." The decree,
it seems, is unalterable, and whatever endeavors are used to preserve the
proud man, they are but vain, for " he shall
not go unpunished."
8. In the third place I am to show
you the great folly of this sin; and to do that, it will be necessary to consider
the several things whereof men use to be proud; they are of three sorts, either
those which we call the goods of nature, or the goods of fortune, or the goods
of grace.
9. By the goods of nature 1 mean
beauty, strength, wit, and the like; and the being proud of any of these is
a huge folly. For, first, we are apt to mistake, and think our-selves handsome
or witty when we are not; and then there cannot be a more ridiculous folly
than to be proud of what we have not; and such every one esteems it in another
man, though he never supposes it his own case. And therefore there is nothing
more despicable amongst all men, than a proud fool; yet no man that entertains
high opinions of his own wit, but is in danger to be thus deceived, a man's
own judgment of himself being of all others the least to be trusted. But,
secondly, suppose we be not out in judging, yet what is there in any of these
endowments which is worth the being proud of, there being scarce any of them
which some creature or other has not in a greater degree than man? How much
does the whiteness of the lily, and the redness of the rose, exceed thewhite
and red of the fairest face? What a multitude of creatures is there, that
far surpass man in strength and swiftness? And divers others there are, which,
as far as concerns any useful end of theirs, act much more wisely than most
of us; and are therefore in scripture often pro-posed to us by way of example.
It is therefore surely great unreasonableness for us to think highly of ourselves
for such things as are common to us with beasts and plants. But, thirdly,
if they were as excellent as we fancy them, yet they are not durable, they
are impaired and lost by sundry means; a phrenzy
will destroy the rarest wit; a sickness decay the freshest beauty, the greatest
strength; or, however, old age will be sure to do all. But, lastly, whatever
they are, we gave them not to ourselves. No man can think he did any thing
towards the procuring his beauty or wit, and so can with no reason value himself
for them.
1O. In the
second place, the folly is as great to be proud of the goods of fortune. By
them I mean wealth and honor, and the like; for it is sure they add nothing
of true worth to the man; somewhat of outward pomp they may help him to, but
that makes no change in the person. You may load an ass with money, or deck
him with rich trappings, yet still you will not make him a whit the nobler
kind of beast. Secondly, these arc things we have no hold of, they vanish
many times ever we are aware; he that is rich to-day may be poor to-morrow,
and then he will be the less pitied by all in his poverty, the prouder he
was when he was rich. Thirdly, we have them all, but as stewards, to lay out
for our Master's use, and therefore should rather think how to make our accounts,
than pride ourselves in our receipts. Lastly, whatever of these we have, they,
as well as the former, are not owing to our-selves. If they be lawfully gotten,
we owe them only to GOD, whose blessing it is that maketh
rich, Prov. 10: 22. if
unlawfully, we have them upon such terms, that we have very little reason
to brag of them. And thus you see in these several respects, the folly of
this second part of pride.
11. The third is that of the goods
of grace; that is, any virtue a man has. And here I cannot say but the things
are very valuable, being infinitely more precious than all the world, yet
nevertheless this is of all the rest the greatest folly; and that not only
in the foregoing respect, that we help not ourselves to it, grace being above
all things most immediately God's work in us, but especially in this, that
the being proud of glace is the sure way to lose it. GOD, who gives grace
to the humble, will take it from the proud; and as he will lose the grace
for the future, so he will lose all the reward of it for the time past. For
let a man have done never so many good acts, yet if he be proud of them, that
pride shall be charged on him to his destruction, but the good shall never
be remembered to his reward. And this proves it to be a most wretched folly
to be proud of grace. It is like that of children, that pull those things
in pieces they are most fond of; but yet much worse than that of theirs, for
we not only lose the thing, (and that the most precious that can be imagined,)
but we must also be eternally punished for doing so, there being nothing that
shall be so sadly reckoned for in the next world as the abuse of grace. And
certainly there can be no greater abuse of it, than to make it serve for an
end so directly contrary to that for which it was given; it being given to
make us humble, not proud; to magnify GOD, not ourselves.
12. The second contrary to humility
I told you was vain-glory; that is, a thirst after the praise of men. And
first, that this is a sin, I need prove no otherwise than by the words of
our Savior, John 5: 44, " How can ye believe,
that receive honor of one another?" Where it appears that it is not only
a sin, but such an one as hinders the receiving CHRIST
into the heart, for so believing there signifies. This, in the second place,
shows you the great danger of this sin; for if it be that which keeps CHRIST
out of the heart, it is sure it brings infinite danger, since all our safety,
all our hope of escaping the wrath to come, stands in receiving him. But,
besides, experience shows that wherever this sin has possession, it endangers
men to fall into any other. For he that so considers the praise of men, whenever
the greatest sins come to be in fashion and credit, will be sure to commit
them rather than run the disgrace of being singular and precise. I doubt there
are many consciences can witness the truth of this, so that I need say no
more to prove the danger of this sin.
13. The third thing I am to spew,
is the folly of it; and that will appear, first, by considering what it is
we thus hunt after; nothing but a little air, a blast, the breath of men,
it brings us in nothing of real advantage, for I am never made the wiser nor
the better for a man's saying I am wise and good. Besides, if I am commended,
it must be either before my face, or behind my back. If the former, it is
very often flattery, and so the greatest abuse that can be offered, and then
I must be very much a fool to be pleased with it. But if it be behind my back,
I have not then so much as the pleasure of knowing it, and there-fore it is
a strange folly thus to pursue what is so utterly gainless.
But, secondly, it is not only gainless, but painful
and uneasy also; he that seeks praise is not at all master of himself, but
must suit all his actions to that end, and instead of doing what his own reason
or conscience (nay, perhaps his worldly convenience) directs him to, he must
take care to do what will bring him in commendations, and so enslave himself
to every one that has but a tongue to commend him. Nay, there is yet a farther
uneasiness in it; and that is, when such a man fails of his aim, when he misses
the praise, and perhaps meets with the contrary--reproach, (which is no man's
lot more often than that of the vain-glorious) then what disturbances and
disquiets, and even torment of mind is he under? And sure this painfulness
that attends this sin, is sufficient proof of the
folly of it. Yet this is not all, it is further very hurtful; for if this
vain-glory be concerning any Christian action, it destroys all the fruit of
it; he that prays or/gives alms to be seen of men, (Matt. 6: 2,) must take
that as his reward; they must expect none from GOD, but the portion of those
hypocrites, that " love the praise of men more than.the
praise of God." And this is a miserable folly to make such an exchange;
but if the vain-glory be not concerning any virtuous action, but only some
indifferent thing, yet even then it is very hurtful; for vain-glory is a
thing that, wheresoever it is placed, endangers our eternal estate, which
is the greatest of all mischiefs. And even for the
present it is observable, that of all other sins it stands most in its own
light. For there are very few that thus hunt after
praise but they are discerned to do so, and that is sure to eclipse whatever
praise-worthy thing they do, and bring scorn upon them instead of reputation.
And then certainly we may justly condemn this sin of folly, which is so ill
a manager, even of its own design.
IV. Of
Meekness.
14. A second virtue is meekness;
that is, a calmness and quietness of spirit, contrary to the impatience of
auger. This virtue may be exercised either in respect of God or our neighbor.
That towards God I have already spoken of under the head of Humility, and
that towards our neighbor I shall hereafter. All I have here to say of it
is, how it becomes a duty to ourselves; that it does, in respect of the great
advantage we reap by it; "Blessed are the meek," and not only in
the next world, but even in this too, " they shall inherit the earth."
Indeed none but the meek person has the true enjoyment of any thing in the
world, for the angry and impatient are like sick people, who cannot enjoy
the greatest prosperities. For let things be never so fair without, they will
raise storms within their own breasts; and surely whoever has, either in himself
or others, observed the great uneasiness of this passion of anger, cannot
choose but think meekness a most pleasant thing.
V. Of Consideration.
15. The third virtue is consideration;
and this in a most special manner we owe to our souls, for without it we shall,
as rash unadvised people use to do, rush into infinite perils. Now this consideration
is either of our state or of our actions; by our state I mean, what our condition
is to God-ward; whether it be such, that we may reasonably conclude ourselves in his favor.
This it much concerns us to consider and examine, and that not by those easy
rules men are apt to frame to themselves, as, whether they believe that CHRIST
died for their sins, that they are of the number of the elect, and shall certainly
be saved. If these and the like were all that were required to put us into
God's favor, none but some melancholy person could ever be out of it; for
we are apt enough generally to believe comfortably of ourselves. But the rules
God has given us in his word are those by which we must be tried at the last
day, and therefore are certainly the only safe ones by which to try ourselves
now. And the sum of those are, that whosoever continues in any one willful
sin, is not in his favor; nor can, if he do so die, hope for mercy at his
hand.
16. The second thing we are to consider
is our actions, and those either before or after the doing of them. In the
first place we are to consider before we act, and not to do any thing rashly
or headily; but first to advise with our consciences,
whether this be lawful to be done. For he that follows his own inclination,
and does every thing which that -moves him to, shall be sure to fall into
a multitude of sins. Therefore consider soberly, and be assured of the lawfulness
of the thing before you venture to do it.
17. Secondly, we are to consider
the actions when they are past also; that is, we are to examine whether they
have been such as are allowable by the laws of CHRIST. This is very necessary,
whether they be good or bad; if they be good, the recalling them helpeth us to the comfort of a good conscience, and that
comfort again encouraged] us to go on in the like; and besides, it stirs
us up to thankfulness to GOD, by whose grace alone we are enabled to do them.
But if they be bad, then it is especially necessary that we thus examine them,
for without this it is impossible we should ever come to amendment; for unless
we observe them to have been amiss, we can never think it needful to mend,
but shall still run on from one wickedness to another, which is the greatest
curse any man can he under.
CHAP. 6
I. Of contentedness
and the contraries to it, murmuring, ambition, covetousness, envy.
2: Helps to contentedness.
3: Of duties which concern our bodies. 4: Of chastity; helps to it. 5: Of
temperance.
I.
Of Contentedness.
THE fourth virtue is contentedness;
and this surely is a duty we owe to ourselves, it being that without which
it is impossible to be happy. This contentedness is a well-plcasedness
with that condition, whatever it is, that God has
placed us in; not murmuring and repining at our lot, but cheerfully welcoming
whatever God sends. How great and pleasant a virtue this is, may appear by
the contrariety it has to several great and painful vices; so that where this
is rooted in the heart, it subdues not only some such single sin, but a cluster
of them together.
2. And first, it is contrary to all
murmuring in general, which is a sin most hateful to GOD, as may appear by
his sharp punishments of it on the Israelites in the wilderness. And surely
it is also very painful and uneasy to a man's self; for if, as the Psalmist
says, it be a " joyful and pleasant thing to
be thankful," we may conclude it is a sad and unpleasant thing to be
murmuring; and every man's own experience will confirm the truth of it.
3. Secondly, it is contrary to ambition;
the ambitious man is always disliking his present
condition, and that makes him so greedily seek a higher; whereas he that is
content with his own, lies quite out of the road of this temptation. Now ambition
is not only a great sin in itself, but it puts men upon many other. There
is nothing so horrid which a man that eagerly seeks greatness, will stick
at; and the uneasiness of it is answerable to the sin. This none can doubt
of, that considers what a multitude of fears and
jealousies, cares and distractions, there are that attend ambition in its
progress, besides the great and public ruins that usually befall it in the
end. And therefore sure contentedness is, in this respect, as well a happiness as a virtue.
4. Thirdly, it is contrary to covetousness;
this the apostle witnesseth, Heb. 13: 5, "
Let your conversation be without covetousness, and be content with
such things as ye have;" where you see contentedness is set as the direct
contrary to covetousness. But of this there needs no other proof than common
experience; for we see the covetous man never thinks he has enough, and therefore
can never be content; for no man can be said to be so that thirsts after any
thing he has not. Now, that you may see how excellent and necessary a virtue
this is that secures against covetousness, it will not be amiss a little to
consider the nature of that sin.
5. That it is a very great crime,
is most certain, for it is contrary to the very foundation of all good life;
I mean those three great duties, to GOD, to ourselves, and to our neighbors.
First, it is so contrary to our duty to GOD, that CHRIST himself tells us,
Luke 16: 13, " Ye cannot serve God and mammon."
He that sets his heart upon wealth, must necessarily
take it off from God.
6. Secondly, it is contrary to the
duty we owe our-selves, and that both in respect of our souls and bodies.
The covetous man despises his soul, sells that to eternal destruction for
a little pelf. Nor does he only offend against his soul, but his body too;
for he often denies it those necessary refreshments it wants, and for which
his wealth (as far as it concerns himself,) was given him. This is so constantly
the custom of rich misers, that I need not prove it to you.
7. In the third place, covetousness
is contrary to the duty we owe to our neighbors; and that in both the parts
of it, justice and charity. He that loves money will not' care whom he cheats
and defrauds, so he may bring in gain to himself: and from thence spring those
many tricks of deceit so common in the world. As for charity, that is never
to be hoped for from a covetous man, who dreads the lessening of his own heaps
more than the starving of his poor brother. And it is not much less uneasy
than wicked; for between the care of getting, and the fear of losing, the
covetous man enjoys no quiet hour. Therefore every man is deeply concerned,
as he tenders his happiness, either in this world or the next, to guard himself against this sin, which he can no way do but by contentedness.
8. In the fourth place, it is contrary
to envy; for he that is content with his own condition, has no temptation
to envy another's. How unChristian a
sin envy is, shall hereafter be showed: at the present, I need say
no more, but that it is a very uneasy one; it frets and gnaws the very heart
of him that harbours it. But the worse this sin
is, the more excellent is this grace of contentedness that frees
us from it. I suppose I have said enough to make you think this a very desirable
virtue.
9. A fifth duty is diligence: this
is made up of two parts, watchfulness and industry; and both these we owe
to our souls.
1O. First, watchfulness,
in observing all the dangers that threaten them. Now, since nothing
can endanger our souls but sin; this watchfulness is principally to be employed
against that; and as in a besieged city, where there is any weak part, there
it is necessary to keep the strongest guard; so it is here, wherever you findest
thy inclinations such as are likely to betray thee to sin, there it concerns
thee to be especially watchful. Observe, therefore, carefully to what sins
either thy natural temper, thy company, or thy course
of life incline thee, and watch thyself very narrowly in those.
11. The second part of diligence
is industry or labor, and this also we owe to our souls, for without it they
will as little prosper as the vineyard of the sluggard: for there is a husbandry
of the soul, as well as of the estate, and the end of the one, as of the other,
is the increasing and improving its riches. Now the riches of the soul are
either natural or Divine. By the natural, I mean
its faculties or reason, wit, memory, and the like; by the Divine, I mean
the graces of GOD, which are given immediately by God; and both these, we
are to take care to improve, they being talents entrusted to us for that purpose.
12. Of grace we must be especially
careful to husband and improve it. This is a duty expressly commanded, 2 Pet.
3: 18, "Grow in grace." And again, in the first chapter of that
Epistle, ver. 5, " Give all diligence to add to your faith virtue, and
to virtue knowledge," &c. Now the special means of improving grace
is by employing it, by doing those things for the enabling of us whereunto
it was given us. This is a sure means, as it has the promise of GOD, "That
to him that has," (that is, has made use of what he has,)
" shall be given, and he shall have abundance." He that diligently
and faithfully em-ploys the first beginnings of
grace, shall yet have more; and he that in like manner husbands that more,
shall yet have a greater degree; so that what Solomon says of temporal riches,
is also true of spiritual, " The hand of the diligent maketh rich."
13. Therefore, whenever you findest any good motions in thy heart, remember that is the
season for this spiritual husbandry: if you have but a check of conscience
against any sin, drive that on till it come to a hatred;
and then that hatred till it come to a resolution; then from that resolution
proceed to endeavors. Do this faithfully and sincerely, and you shall certainly
find the grace of God assisting thee, not only in every of these steps, but
also enabling thee to advance still higher, till you come to victory. Yet
to this industry you must not fail to add thy prayers, there being a promise
that God " will give the Holy Spirit to them
that ask it."
I have now done with those virtues which respect
our souls: I come now to those which concern our bodies.
II. Of
Chastity.
14. The first of which is chastity,
which may well be set in the front of the duties we owe to our bodies, since
the apostle, 1 Cor. 6: 18, sets the contrary as
the especial sin against them: "He that committeth
fornication, sinneth against his own body."
15. Now chastity consists in a perfect
abstaining from all kinds of uncleanness, not only that of adultery and fornication,
but all other sorts of it, committed either upon ourselves, or with any other. In a word, all acts of that kind
are utterly against chastity, save only in lawful marriage. And even there,
men are not to think them-selves let loose to please their brutish appetites,
but are to keep themselves within such rules of moderation as agree to the
ends of marriage; which being these two, the begetting of children, and the
avoiding of fornication, nothing must be done which may hinder the first of
these ends; and the second aiming only at the subduing of lust, it is very
contrary to that end to make marriage an occasion of heightening and inflaming
it.
16. But this virtue of chastity reacheth not only to the restraining of the grosser act, but
to all lower degrees. It sets a gnarl upon our eyes, and upon our hands; so
also upon our tongues, that they speak no immodest or filthy words: "Let
no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth." Nay, upon our very
thoughts and fancies, we must not entertain any filthy desires; not so much as the imagination of any such thing. Therefore he
that forbears the gross act, and yet allows himself in any of these, it is
to be suspected that it is rather some outward restraint that keeps him from
it, than con-science. For if it were that, it would
keep him from these too, these being sins also, and very great ones, in God's
sight.
17. Besides the natural fruits of
this sin, it is attended with heavy judgments from God. The most extraordinary
judgment that ever befel any place, fire and brimstone
from heaven upon Sodom and Gomorrah, was for this sin of uncleanness: and
many examples likewise of God's vengeance may be observed on particular persons
for this sin. The incest of Amnon cost him his life.
Zimri and Cozbi were slain
in the very act. And no person that commits the like,
has any assurance it shall not be his own case. For how
secretly soever it is committed, it. cannot be hid from GOD, who is the sure avenger of all such
wickedness.
18. Lastly, this sin shuts us out
from the kingdom of heaven, wherein no impure thing can enter. And we never
find any list of those sins which bar men thence, but this of uncleanness
has a special place in it. If we will thus pollute ourselves, we are fit company
only for those black spirits, the devil and his angels, and therefore with
them we must expect our portion, where our flames of lust will end in flames
of fire.
19. All this laid together may surely
recommend the virtue of chastity to us; for the preserving of which we must
be very careful, first, to check the beginnings of the temptation, to cast
away the very first fancy of lust with indignation; for if you once fall to
partly with it, it gains still more upon you, and then it will be harder to
resist: therefore your way in this temptation is to flee, rather than fight.
This is very necessary, not only that we may avoid the danger of proceeding
to act the sin, but also in respect of the present fault of entertaining such
fancies, which:of themselves, though they should
never proceed further, are a great abomination before God. Secondly, have
a special care to flee idleness, which is the proper soilfor
these filthy weeds to grow in, and keep thyself always
busied in some innocent or virtuous employment. Thirdly, never suffer thyself
to recall any unclean passages of thy former life with delight, for that is
to act over the sin again, and will be so reckoned by God; nay, perhaps thus
deliberately to think of it may be a greater guilt than a rash acting of
it. Fourthly, forbear the company of such light and wanton persons as either
by the filthiness of their discourse, or any other means, may be a snare to
thee. Fifthly, pray earnestly that God would give thee the spirit of purity,
especially at the time of any present temptation. Bring the unclean devil
to CHRIST to be cast out, as did the man in the gospel; and if it will not
be cast out with prayer alone, add fasting to it; but be sure you do not keep
up the flame by any high or immoderate feeding. The last remedy, when the
former proves vain, is marriage, which becomes a duty to him that cannot live
innocently without it. But even here, there must be care taken, lest this,
which should be for his good, be-come an occasion of falling, for want of
sobriety in the use of marriage.
III. Of
Temperance.
2O. The
second virtue that concerns our bodies is temperance; and the exercises of
that are divers: as, first, temperance in eating; secondly, in drinking; thirdly,
in sleep; fourthly, in apparel. I shall speak of them severally; and first,
of temperance in eating. This temperance is observed when our eating is agreeable
to those ends to which eating is by God and nature designed; those are first,
the being; secondly, the well-being of our bodies.
21. Man is of such a frame, that
eating becomes necessary to him for the preserving his life; hunger being
a natural disease, which will prove deadly, if not prevented, and the only
physic for it is eating, which is therefore a necessary means of keeping us
alive: and that is the first end of eating. And as men use not to take physic
for pleasure, but remedy, so neither should they eat.
22. But, secondly, God has been so
bountiful, as to provide not only for the being, but the well-being of our
bodies; and therefore we are not tied to such strictness that we may eat no
more than will just keep us from starving, but we may also eat whatsoever,
either for kind or quantity, most tends to the health and welfare of them.
Now, that eating which is agreeable to these ends, is within the bounds of
temperance; as, on the contrary, whatsoever is contrary to them is a transgression
against it. He therefore that sets up to himself other ends of eating, as
either the pleasing of his taste, or (what is yet worse,) the pampering of
his body, that he may the better serve his lust, he directly thwarts and crosses
those ends of God; for he that has those aims, does that which is contrary
to health; yea, to life itself, as appears by the many diseases and untimely
deaths which surfeiting and uncleanness daily bring on men.
23. He therefore that will practice
this virtue of temperance, must neither eat so much, nor of any such sorts
of meat, (provided he can have other,) as may he hurtful to his health. What
the sorts or quantities should be, is impossible
to set down, for that differs according to the several constitutions of men.
Some men may, with temperance, eat a great deal, because their stomachs require
it; when another may be guilty of intemperance in eating but half so much,
because it is `more than is useful to him. And so also for the sorts of meat,
it may be niceness and luxury for some to be curious in them, when yet some
degree of it may be necessary to a weak stomach, which, not out of wantonness,
but disease, cannot eat the coarser meats. But I think it may in general be
said, that, to healthful bodies, the plainest meats are generally the most
wholesome, but every man in this must be left to judge for himself; and that
he may do it aright, he must be careful that he never suffer him-self to be
enslaved to his palate.
24. The second is temperance in drinking;
and the ends of eating and drinking being much the same, I can give no other
direct rules in this, than what were given in the former, to wit, that we
drink neither of. such sorts of liquor, nor in such
quantities, as may not agree with the right ends of drinking, the preserving
our lives and healths. Only in this there will be
need of one caution; for our understandings being in more danger to be hurt
by drinking than meat, we must take care to keep that safe, and rather not
drink what we might safely, in respect of our health, if it be in danger to
distemper our reason. Some men's brains may be so weak, that their heads cannot
bear that quantity of drink which would do their bodies no harm; and whoever
is of this temper must strictly abstain from that degree of drink, or that
sort of it, which he finds has that effect; yea, though it do in other respects
appear not only safe, but useful to his health. For though
we are to preserve our healths, yet we are not to
do it by a sin.
25. But, alas! of
those multitudes of drunkards we have in the world, this is the case of very
few, most of them going far beyond what their health requires, even to the
utter destruction thereof. And therefore, as it is plain men have set up to
themselves some other ends of drinking than those allowable ones fore-mentioned,
it may not be amiss a little to explain what they are, and withal to show
the unreasonableness of them.
26. The first is that which they
call good fellowship; one man drinks to keep another company. But I would
ask such a one, whether, if that man were drinking poison, he would pledge
him for company? If he would not, by the very same, nay, far greater reason,
he is not to do this: for immoderate drinking- is poison; perhaps it does
not always work death immediate, (yet there want not many instances of its
having done even that)) but that the custom of it does usually bring men to
their ends, is past doubt: and therefore though the poison work slowly, yet
it is still poison. But, however, it does at the present work that which a
wise man would more abhor than death; it works madness and frenzy, turns the
man into a beast, by drowning that reason which would difference him from
one. Certainly the effects of drink are such, that had being drunk been first
enjoined as a punishment, we should have thought him a more than ordinary
tyrant that had invented it.
27. A second end of drinking is said
to be the maintaining of friendship and kindness amongst men. But this is
strange that men should do that towards the maintaining of friendship, which
is really the greatest mischief that can be done to any man. Did ever any
think to befriend a man by helping him to destroy his estate, his credit,
his life? Yet he that thus drinks with a man, does
this, and much more; he ruins his reason, yea, his soul, and yet this must
be called the way of preserving of friendship. This is so ridiculous, that
one would think none could own it, but when he was actually drunk. But besides,
alas! experience shows us, that this is fitter to beget quarrels
than preserve kindness, as the many drunken brawls we every day see, with
the wounds, and sometimes murders, that accompany them, witness.
28. A third end is said to be the
cheering of their spirits, making them merry. But sure if the mirth be such;
that reason must be turned out of.doors before it
begin, it will be very little worth; one allay say with Solomon, that "
the laughter of such fools is madness." And sure they that will be drunk
to put themselves in this temper, must by the same reason be
glad of a frenzy, if they could but be sure it would be of the merry sort.
But little do these merry folks think what sadness they are all this while
heaping up to themselves often in this world, when by some mad pranks they
play in their jollity, they bring mischief upon themselves; but how-ever certainly
in another, where this mirth will be sadly reckoned for.
29. A fourth end is said to be the
putting away of cares: but I shall ask what those cares are? Be they such
as should be put away? Perhaps they are some cheeks of conscience which must
be thus charmed. And I doubt this has proved too effectual with many to the
laying them asleep. But this is the wickedest folly in the world; for if you
thinkest not these checks to have something considerable in
them, why do they trouble thee? But if you do, it is impossible you can hope
this can long secure thee from them. You may thus stop their mouths for awhile,
but they will one day cry the louder for it. Suppose a thief or a murderer
knew he was pursued to be brought to justice, would he, think you, to put
away the fear of being hanged, fall to drinking, and in the mean time take
no care for his escape? Yet this is the very case here, thy conscience tells
thee of thy danger, that you must ere long be brought before God's judgment-seat;
and is it, not madness for thee, instead of endeavoring to get thy pardon,
to drink away the thoughts of thy danger? But, in the second place, suppose
these cares be some worldly ones, and such as are fit to be put away; then
for shame do not disgrace thy reason, thy Christianity, as not to let them
be as forcible to that end as a little drink. Thy reason will tell thee,
it is in vain to care where care will bring no ad-vantage; and thy Christianity
will direct thee to one, on whom you may safely " cast all thy cares,
for he careth for thee," 1 Pet. 5: 7. And therefore, unless
thou meanest to renounce being both a man and a Christian, never betake thee
to this pitiful shift, to rid thee of thy cares. But besides, this will not
do the deed neither, for though it may at the present keep thee from the sense
of thy cares, yet when that is over, they will return again with greater violence;
and if you have any con-science, bring a new care with then, even that which
arises from the guilt of so foul a sin.
3O. A fifth
end is said to be the passing away time. This, though it be as unreasonable
as any of the former; yet, by the way, it serves to reproach idleness, which
is, it seems, so burdensome a thing, that even this vilest employment is preferred
before it. But this is in many a very false plea. For they often spend time
at the pot, not only when they have nothing else to do, but even to the neglect
of their most necessary business. However, it is in all a most unreasonable
one, for there is no man but he may find somewhat or other to employ himself
in. If he have little worldly business of his own, he may do somewhat to the
benefit of others; but, how-ever, there is no man but has a soul, and if he
will look carefully to that, he need not complain for want of business, where
there are so many corruptions to mortify, so many inclinations to watch over,
so many temptations (whereof this of drunkenness is not the least,) to resist,
the graces of God to improve, and former neglects of all these to lament,
sure there can never want employment; for all these require time, and so men
at their deaths find. For those that have all their lives made it their business
to give away their time, would then give all the
world to redeem it. And sure where there is much leisure from worldly affairs,
God expects to have the more time employed in spiritual exercises.
31. A sixth end is said to be the
preventing that reproach which is cast on those that will be stricter than
their neighbors. But in answer to this, I shall first ask, what is the harm
of such reproach? Sure it cannot equal the least of those mischiefs
drunkenness betrays us to. Nay, if we will take our Savior's word, it is a happiness. " Blessed,"
says he, " are ye when men shall revile you, and say all manner of evil
against you for my sake," Matt. 5: 11. And St. Peter tells us, 1 Pet.
4: 14, " If ye be reproached for the name of
CHRIST, happy are ye." And sure, to be reproached for obedience to any
command of CHRIST's, is to be reproached
for his name. Secondly, Consider the heavy doom CHRIST has pronounced on those
that are ashamed of him, and so are all those that for fear of reproach shall
shrink from their obedience to him, Mark 8: 38, " Whosoever shall be
ashamed of me and of my words, in this adulterous and sinful generation, of
him shall the Son of Man be ashamed when he cometh in the glory of the Father
with the holy angels." There is none but will at that day desire to be
owned by CHRIST: but whoever will not here own him, that is, cleave close
to his commands, notwith, standing all the scorns,
nay, persecutions of the world, shall then certainly be cast off by him.
32. There is a seventh end, which
though every man thinks too base to own, yet it is too plain it prevails with
many; and that is the bare pleasure of the drink: but to these I confess it
will not be fit to say much; for he that is come into this lamentable degree
of sottishness is not likely to receive benefit
by any thing that can be said. Yet let me tell even this man, that he of all
others has the most means of discerning his fault; for this being such a ground
of drinking as nobody will own, he is condemned of himself, yea, and all his
fellow-drunkards too; for their denying it is a plain sign they acknowledge
it a most abominable thing. And if Esau were called a profane person, Heb.
12: 16, for " selling his birth-right for a mess of pottage," and
that too when he had the necessity of hunger upon him; what name of reproach
can be bad enough for him who sells his health, his reason, his GOD, his soul,
for a cup of drink, and that when he is so far from needing it, that perhaps
he has you already than he can keep
33. I suppose 1 have now showed you
the unreasonableness of those motives, which are ordinarily brought in excuse
of this sin. I am farther to tell you, that it is not only that degree of
drunkenness which makes men able neither to go nor speak, which is to be looked
on as a sin, but all lower degrees which at all work upon the understanding,
whether by dulling it and making it less fit for any employment, or by making
it too light and airy, or inflaming men to rage and fury. These, or whatever
else make any change in the man, are to be reckoned
into this sin of drunkenness. Nay, farther, the drinking beyond the natural
ends of drinking, that is, beyond moderate refreshment, is a sirs, though
by the strength of a man's brain it makes not the least change in him; and
therefore those, that are not actually drunk, yet can spend whole days, or
any considerable part of them, in drinking, are so far from being innocent,
that that greater woe belongs to them which is pronounced, Isa.
5: 22, against those that are mighty to drink.
34. Nay, this man is guilty of the
greatest waste: first, of the good creatures of God: that drink which is by
God's providence intended for the refreshing and relieving of us is abused
and misspent, when it is drunk beyond that measure which those ends require.
But, in the second place, this is a waste of that which is much more precious,
our time, which is allowed us by God to work out our salvation, and must be
strictly reckoned for, and therefore ought every minute of it to be most thriftily
husbanded to that end; but when it is thus laid out, it tends to the direct
contrary, even to the working out our damnation. Besides, he that thus drinks,
though he escape being drunk himself, is guilty of all the drunkenness that
any of his company fall under; for he gives them encouragement to drink on
by his example.
35. Therefore, Christian reader,
let me now entreat, nay, conjure thee, by all that love you tightest to have
to the honor of GOD, the credit of thy Christian profession, the eternal
welfare of thine own son, the prosperity of the church and nation whereof
you art a member; nay, by that love which certainly you have to thy own temporal
welfare, to think sadly of what has been spoken, and then judge whether there
be any pleasure in this sin which can be any tolerable recompence for all those mischiefs
it brings with it. I am confident no man in his wits can think there is; and
if there be not, then be ashamed to be any longer that fool which shall make
so wretched a bargain, but begin at this instant a firm and a faithful resolution,
never once more to be guilty of this swinish sin, and in the fear of God betake
thee to a strict temperance; which when you have done, you wilt find you have
made, not only a gainful, but a pleasant exchange; for there is no man that
has tried both courses, but his own heart will tell him there is infinitely
more present comfort and pleasure in sobriety and temperance, than ever all
his drunken revellings afforded him.
Of
Temperance in Sleep.
36. The third part of temperance
concerns sleep. And temperance in that also must be measured by the end for
which sleep was ordained by GOD, which was only the refreshing and supporting
our bodies, which being of such a temper that continual labor wearies them
out, sleep comes as a medicine to that weariness, as a repairer of that decay,
that so we may be enabled to such labors as the duties of religion, or works
of our calling require of us. Sleep was intended to make us more profitable,
not more idle; as we give rest to our beasts, not that we are pleased
with their doing nothing, but that they may do us the better service.
37. By this therefore you may judge
what is temperate sleeping; that which tends to the refreshing and making
us more lively and fit for action, and to that end a mode-rate degree serves
best. It will be impossible to set down just how many hours is that moderate
degree,because as in eating, so in
sleep, some constitutions re-quire more than others. Every man's own experience
must in this judge for him; but then let him judge uprightly, and not consult
with his sdoes in the case; for that will still
cry, " A little more sleep, a little more slumber, a little more folding
of the hands to sleep," Prov. 24: 33. But take
only so much as he really finds to tend to the end afore-mentioned.
38. He that does not thus limit himself, falls into several sins under this general one of
sloth. As first, he wastes his time, that precious talent which was committed
to him by God to improve, which he that sleeps away, does like him in the
gospel, Matt. 25: 18, "hide it in the earth," when he should be
trading with it; and you know what was the doom of that unprofitable servant,
" Cast ye him into outer darkness:" he that gives himself to darkness
of sleep here, shall there have darkness without sleep, but with " weeping
and gnashing of teeth." Secondly, he injures his body: immoderate sleep
fills that full of diseases, makes it a very sink of humors, as daily experience
shows. Thirdly, he injures his soul, and that not only in robbing it of the
service of the body, but in dulling its faculties, making them unfit for those
employments to which God has designed them; of all which ill husbandry the
poor soul must one day give account. Nay, lastly, he affronts and despises
God him-self in it, by crossing the very end of his creation, which was to
serve God in an active obedience; but he that sleeps away his life, directly
thwarts that, and when God says, " Man is born to labor," his practice
says the direct contrary. Take heed therefore of giving
thyself to immoderate sleep, which is the committing so many sins in one.
39. But besides the sin of it, it
is very hurtful in other respects; it is the sure bane of thy outward testate,
wherein the sluggish person shall never thrive, according to that observation
of the wise man, Prov. 23: 21, " Drowsiness
shall cover a man with rags;" nay, indeed it can scarce be said that
the sluggard lives. Sleep, you know, is a kind of death, and he that gives
himself up to it, what does he but die before his time? Therefore
if untimely death be a curse, it must needs be a
strange folly to choose that from our own sloth, which we dread so much from
God's hand.
4O. The
last part of temperance is that of apparel, which we are to measure by the
ends for which clothing should be used. Those are especially these three:
first, the hiding of nakedness. This was the first occasion of apparel. From
this end we are likewise engaged to have our apparel modest, such as may answer
this end of covering our shame: and therefore all immodest fashions, which
may either argue the wantonness of the wearer, or provoke that of the beholder,
are to be avoided.
41. A second end of apparel is the
fencing the body from cold, to preserve the health thereof. And this end we
must likewise observe in our clothing; we must wear such kind of habits as
may keep us in convenient warmth. And this is transgressed, when, out of the
vanity of being in fashion, we put ourselves in such clothing as either will
not defend us from cold, or is some other way so uneasy, that it is rather
a hurt than a benefit to our bodies. This is a most ridiculous folly, and
yet that which people that take a pride in their clothes are usually guilty
of.
42. A third end of apparel is the
distinguishing of persons; and that first, in respect of sex; secondly, in
respect of qualities. First, clothes are to make difference of sex; this has
been observed by all nations, the habits of men and women have always been
divers. And God himself expressly provided for it among the Jews, by commanding
the man should not wear the apparel of the woman, nor the woman of the man.
But then, secondly, there is also a distinction of qualities: God has placed
some in a higher condition than others, and in proportion to their condition
it befits their clothing to be. "Gorgeous apparel," our Savior tells
us "is for kings' courts," Luke 7: 25. Now this end of apparel should
also be observed. Men and women should content themselves with that sort of
clothing which agrees with their sex and condition, not striving to equal
that of a higher rank, not yet making it matter of envy among those of their
own estate, vying who shall be finest; but let every man clothe himself in
such sober attire as befits his place and calling, and not think himself disparaged
if his neighbors have better than he.
43. And let all remember, that clothes
are things which add no true worth to any, and therefore it is an intolerable
vanity to spend any considerable part either of their thoughts, time, or wealth
upon them, or to value themselves ever the more for them, or despise their
poor brethren that want them. But if they desire to adorn themselves, let
it be, as St. Peter adviseth the women of his time,
1 Pet. 3: 4, " in the hidden man of the heart, even the ornament of a
meek and quiet spirit." Let them clothe themselves as richly as is possible,
with all Christian virtues, and that is the raiment that will set them out
lovely in God's eyes, yea, and in men's too, who, unless they be fools and
idiots, will more value thee for being good than fine; and sure one plain
coat you puttest upon a poor man's back, will better become thee than
twenty rich ones you shall put upon thine own.
CHAP. 7
OF
DUTIES TO OUR NEIGHBOR.
I. Of justice,
negative, positive. 2: Of the sin of murder; the heinousness of it, the punishments
of it, and the strange discoveries thereof.
Of
Duties to our Neighbor.
I COME now to the third part of duties,
those to our neighbor, which are by the apostle summed up in the word [righteousness,]
by which is meant not only bare justice, but. all kind of charity also, for that is now by the law of. CHRIST
become a debt to our neighbor, and it is a piece
of unrighteousness to defraud him of it. I shall therefore build all the particular
duties we owe tc our neighbor,
on those two general ones, justice and charity.
I.
Of Justice.
2. I begin with justice, whereof
there are two parts, the one negative, the other positive. The negative justice
is to do no wrong to any. The positive justice is to do right to all; that
is, to yield them whatsoever is due unto them. I shall first speak of the
negative justice, the not wronging any. This first part of justice extends
itself into several branches. A man may be injured either in his soul, his
body, his possessions, or credit; and therefore this duty of negative justice
lays a restraint on us in every of these; that we do no wrong to any man,
in respect either of his soul, his body, his possessions, or his credit.
3. First, This justice ties us to
do no hurt to his soul. And here my first work must be to examine what harm
it is that the soul can receive. It is, we know, an in-visible substance,
which we cannot reach with our eye, much less with our swords; yet for all
that, it is capable of being hurt and wounded, and that even to death.
4. The mind of a man may be wounded
with grief or sadness, as Solomon says, Prov. 15:
13, " By sorrow of heart the spirit is broken."
Therefore whoever does causelessly afflict or grieve his neighbor, he transgresseth this part of justice, and wrongs his soul. This
sort of injury spiteful men are very often guilty of, they will do things
by which themselves reap no good, only that they
may vex and grieve another. This is a most savage humor, thus to take pleasure
in the sadness of others; and whoever harbors it in his heart, may truly be
said to be possessed with the devil; for it is the nature only of those accursed
spirits to delight in the miseries of men,; and, till that be cast out, they
are fit only to dwell, as the possessed person did, Mark 5: 3, among gravesand tombs, where there are none capable of receiving
affliction by them.
5. It is a still greater wrong to
the soul, to draw a man to sin. Sin is the disease and wound of the soul,
as being the direct contrary to grace, which is the health and soundness of
it. Now this wound we give to every soul, whom we do by any means whatsoever
draw into sin.
6. The ways of doing that are divers:
I shall mention some of them, whereof though some are more direct than others,
yet all tend to the same end. Of the more direct ones there is, first, the
commanding of sin, that is, when a person that has power over another shall
re-quire him to do something which is unlawful; an example of this we have
in Nebuchadnezzar's commanding the worship of the golden image, Dan. 3: 4,
and his copy is imitated by any parent or master, who shall require his child
or servant to do any unlawful act. Secondly, there is counselling
of sin, when men advise and persuade others to any wickedness. Thirdly, there
is enticing and alluring to sin, by setting before men the pleasures or profits
they shall reap by it. Fourthly, there is assistance in sin, that is, when
men aid and help others either in contriving or acting a sin. All these are
direct means of bringing this great evil of sin upon our brethren.
7. There are also others, which,
though more indirect, may yet be as effectual towards that ill end. As first,
example in sin; he that sets others an ill pattern, does his part to make
them imitate it, and too often it has that effect; there being generally nothing
more forcible to bring men into any sinful practice, than the seeing it used
by others, as might be instanced in many sins, to which there is no other
temptation but their being in fashion. Secondly, there is encouragement in
sin, when either by approving, or, at least, by not showing a dislike, we
give others confidence to go on in their wickedness. A third means is by
justifying and defending any sinful act of another's, for by that we do not
only confirm him in his evil, but endanger the drawing others to the like,
who may be the more inclinable to it, when they shall hear it so pleaded for..
Lastly, the bringing up any reproach upon strict living, as those do who have
the ways of God in derision. This is worse than all the former, not only in
respect of the man who is guilty of it, (as it is an evidence of the great
profaneness of his own heart) but also in regard of others, it having a more
general ill effect than any of the former can have; it being the betraying
men, not only to some single acts of disobedience to CHRIST, but even to
the casting off all subjection to him; by all these means we may draw on
our-selves this great guilt of wounding the souls of our brethren.
8. It would be too long to instance
in all the sins, in which it is usual for men to ensnare others, as drunkenness,
uncleanness, rebellion, and a multitude more. But it will concern every man,
for his own particular, to consider sadly what mischiefs
of this kind he has done to any, by all, or any of these means, and to weigh
well the greatness of the injury. Men are apt to boast of their innocency towards their neighbors, that they have done wrong
to no man; but God knows, many that thus brag are of all others the most injurious
persons: perhaps they have not maimed his body, nor stolen his goods; but,
alas! the body is but the case and cover of the man, and the goods some appurtenances
to that; it is the soul is the man, and that they can wound without remorse,
and yet, with the adulteress, Prov. 30: 2O, "
say, they have done no wickedness;" but glory of their friendly behavior
to those whom they thus betray to eternal ruin. For whomsoever you hast-
drawn to any sin, you have done thy part to insure to those endless flames.
And then think with thyself how base a treachery
this is. You wouldst call him a treacherous villain, that
should, while he pre-tends to embrace a man, secretly stab him. But this of
thine is far beyond that, as the soul is of more
value than the body. And remember yet farther, that besides the cruelty of
it to thy poor brother, it is also most dangerous to thyself, it being that
against which CHRIST has pronounced a woe: Matt. 18: 7, and ver. 6, he tells us, that " whoever shall offend (that
is, draw into sin) any of these little ones, it were better for him that a
millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth
of the sea." You may plunge thy poor brother into perdition, but you
art like to bear him company to that place of torment.
9. Let therefore
thy own and his danger beget in thee a sense of the greatness of this sin,
this horrid piece of injustice to the precious soul of thy neighbor. Bethink
thyself seriously to whom you have been thus cruel whom you have enticed to
drinking, allured to lust, stirred up to rage, whom you have encouraged in
any ill course, or discouraged by thy scoffings
at piety in general, or at any strict walking of his in particular; and then
draw up a bill of indictment, accuse and condemn thy-self as a Cain, a murderer
of thy brother, heartily and deeply bewail all thy guilt of this kind, and
resolve never once more to be a stumbling-block in thy brother's way.
1O. But this is not all, there must
be some fruits of this repentance brought forth. Now in all sins of injustice,
restitution is a necessary fruit of repentance, and so it is here; you have
committed an act (perhaps many) of high injustice to the soul of thy brother;
you have robbed it of its innocency, of its title
to heaven; you must. now endeavor to restore all
this to it again, by being more earnest and industrious to win him to repentance
than ever you wast to draw him to sin. Use now as
much art to convince him of the danger, as ever you didst to flatter him with
the pleasure of his vice. In a word, countermine thy-self by using all those
means to recover him that you didst to destroy him, and be more diligent and
zealous in it; for it is necessary you should, both in regard of him and thyself.
First, in respect of him, because there is in man's nature so much a greater
readiness to evil than to good, that there will need much more pains to instil the one into him, than the other. Besides, the man
is supposed to be already accustomed to the contrary, which will add much
to the difficulty of the work. Then in respect of thyself, if you be a true
penitent, you wilt think thyself obliged, as St. Paul did, to " labor
more abundantly," and wilt be ashamed that when you art trading for GOD,
bringing back a soul to him, you should not pursue it with more earnestness
than when you wast an agent of SATAN's;
besides, the remembrance that you wast a means of
bringing this poor soul into this snare, must quicken thy diligence to get
him out of it. So much for the first part of negative justice,
in respect of the souls of our brethren.
II. Of
Murder.
11. The second concerns the bodies,
and to those also this justice binds thee to do no wrong. Now of wrongs to
the body there may be several degrees, the highest of them is killing, taking
away the life; this is forbid in the very letter of the sixth commandment;
" You shall do no murder." Besides the direct ways
of killing, there is another, and that is, when by our persuasions we draw
a man to do that which tends to the shortening of his life; he that makes
his neighbor drunk, if by that drunken-nets the man comes to any mortal hurt,
he that made him drunk is not clear of his death. If drinking cast him into
a disease, and that disease kill him, I know not how he that drew him to that
excess can acquit himself of his murder in the eyes of God. I wish those who
make it their business to draw in customers to that trade of debauchery, would
consider it. There is yet another way of bringing this guilt upon ourselves;
and that is, by stirring up others to it, or to that degree of anger and revenge
which produce it; and he that sets two persons at variance, or seeing them
already so, blows the coals; if murder ensue, certainly has his share in the
guilt.
12. Now for the heinousness of murder,
I suppose none can be ignorant that it is of the deepest die. This we may
see in the first act of this kind that ever was committed: AbeI's blood cries from the earth, as God tells Cain; yea,
the guilt of this sin is such, that it leaves a stain even upon the land where
it is committed, such as is not to be washed out, but by the blood of the
murderer, as appears, Deut. six. 12, 13. The land
cannot be purged of blood, but by the blood of him that shed it; and therefore,
though in other cases, the fleeing to the altar secured a man, yet in this,
of wilful murder, no such refuge was allowed; but such a one
was to be taken even thence, and delivered up to justice, Exod.
21: 14, " You shall take him from my altar, that he may die." This
sin is not only an injury to our brother, but the highest despite towards
God himself; for it is the de-facing of his image, which he has stamped upon
man. Nay, yet further, it is the usurping God's proper right and authority.
For it is God alone that has right to dispose of the life of man; it was he
alone that gave it, and he alone has power to take it away; but he that murders
a man, does, as it were, wrest this power out of God's hand, which is the
highest pitch of rebellious presumption.
13. And as the sin is great, so likewise
is the punishmerrt; we see it frequently very great,
and remarkable even in this world, (besides those most fearful effects of
it in the next) blood not only cries, but it cries for vengeance; and the
great God of recompences, as he styles himself,
will not fail to hear it. Very many examples the Scriptures give us of this;
Ahab and Jezebel, that murdered innocent Naboth,
for greediness of his vine-yard, were themselves slain, and the dogs licked
their blood, in the place where they had shed his. Many more instances might
be given of this, out of the sacred story; and many also out of human, there
having been no age but has yielded multitudes of examples of this kind; so
that every man may furnish himself out of the observavations
of his own time.
14. And it is worth our notice, what
strange, and even miraculous means it has often pleased God to use, for the
discovery of this sin; the very brute creatures have often been made instruments
of it; nay, often the horror of a man's own conscience has made him betray
himself; so that it is not any closeness a man uses in the acting of this
sin, that can secure him from the vengeance of it; for he can never shut out
his own conscience, that will in spite of him be privy to the fact, and that
very often proves the means of discovering it to the world; or if it should
not do that, yet it will sure act revenge on him, it will be such a hell within
him, as will be worse than death. This we have seen in many, who, after the
commission of this sin, have never been able to enjoy a minute's rest, but
have had that intolerable anguish of mind, that they have chosen to be their
own murderers, rather than live in it. These are the usual effects of this
sin, even in this world; but those in another are yet more dreadful, where
surely the highest degrees of torment belong to this high pitch of wickedness:
for if, as our Savior tells us, Matt. 5: 22, hell-fire be the portion of him
that shall but call his brother, fool; what greater degree of those burnings
can we think proportionable to this so much greater injury?
15. The consideration of all this
ought to possess us with the greatest horror and abomination of this sin,
and to make us extremely watchful of ourselves, that we never fall into it;
and to that end, to prevent all those occasions which may insensibly draw
us into this pit. If, therefore, you wilt be sure never to kill a man in thy
rage, be sure never to be in that rage; for if you permittest
thyself to that, you can have no security against the other; anger being a
madness that suffers us not to consider, or know what we do, when it has once
possessed us. Therefore, when you findest thyself
to be once inflamed, think betimes. whither this
may lead thee, if you lettest loose to it, and immediately
put the bridle upon this head-strong passion. So again, if you wilt be sure
thy malice shall not draw thee to it, be sure never to harbour
one malicious thought, Be therefore careful, at the
very first approach of this treacherous guest, to shut the doors against it.
So also, if you wilt be sure thy covetousness, thy ambition, thy lust, or
any other sinful desire, shall not betray thee to it, be sure you never permit
any of them to enter in; for if they be once entertained in the heart, they
will be past thy control, and hurry thee to this or any other sin, that may
serve their ends. In the like manner, if you wouldst not be guilty of any
of the mortal effects of thy neighbor's drunkenness, be sure not to entice
him to it, nor accompany him at it; and to that purpose do not allow thyself
in the same practice, for if you do, you wilt be laboring to get company at
it. Lastly, if you wilt not be guilty of the murder committed by another,
take heed you never give any encouragement to it, or contribute any thing
to that hatred or contention that may be the cause of it. For when you have
either kindled or bloomed the fire, what knows you whom it may consume? Bring
always as much water as you can to quench, but never bring one drop of oil
to increase the flame. The like may be said of all other occasions of this
sin; and this careful preserving ourselves from these, is the only sure way
to keep us from this sin: therefore, as ever you wouldst keep thyself innocent
from the great offence, guard thee, warily, from all steps and approaches
towards it.
16. But although murder be the greatest, yet it is not the only injury that may be
done to the body of our neighbor; there are others which are also of a very
high nature. The next in degree to this, is maiming him, depriving him of
any member, or at least of the use of it; and this is a very great wrong to
him, as we may discern by the judgment of God himself, in the case of the
bond-servant, who should, by his master's means, lose a member, Exod.
21: 26, the freedom of his whole life was thought but a reasonable recompence for it; " He shall let him go free,"
says the text, " for his eye;" nay, though it were a less considerable
part, if it were but a tooth, which of all others may be lost with the least
damage, yet the same amends was to be made him. If the person be poor, one
that must labor for his living, the injury is yet greater; it is such as may,
in effect, amount to the former sin of murder; for, as the wise man says,
Eccl. xxxiv. 22, " The poor man's bread is his
life, and he that deprives him thereof, is a blood-shedder" And therefore
he that deprives him of the means of getting his bread, by disabling him
from labor, is surely no less guilty.
17. And though unprofitable revenge
be not now allowed to us Christians, yet sure it is the part
of every one who has done this injury, to make what satisfaction lies in his
power. It is true, he cannot restore a limb again, (which, by the way, should
make men wary how they do those mischiefs which
it is impossible for them to repair) but yet he may satisfy for some of the
ill effects of that loss. If that have brought the man to want, he may, nay,
he must, if he have but the least ability, relieve and support him; yea, though
it be by his own extraordinary labor. For if it be a duty of us all to be
eyes to the blind, and feet to the lame, much more must we be so to them whom
ourselves have made blind and lame. There-fore whoever has done this injury
to any of his poor brethren, let him know he is bound to do all that is possible
towards the repairing of it; if he do not, every new suffering that the poor
man's wants bring upon him, be-comes a new accusation against him at the tribunal
of the just Judge.
18. There are yet other degrees of
injury to the body of our neighbor. I shall mention only two more, wounds
and stripes; a man may wound another, which, though it finally cause loss
neither of life nor limb, is yet an endangering of both; and the like may
be said of stripes; both of which, however, are painful at the pre-sent, nay,
perhaps, long after: and pain, of all temporal evils, is to be accounted the
greatest; for it is not only an evil in itself, but it is such an one that
permits us not, whilst we are under it, to enjoy any good, a man in pain¶aving no taste of any of the greatest delights. If any man despise these as light injuries, let him ask himself how
he would like it, to have his own body slashed and bruised, and put to pass
under those painful means of cure, which are many times necessary in such
cases? I presume there is no man would willingly undergo this from another;
and why, then, should you offer it to him?
19. This savageness and cruelty of
mind is so unbecoming a man, that he is not allowed to use it, even to his
beast. How intolerable is it, then, towards those that are of the same nature,
and which is more, are heirs of the same eternal hopes with us? They that
shall thus transgress against their neighbors, in any of the fore-going particulars,
or whatever else is hurtful to the body, are unjust persons, want even this
lower sort of justice, the negative, to their neighbors, in respect of their
bodies.
2O. Neither can any man excuse himself
by saying, what he has done was only in return of some injury offered him;
for suppose it be so, that he have indeed rec